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"Err isn't telling people how they should act and what status level they should stick to the ultimate in grandiose delusia? That is... unless you're claiming you're average. In which case maybe you should apologise for raising your voice and seeming to come across as above average " | |||
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"Good luck to them. It’s not affecting me I’m far too busy looking awesome " Well come and stand over in this sude of the forum!! Funny | |||
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"I’m too spectacular to worry about others. " Breathe in Twisted make room | |||
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"What is considered beautiful? What is beautiful to one is not to another and why is it ok for beautiful people to look down on others just because they are, according to some, considered as such? No one should look down on anyone as far as I'm concerned, not here or in any area of life but its human nature for some to do it. I really don't give it a second thought, I'm doing my thing on here and others are doing the same, it has no bearing on me. There are, due to the nature of this site, some that let the attention go to their heads but the grounded, dare I say it, normal ones will never let that happen. " I agree totally “grounded” is a very good adjective in this case, im kicking myself now for not using it. | |||
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"We are simply us, nothing more & nothing less. Which is just how we like it " And thats what makes people lovely, just being themselves all the time. | |||
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"Another one OP? Really?!? " Another what? | |||
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"Dr Dre made more money selling his headphones than he ever did practicing medicine, everybody knows that OP." Then along came Dr Beats and blew his ears off | |||
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"Dr Dre made more money selling his headphones than he ever did practicing medicine, everybody knows that OP. Then along came Dr Beats and blew his ears off" When he was in Miami Sound Machine he was on minimum wage. | |||
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"Dr Dre made more money selling his headphones than he ever did practicing medicine, everybody knows that OP. Then along came Dr Beats and blew his ears off When he was in Miami Sound Machine he was on minimum wage." Is that right? Wow that lad did well under George Bush | |||
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"Why does it matter what you look like as to how you should behave? Everyone should be respectful to each other no matter what. " This. | |||
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"Why does it matter what you look like as to how you should behave? Everyone should be respectful to each other no matter what. " Well I agree totally So why did you thumbs up abd repost that comment from the other lady? | |||
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"Having had time this week to read, partake and assess this forum/website, I have noticed a significant amount of folk showing an above average amount of these traits. When I then look at their profiles and pics it confirms this. Now if you are one of the few beautiful beautiful people on here then I think its fine to peer down from the pulpit, and play monarch. But if you are just average or below then I think you should just act normal and not try and rise to these heights. I doubt you would act as superior in a place of work or at a social event. Just my opinion that’s all. " Delusions hey? Thank you OP. Good thing you are here to put us all in our place. Now sit back and I'm sure the nurse will be along with your medication shortly. | |||
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"Why does it matter what you look like as to how you should behave? Everyone should be respectful to each other no matter what. Well I agree totally So why did you thumbs up abd repost that comment from the other lady?" You like to provoke for some reason. | |||
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"Why does it matter what you look like as to how you should behave? Everyone should be respectful to each other no matter what. Well I agree totally So why did you thumbs up abd repost that comment from the other lady? You like to provoke for some reason." I don’t provoke anyone However as soon as I say anything there are 4 forumites Who immediately look to fall out. | |||
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"Why does it matter what you look like as to how you should behave? Everyone should be respectful to each other no matter what. Well I agree totally So why did you thumbs up abd repost that comment from the other lady? You like to provoke for some reason. I don’t provoke anyone However as soon as I say anything there are 4 forumites Who immediately look to fall out. " On behalf of those 4 I'm deeply offended | |||
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"Having had time this week to read, partake and assess this forum/website, I have noticed a significant amount of folk showing an above average amount of these traits. When I then look at their profiles and pics it confirms this. Now if you are one of the few beautiful beautiful people on here then I think its fine to peer down from the pulpit, and play monarch. But if you are just average or below then I think you should just act normal and not try and rise to these heights. I doubt you would act as superior in a place of work or at a social event. Just my opinion that’s all. Delusions hey? Thank you OP. Good thing you are here to put us all in our place. Now sit back and I'm sure the nurse will be along with your medication shortly." Why did you assume this was about you? | |||
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"Having had time this week to read, partake and assess this forum/website, I have noticed a significant amount of folk showing an above average amount of these traits. When I then look at their profiles and pics it confirms this. Now if you are one of the few beautiful beautiful people on here then I think its fine to peer down from the pulpit, and play monarch. But if you are just average or below then I think you should just act normal and not try and rise to these heights. I doubt you would act as superior in a place of work or at a social event. Just my opinion that’s all. Delusions hey? Thank you OP. Good thing you are here to put us all in our place. Now sit back and I'm sure the nurse will be along with your medication shortly. Why did you assume this was about you?" I didn't darlin, hence the word "all" | |||
