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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire

Having had time this week to read, partake and assess this forum/website, I have noticed a significant amount of folk showing an above average amount of these traits.

When I then look at their profiles and pics it confirms this.

Now if you are one of the few beautiful beautiful people on here then I think its fine to peer down from the pulpit, and play monarch.

But if you are just average or below then I think you should just act normal and not try and rise to these heights. I doubt you would act as superior in a place of work or at a social event.

Just my opinion that’s all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Err isn't telling people how they should act and what status level they should stick to the ultimate in grandiose delusia?

That is... unless you're claiming you're average. In which case maybe you should apologise for raising your voice and seeming to come across as above average

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire

Oh i never considered that apologies if you felt it applied to you

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Good luck to them. It’s not affecting me I’m far too busy looking awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Err isn't telling people how they should act and what status level they should stick to the ultimate in grandiose delusia?

That is... unless you're claiming you're average. In which case maybe you should apologise for raising your voice and seeming to come across as above average "

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Good luck to them. It’s not affecting me I’m far too busy looking awesome "

Well come and stand over in this sude of the forum!!

Funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m too spectacular to worry about others.

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"I’m too spectacular to worry about others. "

Breathe in Twisted make room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is considered beautiful? What is beautiful to one is not to another and why is it ok for beautiful people to look down on others just because they are, according to some, considered as such? No one should look down on anyone as far as I'm concerned, not here or in any area of life but its human nature for some to do it.

I really don't give it a second thought, I'm doing my thing on here and others are doing the same, it has no bearing on me. There are, due to the nature of this site, some that let the attention go to their heads but the grounded, dare I say it, normal ones will never let that happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are simply us, nothing more & nothing less. Which is just how we like it

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"What is considered beautiful? What is beautiful to one is not to another and why is it ok for beautiful people to look down on others just because they are, according to some, considered as such? No one should look down on anyone as far as I'm concerned, not here or in any area of life but its human nature for some to do it.

I really don't give it a second thought, I'm doing my thing on here and others are doing the same, it has no bearing on me. There are, due to the nature of this site, some that let the attention go to their heads but the grounded, dare I say it, normal ones will never let that happen. "

I agree totally “grounded” is a very good adjective in this case, im kicking myself now for not using it.

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"We are simply us, nothing more & nothing less. Which is just how we like it "

And thats what makes people lovely, just being themselves all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one OP? Really?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another one OP? Really?!? "

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Another one OP? Really?!?

"

Another what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one of what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dr Dre made more money selling his headphones than he ever did practicing medicine, everybody knows that OP.

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Dr Dre made more money selling his headphones than he ever did practicing medicine, everybody knows that OP."

Then along came Dr Beats and blew his ears off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dr Dre made more money selling his headphones than he ever did practicing medicine, everybody knows that OP.

Then along came Dr Beats and blew his ears off"

When he was in Miami Sound Machine he was on minimum wage.

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Dr Dre made more money selling his headphones than he ever did practicing medicine, everybody knows that OP.

Then along came Dr Beats and blew his ears off

When he was in Miami Sound Machine he was on minimum wage."

Is that right?

Wow that lad did well under George Bush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it matter what you look like as to how you should behave? Everyone should be respectful to each other no matter what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does it matter what you look like as to how you should behave? Everyone should be respectful to each other no matter what. "

This.

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Why does it matter what you look like as to how you should behave? Everyone should be respectful to each other no matter what. "

Well I agree totally

So why did you thumbs up abd repost that comment from the other lady?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Having had time this week to read, partake and assess this forum/website, I have noticed a significant amount of folk showing an above average amount of these traits.

When I then look at their profiles and pics it confirms this.

Now if you are one of the few beautiful beautiful people on here then I think its fine to peer down from the pulpit, and play monarch.

But if you are just average or below then I think you should just act normal and not try and rise to these heights. I doubt you would act as superior in a place of work or at a social event.

Just my opinion that’s all.

"

Delusions hey?

Thank you OP.

Good thing you are here to put us all in our place.

Now sit back and I'm sure the nurse will be along with your medication shortly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does it matter what you look like as to how you should behave? Everyone should be respectful to each other no matter what.

Well I agree totally

So why did you thumbs up abd repost that comment from the other lady?"

You like to provoke for some reason.

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Why does it matter what you look like as to how you should behave? Everyone should be respectful to each other no matter what.

Well I agree totally

So why did you thumbs up abd repost that comment from the other lady?

You like to provoke for some reason."

I don’t provoke anyone

However as soon as I say anything there are 4 forumites Who immediately look to fall out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does it matter what you look like as to how you should behave? Everyone should be respectful to each other no matter what.

Well I agree totally

So why did you thumbs up abd repost that comment from the other lady?

You like to provoke for some reason.

