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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe? "Don’t worry about it, I keep getting let down too but luckily I managed to cancel the hotel room I had booked! Not everybody is a dick I promise  | |||
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"I had a guy ghost me this week despite arranging this weekend etc which isn’t a bad thing as I’m now having to work " Same as me but with the opposite sex, it’s okay though as I’m now going to BSB  | |||
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"I had a guy ghost me this week despite arranging this weekend etc which isn’t a bad thing as I’m now having to work Same as me but with the opposite sex, it’s okay though as I’m now going to BSB "BSB? | |||
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"I had a guy ghost me this week despite arranging this weekend etc which isn’t a bad thing as I’m now having to work Same as me but with the opposite sex, it’s okay though as I’m now going to BSB
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"Sorry to read this op I havent arranged a meet for ages,but by the sound of the numerous posts,people are getting stood up quite often. I don't know why anyone would do that to someone?its just nasty . Hope you reported them op." It’s happening way too much, should be a feature where if you arrange to meet you have to click something like “meet arranged” then after if they don’t turn up you have to select whether they did or didn’t show up  | |||
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"I had a guy ghost me this week despite arranging this weekend etc which isn’t a bad thing as I’m now having to work Same as me but with the opposite sex, it’s okay though as I’m now going to BSB
BSB?
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"I had a guy ghost me this week despite arranging this weekend etc which isn’t a bad thing as I’m now having to work Same as me but with the opposite sex, it’s okay though as I’m now going to BSB
BSB?
British SuperBikes!
Awesome have fun! "Will try thank you! Wish there was some fabbers going that I could meet | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe? "We get let down a lot, However usually before we have wasted our time going to the meet. On the other hand there are some genuine people who do meet and turn up, so we focus on them now. | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe?
We get let down a lot, However usually before we have wasted our time going to the meet.
On the other hand there are some genuine people who do meet and turn up, so we focus on them now."I’m the same I’ll only meet genuine people | |||
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"Sorry to read this op I havent arranged a meet for ages,but by the sound of the numerous posts,people are getting stood up quite often. I don't know why anyone would do that to someone?its just nasty . Hope you reported them op." What? How do you report? Do I report the no shows? The one who never came back from the loo? The one who was much much younger than he claimed? The ones much much older? All of the above are verified more than once, so surely it must just be me?! | |||
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"Sorry to read this op I havent arranged a meet for ages,but by the sound of the numerous posts,people are getting stood up quite often. I don't know why anyone would do that to someone?its just nasty . Hope you reported them op. It’s happening way too much, should be a feature where if you arrange to meet you have to click something like “meet arranged” then after if they don’t turn up you have to select whether they did or didn’t show up "Ooooo that'd be amazing!! | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe? "If its happening "almost every time" you need to change your selection process.. As for the guy going to the loo and not returning "I'd take that as a not interested" | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe?
If its happening "almost every time" you need to change your selection process..
As for the guy going to the loo and not returning "I'd take that as a not interested" "Selection process? I've no interest in someone's wealth, other than the need for chemistry I'm not swayed by looks. I don't get it! I figured he wasn't interested! | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe?
If its happening "almost every time" you need to change your selection process..
As for the guy going to the loo and not returning "I'd take that as a not interested"
Selection process? I've no interest in someone's wealth, other than the need for chemistry I'm not swayed by looks. I don't get it!
I figured he wasn't interested! "Wealth ..where do you get wealth from.? 
Yep.. selection process who you're messaging, the checks , balances that you use when arranging a meet..
Your words "almost every time".. your process ain't working .. you need to change something . | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe?
If its happening "almost every time" you need to change your selection process..
As for the guy going to the loo and not returning "I'd take that as a not interested"
Selection process? I've no interest in someone's wealth, other than the need for chemistry I'm not swayed by looks. I don't get it!
I figured he wasn't interested! "I can’t speak for the person who posted that comment but my selection process doesn’t work on looks or wealth. The selection process is how you out the ones who aren’t likely to show or are a bit of a tool. | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe?
If its happening "almost every time" you need to change your selection process..
As for the guy going to the loo and not returning "I'd take that as a not interested"
Selection process? I've no interest in someone's wealth, other than the need for chemistry I'm not swayed by looks. I don't get it!
I figured he wasn't interested! "He meant how you select your meets! Do you chat with then on the phone/cam before meeting? Do you do socials before play meets? There does seem to be a lot of threads about this lately and for a change they're not all started by guys. | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe?
If its happening "almost every time" you need to change your selection process..
As for the guy going to the loo and not returning "I'd take that as a not interested"
Selection process? I've no interest in someone's wealth, other than the need for chemistry I'm not swayed by looks. I don't get it!
I figured he wasn't interested!
He meant how you select your meets!
Do you chat with then on the phone/cam before meeting?
Do you do socials before play meets?
