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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey,

We've been on here a while now, with only a social up to now, due to us both having different levels of what we are comfortable with. Neither of us wants to be in a position where one of us is not within their comfort zone.

We get a lot of messages, all of which, bar the negative or disrespectful ones, we appreciate. We both read them after the negative ones have been filtered out by M.

As our first step we would ideally have some contact with another woman, we just don't get much interest and contact from them.

We'd love to hear from any females that would be interested in A or us. Also, any advice in what we can do to find what we seek would be good.

AM x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Well your profile is clear about what you are looking for so no issues there - the problem you have is that "unicorns" (women looking to meet couples) are probably the most sought after and rare thing on here so your chances are limited.

Have you tried doing searches for them and messaging them yourselves?

Another option would be clubs where you might have a little more luck than trawling the site trying to find what you're looking for.

Or even consider meeting MF couples if you can agree that between you - it does sound though like you need to discuss what you are looking for and come to a common agreement if you say you have different ideas of what you are looking for from the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are probably asking for one of the most hard to find meet scenarios on any swinging site..FF MFF ..you will be very limited to the amount of interest you will receive because of your meet limitations.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hey,

We've been on here a while now, with only a social up to now, due to us both having different levels of what we are comfortable with. Neither of us wants to be in a position where one of us is not within their comfort zone.

We get a lot of messages, all of which, bar the negative or disrespectful ones, we appreciate. We both read them after the negative ones have been filtered out by M.

As our first step we would ideally have some contact with another woman, we just don't get much interest and contact from them.

We'd love to hear from any females that would be interested in A or us. Also, any advice in what we can do to find what we seek would be good.

AM x

"

I’m a single woman on here and I get inundated with messages from couples but I’m not meeting any as most just want a woman for ‘their’ needs or in basic a plaything to liven up their sex lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey,

We've been on here a while now, with only a social up to now, due to us both having different levels of what we are comfortable with. Neither of us wants to be in a position where one of us is not within their comfort zone.

We get a lot of messages, all of which, bar the negative or disrespectful ones, we appreciate. We both read them after the negative ones have been filtered out by M.

As our first step we would ideally have some contact with another woman, we just don't get much interest and contact from them.

We'd love to hear from any females that would be interested in A or us. Also, any advice in what we can do to find what we seek would be good.

AM x

I’m a single woman on here and I get inundated with messages from couples but I’m not meeting any as most just want a woman for ‘their’ needs or in basic a plaything to liven up their sex lives "

I absolutely agree.

OP clubs would be a good idea, or seeking the females out yourself and explaining via messages what exactly you’re looking for.

It’s gonna be difficult! But hope it works out

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Go to where the ladies are, do not expect them to come to you.

Since we worked that out we have had immense fun, with stunning people, everytime we go out to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a woman, I liked your profile but your pictures put me off. I personally (this is just me) don't really want to see pictures of a gaping arse hole. Your dressed pictures, the ones with the feet etc are far not appealing. I think woman prefer a little mystery, underwear pictures are great.

On a side note, I've found the true unicorns of this site are openly bi black men.. there's like 5 who all live in London.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"Hey,

We've been on here a while now, with only a social up to now, due to us both having different levels of what we are comfortable with. Neither of us wants to be in a position where one of us is not within their comfort zone.

We get a lot of messages, all of which, bar the negative or disrespectful ones, we appreciate. We both read them after the negative ones have been filtered out by M.

As our first step we would ideally have some contact with another woman, we just don't get much interest and contact from them.

We'd love to hear from any females that would be interested in A or us. Also, any advice in what we can do to find what we seek would be good.

AM x

"

Personally I think this talk of meeting single girls being so hard is nonsense.

Just compose a good message, something couples are normally pretty lazy at, and start working.

They won't come to you, you're a needle in a haystack, but they don't get many good or interesting messages either, the same as you, so just be interesting.

Also, if that is your fantasy it is soooo much easier to achieve at a club, find a club single girls go to, especially on couples night where most of the couples are afraid to talk to the single girls, and from the looks of you guys you would be almost guaranteed some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP has left the bulding..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey,

We've been on here a while now, with only a social up to now, due to us both having different levels of what we are comfortable with. Neither of us wants to be in a position where one of us is not within their comfort zone.

We get a lot of messages, all of which, bar the negative or disrespectful ones, we appreciate. We both read them after the negative ones have been filtered out by M.

As our first step we would ideally have some contact with another woman, we just don't get much interest and contact from them.

We'd love to hear from any females that would be interested in A or us. Also, any advice in what we can do to find what we seek would be good.

AM x

"

damn not ready for this world maybe I'd say good luck but it will have to be in thought only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP has left the bulding.."

The wife found the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP has left the bulding..

The wife found the profile "

cynic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP has left the bulding..

The wife found the profile "

It was a couple profile ..lol

They had been on site for ever a year..probably realised swinging was not for them, they had a lot of limitations on their profile meet wise

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Left cos a female won’t meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Left cos a female won’t meet them "
damn omg that's a common theme here

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Left cos a female won’t meet them damn omg that's a common theme here "

One word beginning with ‘h’ cheeky boy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Left cos a female won’t meet them damn omg that's a common theme here

One word beginning with ‘h’ cheeky boy!! "

horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Left cos a female won’t meet them damn omg that's a common theme here

One word beginning with ‘h’ cheeky boy!! "

happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Left cos a female won’t meet them damn omg that's a common theme here

One word beginning with ‘h’ cheeky boy!! "

hereabouts

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Left cos a female won’t meet them damn omg that's a common theme here

One word beginning with ‘h’ cheeky boy!! horny"

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