I don’t provoke anyone

However as soon as I say anything there are 4 forumites Who immediately look to fall out.

"

On behalf of those 4 I'm deeply offended

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Having had time this week to read, partake and assess this forum/website, I have noticed a significant amount of folk showing an above average amount of these traits.

When I then look at their profiles and pics it confirms this.

Now if you are one of the few beautiful beautiful people on here then I think its fine to peer down from the pulpit, and play monarch.

But if you are just average or below then I think you should just act normal and not try and rise to these heights. I doubt you would act as superior in a place of work or at a social event.

Just my opinion that’s all.

Delusions hey?

Thank you OP.

Good thing you are here to put us all in our place.

Now sit back and I'm sure the nurse will be along with your medication shortly."

Why did you assume this was about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being 6ft i look down on a lot of people

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Having had time this week to read, partake and assess this forum/website, I have noticed a significant amount of folk showing an above average amount of these traits.

When I then look at their profiles and pics it confirms this.

Now if you are one of the few beautiful beautiful people on here then I think its fine to peer down from the pulpit, and play monarch.

But if you are just average or below then I think you should just act normal and not try and rise to these heights. I doubt you would act as superior in a place of work or at a social event.

Just my opinion that’s all.

Delusions hey?

Thank you OP.

Good thing you are here to put us all in our place.

Now sit back and I'm sure the nurse will be along with your medication shortly.

Why did you assume this was about you?"

I didn't darlin, hence the word "all"

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Being 6ft i look down on a lot of people "

No way!!!

We all just look up to you

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't think anyone should act superior or look down on others ,even if they are beautiful,it's an ugly trait.

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Having had time this week to read, partake and assess this forum/website, I have noticed a significant amount of folk showing an above average amount of these traits.

When I then look at their profiles and pics it confirms this.

Now if you are one of the few beautiful beautiful people on here then I think its fine to peer down from the pulpit, and play monarch.

But if you are just average or below then I think you should just act normal and not try and rise to these heights. I doubt you would act as superior in a place of work or at a social event.

Just my opinion that’s all.

Delusions hey?

Thank you OP.

Good thing you are here to put us all in our place.

Now sit back and I'm sure the nurse will be along with your medication shortly.

Why did you assume this was about you?

I didn't darlin, hence the word "all" "

Mmm Think you’ve confused me then who mention “us All”

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

Totally agree op, as an above average total babe I suggest a fab ban on all the fuglies

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Totally agree op, as an above average total babe I suggest a fab ban on all the fuglies "

Wow you are brave Gorgeous Girl!!

Hope you have your cat scratch vest on!!

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By *urlinaTV/TS
over a year ago

London W1

Ooh. Looking at the OP of this thread I suddenly wondered if people would think it applies to me.

My profile is currently hidden but in it I describe myself as follows:

"Ultra leggy sultry submissive bitchass milfilicious marvel into mutual reverence and devilish dicking from hotrod kickass fuckstuds."

Does that sound seriously pompous? Or humorous? Is it difficult for you to judge not seeing what I look like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooh. Looking at the OP of this thread I suddenly wondered if people would think it applies to me.

My profile is currently hidden but in it I describe myself as follows:

"Ultra leggy sultry submissive bitchass milfilicious marvel into mutual reverence and devilish dicking from hotrod kickass fuckstuds."

Does that sound seriously pompous? Or humorous? Is it difficult for you to judge not seeing what I look like?"

I would say bloody fabulous

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By *urlinaTV/TS
over a year ago

London W1


"

I would say bloody fabulous "

I'm glad someone got the joke!

Ya never know. So many peeps are so literal

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


"Err isn't telling people how they should act and what status level they should stick to the ultimate in grandiose delusia?

That is... unless you're claiming you're average. In which case maybe you should apologise for raising your voice and seeming to come across as above average "

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Ooh. Looking at the OP of this thread I suddenly wondered if people would think it applies to me.

My profile is currently hidden but in it I describe myself as follows:

"Ultra leggy sultry submissive bitchass milfilicious marvel into mutual reverence and devilish dicking from hotrod kickass fuckstuds."

Does that sound seriously pompous? Or humorous? Is it difficult for you to judge not seeing what I look like?"

No I think its brilliant xx im

In love

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By *urlinaTV/TS
over a year ago

London W1


"

No I think its brilliant xx im

In love "

Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea, you uglies should know your place!

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"

No I think its brilliant xx im

In love

Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated "

Lucky Vin dick ated

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By *urlinaTV/TS
over a year ago

London W1


"

Lucky Vin dick ated"

If Vin is a good dickinator I'm there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely beauty is subjective OP? Who gets to decide if one is beautiful or average?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea, you uglies should know your place!

"

Who are you calling ugly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

No I think its brilliant xx im

In love

Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated "

You are more his type than me. Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I would say bloody fabulous

I'm glad someone got the joke!

