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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys,

So I've been here in the group for more than 6 months but it hasn't gotten me anywhere. I have written a honest and short profile which I hope is ok now. What do you think? Pics wise, should I show more parts or keep the mystery?

I'd love your feedback because I don't really know how else to make this more appealing so far.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP your profile is better than most people who ask for advice so well done for making an effort.

I can suggest a few small changes.

I would remove the part where you talk about how long you've been in London and your masters degree. You don't need it and it can be something to chat about when you meet.

I would also suggest adding in something about what you are looking for. What are your preferences? What attracts you to a potential meet? Lots of people make the mistake of keeping their profile generic so they don't put people off. By being more specific the only people you will put off are those you wouldn't be interested in anyway. Just make sure to word things carefully. Saying "I'm most attracted to slimmer ladies" is a much nicer thing to say than "no fatties". Stating your preferences in a polite and friendly manner will help.

A good variety of photos is always popular. Lots of cock pics won't help you but one or two in amongst a good selection of pictures seems to be a good balance. Action pics are generally more appealing to men whereas women prefer something a little less graphic and more teasing (obviously this is a generalisation and there will be exceptions).

You can never have the perfect profile, just something that works for you and you are happy with. I make small changes to my profile often as my circumstances and desires can change.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

A well written profile. Personally I would put the bit about your nationality earlier on so people can see that English isn't your first language. A few more pics would be nice. Wishing you success on here.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Just a few minor tweaks here and there

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By *igh Tower69Man
over a year ago

Luton

Some good advice here we can all take on board. Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP your profile is better than most people who ask for advice so well done for making an effort.

I can suggest a few small changes.

I would remove the part where you talk about how long you've been in London and your masters degree. You don't need it and it can be something to chat about when you meet.

I would also suggest adding in something about what you are looking for. What are your preferences? What attracts you to a potential meet? Lots of people make the mistake of keeping their profile generic so they don't put people off. By being more specific the only people you will put off are those you wouldn't be interested in anyway. Just make sure to word things carefully. Saying "I'm most attracted to slimmer ladies" is a much nicer thing to say than "no fatties". Stating your preferences in a polite and friendly manner will help.

A good variety of photos is always popular. Lots of cock pics won't help you but one or two in amongst a good selection of pictures seems to be a good balance. Action pics are generally more appealing to men whereas women prefer something a little less graphic and more teasing (obviously this is a generalisation and there will be exceptions).

You can never have the perfect profile, just something that works for you and you are happy with. I make small changes to my profile often as my circumstances and desires can change."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the help. I'll try following the advice and hopefully I will be able to find someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP your profile is better than most people who ask for advice so well done for making an effort.

I can suggest a few small changes.

I would remove the part where you talk about how long you've been in London and your masters degree. You don't need it and it can be something to chat about when you meet.

I would also suggest adding in something about what you are looking for. What are your preferences? What attracts you to a potential meet? Lots of people make the mistake of keeping their profile generic so they don't put people off. By being more specific the only people you will put off are those you wouldn't be interested in anyway. Just make sure to word things carefully. Saying "I'm most attracted to slimmer ladies" is a much nicer thing to say than "no fatties". Stating your preferences in a polite and friendly manner will help.

A good variety of photos is always popular. Lots of cock pics won't help you but one or two in amongst a good selection of pictures seems to be a good balance. Action pics are generally more appealing to men whereas women prefer something a little less graphic and more teasing (obviously this is a generalisation and there will be exceptions).

You can never have the perfect profile, just something that works for you and you are happy with. I make small changes to my profile often as my circumstances and desires can change."

Totally agree!

I think far too many men on here think there is a “perfect profile” that will get you lots of messages & meets. But it doesn’t work that way, you could have an amazing profile with amazing pictures and still get no interest.

It’s just the way it is!

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