FabSwingers.com forum: Help with my profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey everyone, having trouble with reply’s let alone meets and was looking for a little advice, would like to know if anyone can give me any tips on my profile to help.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey everyone, having trouble with reply’s let alone meets and was looking for a little advice, would like to know if anyone can give me any tips on my profile to help.

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Same issue. Except you have a pic and great body, and I dont lol, I don't believe you entirely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Honestly have no reason to lie, I never struggle in real life but on here have no luck

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By *ittle DancerWoman
over a year ago

Leslie, Glenrothes

What sort of messages are you sending to people?

Are you reading their profile *first* to make sure they’re looking for the same as you and that your message would be welcomed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What sort of messages are you sending to people?

Are you reading their profile *first* to make sure they’re looking for the same as you and that your message would be welcomed?"

Daamnn you live so far away. Too bad.id be interested...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Profile text isn't bad OP but it's also not "WOW" is mainly about what you're looking for with a few generic phrases thrown in - the "anything you want to know just ask" line is a little clichés and lazy too.

You need to reflect some personality and stand out from the crowd with a little originality - don't expect people to ask, try and tell them up front about you, what you're looking for and also what you think you can offer.

Your pics aren't bad but could be better - you can get some great results with a phone/tablet using the timer function and some basic filters and cropping - take a look around at other well verified single guy profiles for ideas if you're stuck for inspiration and try and make them more about you and your body than your cock.

You've only been here 4 months which is no time at all in Fab terms - it can take ages to get that elusive first meet but with time, patience and the right approach it can be a very positive experience.

Finally if you're finding cold messaging is not working for you - consider getting along to clubs or organised socials or even getting more involved in the forums or chat rooms which are all great ways of getting to know people and them you.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your feedback it’s so difficult for me to reflect my personality in text have no bother in real world haha

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

You are good looking, but your face photo is frowning. Try a relaxed face or smiling. Take lots of selfies and pick the best.

Maybe it's not the profile. It could be the message you are sending.

Look atvthe person's profile and see if you sound like who they are looking for . Pick out something about their profile and comment on it. e.g. I see you are interested in xyz, that's something I want to learn more about/ enjoy regularly etc.

The main thing is to make the lady believe that you really would like to meet HER, and not writing the same message to every female within a 30 mile radius of your house.

Be patient, polite and friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some great advice here OP, I would say though that your photos are rather cock-centric! Smiling face pic instead of frowning would be more enticing and I agree that your profile doesn't actually say a huge amount about you. I'm sure you'll get there as you look like an attractive guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are good looking, but your face photo is frowning. Try a relaxed face or smiling. Take lots of selfies and pick the best.

Maybe it's not the profile. It could be the message you are sending.

The main thing is to make the lady believe that you really would like to meet HER, and not writing the same message to every female within a 30 mile radius of your house.

Be patient, polite and friendly.

Lizzy, you sound like someone that gives honest advice. Would you be able to comment on my profile? I'd appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are good looking, but your face photo is frowning. Try a relaxed face or smiling. Take lots of selfies and pick the best.

Maybe it's not the profile. It could be the message you are sending.

The main thing is to make the lady believe that you really would like to meet HER, and not writing the same message to every female within a 30 mile radius of your house.

Be patient, polite and friendly.

Thanks for your feedback

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some great advice here OP, I would say though that your photos are rather cock-centric! Smiling face pic instead of frowning would be more enticing and I agree that your profile doesn't actually say a huge amount about you. I'm sure you'll get there as you look like an attractive guy

Thanks for your advice

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I think it's a reasonably well written profile. And as said your pics aren't bad. So maybe just a refinement with a bit more about what you're after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey everyone, having trouble with reply’s let alone meets and was looking for a little advice, would like to know if anyone can give me any tips on my profile to help.

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Hey just a few things maybe put women off but not all you have 7 pics 4 cock, your age range 18 to 99 and you didn't really say much about yourself your profile is all about sex which gives the impression all you think about is sex, your profiles your chance to impress like a CV if it doesn't appeal it doesn't appeal, rarely do women message you as a result of reading your profile, they generally look because you've messaged them with a polite witty message based in there profile, I didn’t notice if you accom but if you don't tell them why, hope that helps

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