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"Being 6ft i look down on a lot of people " No way!!! We all just look up to you | |||
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"Having had time this week to read, partake and assess this forum/website, I have noticed a significant amount of folk showing an above average amount of these traits. When I then look at their profiles and pics it confirms this. Now if you are one of the few beautiful beautiful people on here then I think its fine to peer down from the pulpit, and play monarch. But if you are just average or below then I think you should just act normal and not try and rise to these heights. I doubt you would act as superior in a place of work or at a social event. Just my opinion that’s all. Delusions hey? Thank you OP. Good thing you are here to put us all in our place. Now sit back and I'm sure the nurse will be along with your medication shortly. Why did you assume this was about you? I didn't darlin, hence the word "all" " Mmm Think you’ve confused me then who mention “us All” | |||
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"Totally agree op, as an above average total babe I suggest a fab ban on all the fuglies " Wow you are brave Gorgeous Girl!! Hope you have your cat scratch vest on!! | |||
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"Ooh. Looking at the OP of this thread I suddenly wondered if people would think it applies to me. My profile is currently hidden but in it I describe myself as follows: "Ultra leggy sultry submissive bitchass milfilicious marvel into mutual reverence and devilish dicking from hotrod kickass fuckstuds." Does that sound seriously pompous? Or humorous? Is it difficult for you to judge not seeing what I look like?" I would say bloody fabulous | |||
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" I would say bloody fabulous " I'm glad someone got the joke! Ya never know. So many peeps are so literal | |||
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"Err isn't telling people how they should act and what status level they should stick to the ultimate in grandiose delusia? That is... unless you're claiming you're average. In which case maybe you should apologise for raising your voice and seeming to come across as above average " | |||
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"Ooh. Looking at the OP of this thread I suddenly wondered if people would think it applies to me. My profile is currently hidden but in it I describe myself as follows: "Ultra leggy sultry submissive bitchass milfilicious marvel into mutual reverence and devilish dicking from hotrod kickass fuckstuds." Does that sound seriously pompous? Or humorous? Is it difficult for you to judge not seeing what I look like?" No I think its brilliant xx im In love | |||
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" No I think its brilliant xx im In love " Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated | |||
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" No I think its brilliant xx im In love Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated " Lucky Vin dick ated | |||
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" Lucky Vin dick ated" If Vin is a good dickinator I'm there! | |||
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"Yea, you uglies should know your place! " Who are you calling ugly? | |||
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" No I think its brilliant xx im In love Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated " You are more his type than me. Enjoy | |||
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" I would say bloody fabulous I'm glad someone got the joke! Ya never know. So many peeps are so literal " Of course I did sista!! | |||
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"Surely beauty is subjective OP? Who gets to decide if one is beautiful or average? " Me of course | |||
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" No I think its brilliant xx im In love Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated You are more his type than me. Enjoy " Oh no I really find fiesty women a big turn on tbh Especially when they are opinionated | |||
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"Beauty, eye, beholder. Yeah, of course, but sexpot privilege is a real thing. We all know this is true. Some of us more closely adhere to general standards of beauty. If one happens to be a sexpot of this type it's important to be gracious about one's status and to remember that everyone is a sexpot to somebody...and no one is a sexpot to everybody. " “Sexpot” always makes me hungry | |||
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"Saw the thread title, assumed it was a Harry Potter spell. " Glad you wand ed over #fit | |||
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" No I think its brilliant xx im In love Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated You are more his type than me. Enjoy Oh no I really find fiesty women a big turn on tbh Especially when they are opinionated " I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman. | |||
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" I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman. " Really? Wouldn't have guessed that. What would you be doing differently if you did make the effort? | |||
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" No I think its brilliant xx im In love Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated You are more his type than me. Enjoy Ohhh is that what’s up with you knew i’d vexed you Oh no I really find fiesty women a big turn on tbh Especially when they are opinionated I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman. " | |||
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" I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman. Really? Wouldn't have guessed that. What would you be doing differently if you did make the effort?" Tbf she does get up at 4am to iron her fringe | |||
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"OP, by any chance have you been turned down by an Average or maybe a Below Average..?!?! " Wouldn't have thought so, instant block material. Bottom of the barrel hotlist god all day long | |||
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"What is considered beautiful? What is beautiful to one is not to another and why is it ok for beautiful people to look down on others just because they are, according to some, considered as such? No one should look down on anyone as far as I'm concerned, not here or in any area of life but its human nature for some to do it. I really don't give it a second thought, I'm doing my thing on here and others are doing the same, it has no bearing on me. There are, due to the nature of this site, some that let the attention go to their heads but the grounded, dare I say it, normal ones will never let that happen. " I didn't realise this was a beauty competition. | |||
