FabSwingers.com forum: Abusive messages

By *vilgasam OP Woman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

I was wondering how quick or slow admin are when they check feedback, I was sent an abusive message from someone who said they want to r*** me, I don’t want others to experience that too, when we send reports the site makes a point to explain they can’t tell us what happened to solve the problems so I wondered if anyone knew how long it would take for them to open the report

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By *ete4youMan
over a year ago

London

Really? What and you think thats an abusive message

Just ignore and block!

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

They take ages. So sorry u had to deal with that xx

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By *vilgasam OP Woman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

"They take ages. So sorry u had to deal with that xx"

I was hoping they’d be quick, I’m ok but others may be shook up by it

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Really? What and you think thats an abusive message

Just ignore and block! "
are u serious

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By *ete4youMan
over a year ago

London

Sorry OP my bad,i thought the first letter was a f not an r!

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I did hope u ment that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell them to fuck off loads of idiots in the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was wondering how quick or slow admin are when they check feedback, I was sent an abusive message from someone who said they want to r*** me, I don’t want others to experience that too, when we send reports the site makes a point to explain they can’t tell us what happened to solve the problems so I wondered if anyone knew how long it would take for them to open the report "
they don't get back to you and unfortunately that word has been used a lot on this site, I think it may even be a word you can't type in its entirety, you should not get abusive messages or abusive people but toughening up a little may help your time here

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Just tell them to fuck off loads of idiots in the world "

Andcrisk getting thrown off site? Ironically for sending abusive messages. Let admin deal with it. It can take forever.

Hope you are ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not OK to send that as a message I mean its one thing to suggest it as a role play but that sounds more like for real

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Some idiots on here. R*** is disgusting even when joked about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report, block and move on.

Not sure about the context of the message but if it's from some random twat who doesn't know you, where you live or work then you shouldn't feel threatened by it.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

I’m so sorry to hear that happened to you a little bit back I had numerous guys send me that it got to the point that I stopped accepting messages from men.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Really? What and you think thats an abusive message

Just ignore and block! "

IT IS an abusive message, a repulsive one at that. Glad you reported it op

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By *ete4youMan
over a year ago

London

"Really? What and you think thats an abusive message

Just ignore and block!

IT IS an abusive message, a repulsive one at that. Glad you reported it op

You meed to read back on the messages as i apologised!!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

It can take 48 hours for a report to be reviewed, but they are all looked into.

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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