Ya never know. So many peeps are so literal "

Of course I did sista!!

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Surely beauty is subjective OP? Who gets to decide if one is beautiful or average? "

Me of course

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By *urlinaTV/TS
over a year ago

London W1

Beauty, eye, beholder. Yeah, of course, but sexpot privilege is a real thing. We all know this is true. Some of us more closely adhere to general standards of beauty. If one happens to be a sexpot of this type it's important to be gracious about one's status and to remember that everyone is a sexpot to somebody...and no one is a sexpot to everybody.

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"

No I think its brilliant xx im

In love

Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated

You are more his type than me. Enjoy "

Oh no I really find fiesty women a big turn on tbh

Especially when they are opinionated

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Beauty, eye, beholder. Yeah, of course, but sexpot privilege is a real thing. We all know this is true. Some of us more closely adhere to general standards of beauty. If one happens to be a sexpot of this type it's important to be gracious about one's status and to remember that everyone is a sexpot to somebody...and no one is a sexpot to everybody. "

“Sexpot” always makes me hungry

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Saw the thread title, assumed it was a Harry Potter spell.

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Saw the thread title, assumed it was a Harry Potter spell. "

Glad you wand ed over #fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

No I think its brilliant xx im

In love

Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated

You are more his type than me. Enjoy

Oh no I really find fiesty women a big turn on tbh

Especially when they are opinionated "

I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman.

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By *urlinaTV/TS
over a year ago

London W1


"

I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman. "

Really? Wouldn't have guessed that. What would you be doing differently if you did make the effort?

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"

No I think its brilliant xx im

In love

Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated

You are more his type than me. Enjoy

Ohhh is that what’s up with you knew i’d vexed you

Oh no I really find fiesty women a big turn on tbh

Especially when they are opinionated

I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman. "

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"

I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman.

Really? Wouldn't have guessed that. What would you be doing differently if you did make the effort?"

Tbf she does get up at 4am to iron her fringe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, by any chance have you been turned down by an Average or maybe a Below Average..?!?!

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"OP, by any chance have you been turned down by an Average or maybe a Below Average..?!?!

"

Wouldn't have thought so, instant block material. Bottom of the barrel hotlist god all day long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is considered beautiful? What is beautiful to one is not to another and why is it ok for beautiful people to look down on others just because they are, according to some, considered as such? No one should look down on anyone as far as I'm concerned, not here or in any area of life but its human nature for some to do it.

I really don't give it a second thought, I'm doing my thing on here and others are doing the same, it has no bearing on me. There are, due to the nature of this site, some that let the attention go to their heads but the grounded, dare I say it, normal ones will never let that happen. "

I didn't realise this was a beauty competition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman.

Really? Wouldn't have guessed that. What would you be doing differently if you did make the effort?

Tbf she does get up at 4am to iron her fringe"

Have you been spying on me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having had time this week to read, partake and assess this forum/website, I have noticed a significant amount of folk showing an above average amount of these traits.

When I then look at their profiles and pics it confirms this.

Now if you are one of the few beautiful beautiful people on here then I think its fine to peer down from the pulpit, and play monarch.

But if you are just average or below then I think you should just act normal and not try and rise to these heights. I doubt you would act as superior in a place of work or at a social event.

Just my opinion that’s all.

"

You do you and I'll do me.

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"OP, by any chance have you been turned down by an Average or maybe a Below Average..?!?!

"

Not yet

So here goes

Hey Roxi fancy meeting up for a game of Ludo ?

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"OP, by any chance have you been turned down by an Average or maybe a Below Average..?!?!

Wouldn't have thought so, instant block material. Bottom of the barrel hotlist god all day long "

Ohh you’ve seen all the barrels on here too then! But im not a bottom

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"

I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman.

Really? Wouldn't have guessed that. What would you be doing differently if you did make the effort?

Tbf she does get up at 4am to iron her fringe

Have you been spying on me? "

Hell yeah!!

Ive not missed a Shakespear Sister gig since 1988!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for sharing your opinion op. I can't see many changing their ways because of it, but it's good to get things off your chest.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Perhaps your reading into and assuming what people are like on the forums ... we are nice people ....just all different like a bag of pic and mix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op your neck must be hurting looking dpown at all the people who are not much better than you on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, by any chance have you been turned down by an Average or maybe a Below Average..?!?!

Wouldn't have thought so, instant block material. Bottom of the barrel hotlist god all day long "

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Op your neck must be hurting looking dpown at all the people who are not much better than you on here! "

Nope but my sides are!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, by any chance have you been turned down by an Average or maybe a Below Average..?!?!

Not yet

So here goes

Hey Roxi fancy meeting up for a game of Ludo ?"

