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By *eyoooo OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I have bin on fab for.months now and nobody seems to give me the time of day any advice

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

A cock pic as your profile pic is never a good idea, i would change it.....but that's just my opinion.

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By *witch4Fun24Couple
over a year ago

Leicester


"A cock pic as your profile pic is never a good idea, i would change it.....but that's just my opinion. "

Also the only pic we can see. Many women do not use penis photos as a form of selecting potential sex partners, fab is not a picture catalogue, they like words too and to see other bits of you. Like your mind..

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

Go to socials and clubs,that's where you can meet people in the flesh and may get private meets from people you meet there

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By *eyoooo OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"A cock pic as your profile pic is never a good idea, i would change it.....but that's just my opinion. "
if I send u some.face pics could u tell me what 1 to put up then x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to add more to your profile and maybe get creative with your pictures .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics, and a three line profile will be your main problems OP

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By *eyoooo OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Yea I no about ma bio just don't no what to put

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sell yourself. Why are you interesting? What kind of person are you? What do you have to offer? What kind of meet or person are you looking for?

Your profile pic is really unappealing tbh.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I have bin on fab for.months now and nobody seems to give me the time of day any advice "

You have 2 verifications, did you expect vaginas to be flinging themselves at you?

You have very little information on your profile, hardly any text. You say you have loads of face pics but keep them all hidden.

You don't seem to have put much effort in which will send the message to potential meets that you won't put much effort into a meet either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea I no about ma bio just don't no what to put "

Well, no one else can write it for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is crap, your profile pic is crap. Its not really surprising why no one is interested in chatting.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op i knew exactly what your profile was going to look like before i even opened it

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"Your profile is crap, your profile pic is crap. Its not really surprising why no one is interested in chatting. "

You are my new favourite forumtite lol don't mince your words.....hahaha

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I say the same advice to all genders..

Search proactively for those you seek, after all you know better than anyone or any words on a profile could indicate, who you seek.

Make your messages interesting and your profile informative forg those who visit, read it from the perspective of the visitor does it entice folk if it does change nothing, if it doesn't change something.

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Better off meeting people in real life. Yes having a well written profile will help but at least half the women you message on here won't read it anyway as they get too many messages too look at every profile. Also helps if you're not too fussy (as most men aren't) but the women are very fussy because they can afford to be with 50 odd messages hitting their inbox every day.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You're quite an attractive guy, tall and able to accommodate. Be a bit more proactive, go to socials in your area, send polite messages, get involved in the forums, be yourself is all I can say.

It does take time on here.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Better off meeting people in real life. Yes having a well written profile will help but at least half the women you message on here won't read it anyway as they get too many messages too look at every profile. Also helps if you're not too fussy (as most men aren't) but the women are very fussy because they can afford to be with 50 odd messages hitting their inbox every day. "

Wow, 'it helps if youre not too fussy', I hope all your potential meets read this and realise you're scraping the barrel

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"Better off meeting people in real life. Yes having a well written profile will help but at least half the women you message on here won't read it anyway as they get too many messages too look at every profile. Also helps if you're not too fussy (as most men aren't) but the women are very fussy because they can afford to be with 50 odd messages hitting their inbox every day.

Wow, 'it helps if youre not too fussy', I hope all your potential meets read this and realise you're scraping the barrel "

Actually it's the opposite! I'm not one of the "any hole's a goal" brigade. I don't really care if I meet someone from here or not.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Better off meeting people in real life. Yes having a well written profile will help but at least half the women you message on here won't read it anyway as they get too many messages too look at every profile. Also helps if you're not too fussy (as most men aren't) but the women are very fussy because they can afford to be with 50 odd messages hitting their inbox every day.

Wow, 'it helps if youre not too fussy', I hope all your potential meets read this and realise you're scraping the barrel

Actually it's the opposite! I'm not one of the "any hole's a goal" brigade. I don't really care if I meet someone from here or not. "

Why give him that advice then?

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"Better off meeting people in real life. Yes having a well written profile will help but at least half the women you message on here won't read it anyway as they get too many messages too look at every profile. Also helps if you're not too fussy (as most men aren't) but the women are very fussy because they can afford to be with 50 odd messages hitting their inbox every day.

Wow, 'it helps if youre not too fussy', I hope all your potential meets read this and realise you're scraping the barrel

Actually it's the opposite! I'm not one of the "any hole's a goal" brigade. I don't really care if I meet someone from here or not.

Why give him that advice then?"

That part isn't advice as such. Just saying how it is. If you're coming on here to meet only hot girls you're gonna be sorely disappointed. Also, the hotter the woman the more messages she gets. Obviously your odds go up if you're not that fussy about looks as a lot of men aren't.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Better off meeting people in real life. Yes having a well written profile will help but at least half the women you message on here won't read it anyway as they get too many messages too look at every profile. Also helps if you're not too fussy (as most men aren't) but the women are very fussy because they can afford to be with 50 odd messages hitting their inbox every day.

Wow, 'it helps if youre not too fussy', I hope all your potential meets read this and realise you're scraping the barrel

Actually it's the opposite! I'm not one of the "any hole's a goal" brigade. I don't really care if I meet someone from here or not.

Why give him that advice then?

That part isn't advice as such. Just saying how it is. If you're coming on here to meet only hot girls you're gonna be sorely disappointed. Also, the hotter the woman the more messages she gets. Obviously your odds go up if you're not that fussy about looks as a lot of men aren't. "

Oh dear

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading


"Your profile is crap, your profile pic is crap. Its not really surprising why no one is interested in chatting. "

Stop beating around the bush and say what you really think

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By *oresexMan
over a year ago

South West coast


"I have bin on fab for.months now and nobody seems to give me the time of day any advice "

Well it's currently 15:24 which is nearly 3:25 in the afternoon.... hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have bin on fab for.months now and nobody seems to give me the time of day any advice "

A more comprehensive profile might help it smacks of a guy who can't be bothered to entice people.

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