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" I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman. Really? Wouldn't have guessed that. What would you be doing differently if you did make the effort? Tbf she does get up at 4am to iron her fringe" Have you been spying on me? | |||
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"Having had time this week to read, partake and assess this forum/website, I have noticed a significant amount of folk showing an above average amount of these traits. When I then look at their profiles and pics it confirms this. Now if you are one of the few beautiful beautiful people on here then I think its fine to peer down from the pulpit, and play monarch. But if you are just average or below then I think you should just act normal and not try and rise to these heights. I doubt you would act as superior in a place of work or at a social event. Just my opinion that’s all. " You do you and I'll do me. | |||
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"OP, by any chance have you been turned down by an Average or maybe a Below Average..?!?! " Not yet So here goes Hey Roxi fancy meeting up for a game of Ludo ? | |||
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"OP, by any chance have you been turned down by an Average or maybe a Below Average..?!?! Wouldn't have thought so, instant block material. Bottom of the barrel hotlist god all day long " Ohh you’ve seen all the barrels on here too then! But im not a bottom | |||
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" I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman. Really? Wouldn't have guessed that. What would you be doing differently if you did make the effort? Tbf she does get up at 4am to iron her fringe Have you been spying on me? " Hell yeah!! Ive not missed a Shakespear Sister gig since 1988!! | |||
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"OP, by any chance have you been turned down by an Average or maybe a Below Average..?!?! Wouldn't have thought so, instant block material. Bottom of the barrel hotlist god all day long " | |||
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"Op your neck must be hurting looking dpown at all the people who are not much better than you on here! " Nope but my sides are!! | |||
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"OP, by any chance have you been turned down by an Average or maybe a Below Average..?!?! Not yet So here goes Hey Roxi fancy meeting up for a game of Ludo ?" Cheeky bugger I’m upperscale average | |||
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"Beauty, eye, beholder. Yeah, of course, but sexpot privilege is a real thing. We all know this is true. Some of us more closely adhere to general standards of beauty. If one happens to be a sexpot of this type it's important to be gracious about one's status and to remember that everyone is a sexpot to somebody...and no one is a sexpot to everybody. " Good point. | |||
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"Beauty, eye, beholder. Yeah, of course, but sexpot privilege is a real thing. We all know this is true. Some of us more closely adhere to general standards of beauty. If one happens to be a sexpot of this type it's important to be gracious about one's status and to remember that everyone is a sexpot to somebody...and no one is a sexpot to everybody. " What is "sexpot privilege?" | |||
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"You mean Nora Battys thinking they’re Beyoncé OP ?" Never thought of it like that but yeah youve nailed it!! | |||
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"Yea, you uglies should know your place! Who are you calling ugly? " Those ugly people who dare ask to meet us beautiful people | |||
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"Beauty is completely subjective isn't it? I might think I'm beautiful but you might not" Yes it is correct But for example how many profiles read BBW some Tattoos ample smoker seeks exceptional athlectic guy Its sheer exploitation of ratios, these people know exactly that a huge number of fellas will get stuck in to anything that’s on offer Tbh I should be blaming the fellas themselves Go on girls fill your waders | |||
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"You mean Nora Battys thinking they’re Beyoncé OP ? Never thought of it like that but yeah youve nailed it!! " Nora Batty was a lovely lady. | |||
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"What is "sexpot privilege?" " Um, I would've thought the term is self-explanatory. You've heard of white privilege? Similar but much more profound, sexpot privilege is the treatment granted to sexpots by others. Often this more forgiving, more respectful treatment is not even conscious on the part of those giving it. | |||
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"Surely beauty is subjective OP? Who gets to decide if one is beautiful or average? Me of course " Hmmm.... of course you are the decider, oh magnificent one | |||
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"Beauty is completely subjective isn't it? I might think I'm beautiful but you might not Yes it is correct But for example how many profiles read BBW some Tattoos ample smoker seeks exceptional athlectic guy Its sheer exploitation of ratios, these people know exactly that a huge number of fellas will get stuck in to anything that’s on offer Tbh I should be blaming the fellas themselves Go on girls fill your waders " Blaming them for what exactly? If people know the score, as in your example, who's doing anything to be blamed for? | |||
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" No I think its brilliant xx im In love Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated You are more his type than me. Enjoy Oh no I really find fiesty women a big turn on tbh Especially when they are opinionated I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman. " I now recall that pathetic thread. | |||
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"Ooh, this is my first post I think? I have been here on and off for many years, this is my latest stint. Surely the beauty of this site is the ability to be whoever you want, whenever want, with anyone you want? Some people may want to project their sex god / goddess, others may just wish to be invisible and there are many people in between those points. And then there are people who come as just themselves as they are. This seems to me to be a playground, in a grown up sense. That's why I love this place (when I am not hating it), there is total beauty in everyone and we are all here to discover that, I suspect. And have sex. Apart from me, obviously, I am a god. Carry on. " You should post more | |||