There does seem to be a lot of threads about this lately and for a change they're not all started by guys. "Always a social after usually camchatting, I'm pan sexual but that just seems to make it harder! Always a social in a public space, as a single female I am able to accommodate but it takes a meet or two become willing! Do they just see it as too much like hard work?!  | |||
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"Sorry to read that OP.. Scouts honour that not everybody is a waste of time and having had a peep at your profile, all I can say is he must be mad! Onwards and upwards. Kisses,Bonnie "Aww thanks bonnie!  | |||
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"We’ve had one tonight as well. There’s a few dreamers on here xx" Aren't there just! | |||
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"Sorry for giggling OP but your title gave me a good laugh. On the topic of no shows etc.. it’s the same over here in Ireland. Lads arranging meets and chickening out or just being abducted by aliens.. who knows. Hope your luck changes. X " I hope yours does too! Glad you giggled! | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe?
If its happening "almost every time" you need to change your selection process..
As for the guy going to the loo and not returning "I'd take that as a not interested"
Selection process? I've no interest in someone's wealth, other than the need for chemistry I'm not swayed by looks. I don't get it!
I figured he wasn't interested!
I can’t speak for the person who posted that comment but my selection process doesn’t work on looks or wealth. The selection process is how you out the ones who aren’t likely to show or are a bit of a tool."Oooo okay, what should I be doing?! | |||
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"I don't meet newbies that often as I've a few long time regulars, last one was about 6 months ago. My free weekends are precious so had tomorrow planned for a 'new meet. Had a couple times planned but life got in the way... but planned tomorrow a while now. Don't like hotels much and booked a flat. Just got message saying sorry can't make it as been called in to work as a favour owed to another work colleague. It's happening a lit on fab and it's one reason I rarely do new meets since rejoining. Gutted as now it's probably a day working on my bike or sitting around. So I understand how you feel about fab OP.... its happening a lot." Oh that's super shit! I once had to cancel a meet on the day we had it planned for as I had a raging kidney infection, she sent bloody awful messages and he sent very strange and pushy ones! Quickly blocked! Although we had all met before! I'd never agree to work when I had something scintillating to attend to! | |||
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"It is a long game, Pigletchickster. However, with those looks and such a fine nom-de-fab, you will be a winner. " . I'll get back to you of you're right! Not met a man who's right in a long time so I know I won't forget you  | |||
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"Sorry you've had such a bad time, I don't trust much on Fab anymore, but the best way for me is just to go to clubs and chat to people in person right there. It takes away a lot of the stuff that seems to waste my time. Its safe, and if I do no more than have a social chat, a bit of a dance and make the new platonic friend, I'm all good with that" all of the above.. | |||
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"It is a long game, Pigletchickster. However, with those looks and such a fine nom-de-fab, you will be a winner. . I'll get back to you of you're right! Not met a man who's right in a long time so I know I won't forget you "Leicester isn’t far from me | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe? "We’ve pretty much given up on here as it’s become so bad . We always reckoned on a third of meets not showing up , and for six years that was the case . In the past six months it’s been more like two thirds not showing up for arranged meets . They say familiarity breeds contempt , so maybe we’ve been on here too long , and that’s why we attract so many time wasters . Well it hasn’t happened for six weeks now as we stopped meeting from fab , and we haven’t missed it one bit . So all good | |||
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"Sorry you've had such a bad time, I don't trust much on Fab anymore, but the best way for me is just to go to clubs and chat to people in person right there. It takes away a lot of the stuff that seems to waste my time. Its safe, and if I do no more than have a social chat, a bit of a dance and make the new platonic friend, I'm all good with that" Spot on advice. We find Clubs are generally the answer, sadly none close by but we are happy to travel and make a night of it. Accepted we always have each other to play with, but the atmosphere & people there is usually conducive to a lot more. Give Clubs a try | |||
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"I think that around 90% of the men on here have no intentions of meeting. They enjoy the build up, the chase, the pictures, the interest in themselves. A couple of weeks ago I had 8 no shows. They get blocked and reported. I’ve also heard probably every excuse possible for not turning up. Usuals are: car broken down. Kids mum hasn’t collected them. Got the trots. Called into work at the last minute " so true! They love the chase then dont show. Twice this week for me | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe? "Sorry to hear you’ve not been having much luck with your meets, it really isn’t usually the case for a single female in here! You’ve had some good advice from others already, but the main points I would suggest you look for are verifications, a phone chat (call him and withhold your number), and social meet somewhere public. I would also maybe rethink who you are actually looking for, adjust your preferences to give a wider search field? As a single male profile in here for a little over 5 years, I’ve enjoyed my private meets, and continue to do so. I can think of only 3 letdowns in all that time, but I’ve been selective about what I’m looking for, and from whom. Single females do very well on the club scene, try that for a while. You may find a couple of guys there for private meets afterwards. All the best | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe? "Some women are just bad pickers | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe? Some women are just bad pickers "I said yes to you....your point is proven pmsl | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe? Some women are just bad pickers
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe? Some women are just bad pickers
