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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok confession...this is a rant.

Get message from couple asking if would like to meet. Few messages down the line give their phone number to arrange. Speak to M who gives address at agreed time.

Forward to meet time. Stood outside address calling to confirm ready. Brief conversation then they hang up. I know they've seen me, I try the door, they won't answer.

Help me to understand why people will do this? Lots of effort on their part. I have their number and address and now annoyed because they dragged me out for nothing.

Good thing i'm not a psycho...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Being stood up is unpleasant and disheartening - so sympathy and a hug sent.

Always speak with all partners and consider a neutral meeting point perhaps.

Otherwise, use your best judgment to determine whether any behavior is appropriate or not and report the latter to admin. There have been instances of people being sent to false addresses …- hence why meeting neutrally can be helpful.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

One thing I've noticed about fab. And it can't be any more true. If it's too good to be true,then you probably should pass,and if it's too easy to squire then it's not for you

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Order a huge Chinese takeaway for delivery ....

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Order a huge Chinese takeaway for delivery .... "

. Evil but would be so worth it ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Order a huge Chinese takeaway for delivery .... "

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sorry this happened to you......

Maybe they didn’t like the way you looked in person and didn’t know how to say it....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, in hindsight could have approached this better, but so could they. All valuable experience I guess!

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

Spunk on the windscreen of their car, it smears like a fucker lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Order a huge Chinese takeaway for delivery .... "

And if they've given the wrong address?...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks guys, in hindsight could have approached this better, but so could they. All valuable experience I guess!"

That's a good way to look at it. It must be hugely disappointing and frustrating though.

Better luck next time

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