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"You mean Nora Battys thinking they’re Beyoncé OP ?" And Quasimodo's male descendants, not as handsome as he, thinking they are Adonis incarnate. | |||
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"Having had time this week to read, partake and assess this forum/website, I have noticed a significant amount of folk showing an above average amount of these traits. When I then look at their profiles and pics it confirms this. Now if you are one of the few beautiful beautiful people on here then I think its fine to peer down from the pulpit, and play monarch. But if you are just average or below then I think you should just act normal and not try and rise to these heights. I doubt you would act as superior in a place of work or at a social event. Just my opinion that’s all. " If the monarchy had to produce pretty heirs to the throne, we'd hire the guillotine. | |||
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" No I think its brilliant xx im In love Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated You are more his type than me. Enjoy Oh no I really find fiesty women a big turn on tbh Especially when they are opinionated I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman. I now recall that pathetic thread." | |||
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"What is "sexpot privilege?" Um, I would've thought the term is self-explanatory. You've heard of white privilege? Similar but much more profound, sexpot privilege is the treatment granted to sexpots by others. Often this more forgiving, more respectful treatment is not even conscious on the part of those giving it. " But I understand sexpot to be a highly-sexed person, irrespective of appearance, in which case I wouldn't expect privilege to come into it | |||
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"But I understand sexpot to be a highly-sexed person, irrespective of appearance, in which case I wouldn't expect privilege to come into it" I think you'll find most people understand the term differently. | |||
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"It's a supply/ demand thing. I'm as picky as I am because I can be. And I'm not sure why wanting what you want and seeking that is grandiose. That's what this site is about, and it works for many people. I'm sorry it doesn't seem to be working for you, OP. " I think it's more because women on this site are able to have the power to pick and choose. Some men are resentful of that, because they don't have that same level of power. Though I'm sure they would take full advantage of it, if they did. When someone becomes resentful,they try to attribute blame to those they think are punching above their weight, to attempt to bring them down a peg or two, from that (apparent) pedestal that they think someone doesn't deserve. *Note I said 'some', so don't everyone jump on me* | |||
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"It's a supply/ demand thing. I'm as picky as I am because I can be. And I'm not sure why wanting what you want and seeking that is grandiose. That's what this site is about, and it works for many people. I'm sorry it doesn't seem to be working for you, OP. I think it's more because women on this site are able to have the power to pick and choose. Some men are resentful of that, because they don't have that same level of power. Though I'm sure they would take full advantage of it, if they did. When someone becomes resentful,they try to attribute blame to those they think are punching above their weight, to attempt to bring them down a peg or two, from that (apparent) pedestal that they think someone doesn't deserve. *Note I said 'some', so don't everyone jump on me* " We agree with this. Its up to the men to stand out from the crowd and appeal. Nothing to do with being grandiose, but can understand that it might feel like that, when nothing is going in that direction/keep getting knocked back. | |||
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"It's a supply/ demand thing. I'm as picky as I am because I can be. And I'm not sure why wanting what you want and seeking that is grandiose. That's what this site is about, and it works for many people. I'm sorry it doesn't seem to be working for you, OP. I think it's more because women on this site are able to have the power to pick and choose. Some men are resentful of that, because they don't have that same level of power. Though I'm sure they would take full advantage of it, if they did. When someone becomes resentful,they try to attribute blame to those they think are punching above their weight, to attempt to bring them down a peg or two, from that (apparent) pedestal that they think someone doesn't deserve. *Note I said 'some', so don't everyone jump on me* " . The balance of power here is only an illusion here, as you have alluded to, perhaps because there is an imbalance of power irl. I rather enjoy relaxing and knowing that there is little I can do apart from using words, thoughts and badly taken pictures to connect with people. People can enjoy their power and I can enjoy the ride, wherever that takes me. | |||
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"But I understand sexpot to be a highly-sexed person, irrespective of appearance, in which case I wouldn't expect privilege to come into it I think you'll find most people understand the term differently." OK. | |||
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"Having had time this week to read, partake and assess this forum/website, I have noticed a significant amount of folk showing an above average amount of these traits. When I then look at their profiles and pics it confirms this. Now if you are one of the few beautiful beautiful people on here then I think its fine to peer down from the pulpit, and play monarch. But if you are just average or below then I think you should just act normal and not try and rise to these heights. I doubt you would act as superior in a place of work or at a social event. Just my opinion that’s all. " Nobody has the right to look down on people or tell them what to do. | |||
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"Beauty is completely subjective isn't it? I might think I'm beautiful but you might not Yes it is correct But for example how many profiles read BBW some Tattoos ample smoker seeks exceptional athlectic guy Its sheer exploitation of ratios, these people know exactly that a huge number of fellas will get stuck in to anything that’s on offer Tbh I should be blaming the fellas themselves Go on girls fill your waders " | |||
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