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"Sorry to read this op I havent arranged a meet for ages,but by the sound of the numerous posts,people are getting stood up quite often. I don't know why anyone would do that to someone?its just nasty . Hope you reported them op. What? How do you report? Do I report the no shows? The one who never came back from the loo? The one who was much much younger than he claimed? The ones much much older? All of the above are verified more than once, so surely it must just be me?!" Report to admin is all | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe? "Spend a long time getting to know somebody online before you meet them. Then you can out The "Wanna fuck?" guys. The ones looking for a quick one off fuck. The ones looking for another notch on the bedpost. The ones who don't respect you. The ones who think it's not called fabswingers it is called ifuckanybodywhoasksme.com. The liars. The idiots. The nutters. The dangerous ones. The cheaters who have a wife or girlfriend. The ones just looking for validation that they are still attractive to the opposite (or same) sex. The timewasters. | |||
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"I had a guy ghost me this week despite arranging this weekend etc which isn’t a bad thing as I’m now having to work Same as me but with the opposite sex, it’s okay though as I’m now going to BSB
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British SuperBikes! "much better option anyway | |||
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"In general I reckon older guys are more reliable. In the days prior to mobile phones, you had to arrange where and when to meet in advance. You then turned up barring disasters as neither person had anyway of communicating to the other. You'd think with mobile communication it would improve things, but the opposite seems to be true." Both older guys I arranged meets with on here recently wasted my time. One stood me up, the other made up about three excuses in one night. Age & reliability don’t go hand in hand. | |||
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"In general I reckon older guys are more reliable. In the days prior to mobile phones, you had to arrange where and when to meet in advance. You then turned up barring disasters as neither person had anyway of communicating to the other. You'd think with mobile communication it would improve things, but the opposite seems to be true." The last meet I had, we had no way of communicating when we left to meet at our social....totally forgot to get each other's number...there was a slight confusion as to the correct venue but we got there in the end. | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe? "Ahhhh so it's not just me then?? I thought it was just a site full of game playeres | |||
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"I had a guy ghost me this week despite arranging this weekend etc which isn’t a bad thing as I’m now having to work Same as me but with the opposite sex, it’s okay though as I’m now going to BSB "Your guaranteed a good weekend then my friend .BSB is ace . | |||
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I’ve met a guy from here that doesn’t want sex until he gets to know the woman after a few months of meeting and talking  . What the hell is that all about?
Single woman get lots of attention in clubs???? Hmmmmm Sorry but I don’t agree with that. Majority of single men faced with a couple or a single woman will go for the couple every time.
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"Single woman get lots of attention in clubs???? Hmmmmm Sorry but I don’t agree with that. Majority of single men faced with a couple or a single woman will go for the couple every time. " I strongly disagree with that statement. It may be your experience that single men go for a couple rather than you but my observations and personal choice say that ain't so. | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe? "really, bathroom where? | |||
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"After a few shockingly shit weeks in here I'm questioning why I'm still here! I love the community aspect of swinging, the friendships and playmates found, but why why why am I being stood up almost every time? And the last one who did actually turn up, went to the bathroom two hours in to the meet and never came back! Do I have just shit luck and taste or is this more common than I believe?
Spend a long time getting to know somebody online before you meet them.
Then you can out
The "Wanna fuck?" guys.
The ones looking for a quick one off fuck.
The ones looking for another notch on the bedpost.
The ones who don't respect you.
The ones who think it's not called fabswingers it is called ifuckanybodywhoasksme.com.
The liars.
The idiots.
The nutters.
The dangerous ones.
The cheaters who have a wife or girlfriend.
The ones just looking for validation that they are still attractive to the opposite (or same) sex.
The timewasters." | |||
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"From 11 weeks ago, profile hidden, yeah whatever! Mmmmnnnn, what would make someone jump ship after 2 hours? Only the OP can answer that!!! "Your point being what exactly? Maybe she's taking a break from timewasters and sarcasm. | |||
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"I agree there should be a button to click for actually turning up. Ive been quite lucky, but the couple who enthusiastically arranged a meet then didn't answer the door were a bit galling. You do get a feeling for genuine people in here after a while. I also insist on WhatsApp or Kik first now, or a phone call... " Yes if people don't want to chat on kik or WhatsApp you know something is wrong. You need to make it easy to meet once both parties are chatting. | |||
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"I agree there should be a button to click for actually turning up. Ive been quite lucky, but the couple who enthusiastically arranged a meet then didn't answer the door were a bit galling. You do get a feeling for genuine people in here after a while. I also insist on WhatsApp or Kik first now, or a phone call... Yes if people don't want to chat on kik or WhatsApp you know something is wrong. You need to make it easy to meet once both parties are chatting. " Disagree, I never chat away from the site before meeting, and yet always meet when I say I will | |||
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"Sorry to read this op I havent arranged a meet for ages,but by the sound of the numerous posts,people are getting stood up quite often. I don't know why anyone would do that to someone?its just nasty . Hope you reported them op." Oh it must be time you shook the dust off then | |||
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"Not being funny but if it's happening all the time maybe you need to look at your selection process? Do you send recent pictures as a clear way to say this is me before we meet that way guys can't say oh you don't look like your pics? Do you chat on the phone to make sure they are real? If a guy went to the bathroom and never came back I would take that personally as he didn't like what he saw? If a guy just stands you up with no reason then he's a knob. " Four good points there I think some people really don't look at what they do pre meeting. | |||
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