Cheeky bugger I’m upperscale average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is completely subjective isn't it? I might think I'm beautiful but you might not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean Nora Battys thinking they’re Beyoncé OP ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beauty, eye, beholder. Yeah, of course, but sexpot privilege is a real thing. We all know this is true. Some of us more closely adhere to general standards of beauty. If one happens to be a sexpot of this type it's important to be gracious about one's status and to remember that everyone is a sexpot to somebody...and no one is a sexpot to everybody. "

Good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beauty, eye, beholder. Yeah, of course, but sexpot privilege is a real thing. We all know this is true. Some of us more closely adhere to general standards of beauty. If one happens to be a sexpot of this type it's important to be gracious about one's status and to remember that everyone is a sexpot to somebody...and no one is a sexpot to everybody. "

What is "sexpot privilege?"

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"You mean Nora Battys thinking they’re Beyoncé OP ?"

Never thought of it like that but yeah youve nailed it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea, you uglies should know your place!

Who are you calling ugly? "

Those ugly people who dare ask to meet us beautiful people

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By *uckymoo OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Beauty is completely subjective isn't it? I might think I'm beautiful but you might not"

Yes it is correct

But for example how many profiles read

BBW some Tattoos ample smoker seeks exceptional athlectic guy

Its sheer exploitation of ratios, these people know exactly that a huge number of fellas will get stuck in to anything that’s on offer

Tbh I should be blaming the fellas themselves

Go on girls fill your waders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean Nora Battys thinking they’re Beyoncé OP ?

Never thought of it like that but yeah youve nailed it!! "

Nora Batty was a lovely lady.

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By *urlinaTV/TS
over a year ago

London W1


"What is "sexpot privilege?" "

Um, I would've thought the term is self-explanatory.

You've heard of white privilege? Similar but much more profound, sexpot privilege is the treatment granted to sexpots by others. Often this more forgiving, more respectful treatment is not even conscious on the part of those giving it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely beauty is subjective OP? Who gets to decide if one is beautiful or average?

Me of course "

Hmmm.... of course you are the decider, oh magnificent one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh, this is my first post I think? I have been here on and off for many years, this is my latest stint. Surely the beauty of this site is the ability to be whoever you want, whenever want, with anyone you want? Some people may want to project their sex god / goddess, others may just wish to be invisible and there are many people in between those points. And then there are people who come as just themselves as they are. This seems to me to be a playground, in a grown up sense. That's why I love this place (when I am not hating it), there is total beauty in everyone and we are all here to discover that, I suspect. And have sex. Apart from me, obviously, I am a god. Carry on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Beauty is completely subjective isn't it? I might think I'm beautiful but you might not

Yes it is correct

But for example how many profiles read

BBW some Tattoos ample smoker seeks exceptional athlectic guy

Its sheer exploitation of ratios, these people know exactly that a huge number of fellas will get stuck in to anything that’s on offer

Tbh I should be blaming the fellas themselves

Go on girls fill your waders

"

Blaming them for what exactly? If people know the score, as in your example, who's doing anything to be blamed for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No I think its brilliant xx im

In love

Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated

You are more his type than me. Enjoy

Oh no I really find fiesty women a big turn on tbh

Especially when they are opinionated

I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman. "

I now recall that pathetic thread.

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By *SPrincessWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere near you


"Ooh, this is my first post I think? I have been here on and off for many years, this is my latest stint. Surely the beauty of this site is the ability to be whoever you want, whenever want, with anyone you want? Some people may want to project their sex god / goddess, others may just wish to be invisible and there are many people in between those points. And then there are people who come as just themselves as they are. This seems to me to be a playground, in a grown up sense. That's why I love this place (when I am not hating it), there is total beauty in everyone and we are all here to discover that, I suspect. And have sex. Apart from me, obviously, I am a god. Carry on. "

You should post more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean Nora Battys thinking they’re Beyoncé OP ?"

And Quasimodo's male descendants, not as handsome as he, thinking they are Adonis incarnate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having had time this week to read, partake and assess this forum/website, I have noticed a significant amount of folk showing an above average amount of these traits.

When I then look at their profiles and pics it confirms this.

Now if you are one of the few beautiful beautiful people on here then I think its fine to peer down from the pulpit, and play monarch.

But if you are just average or below then I think you should just act normal and not try and rise to these heights. I doubt you would act as superior in a place of work or at a social event.

Just my opinion that’s all.

"

If the monarchy had to produce pretty heirs to the throne, we'd hire the guillotine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

No I think its brilliant xx im

In love

Ah...approbation from the OP himself! I feel vindicated

You are more his type than me. Enjoy

Oh no I really find fiesty women a big turn on tbh

Especially when they are opinionated

I’m fiesty and opinionated for sure sometimes but I don’t make enough effort as a woman.

I now recall that pathetic thread."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is "sexpot privilege?"

Um, I would've thought the term is self-explanatory.

You've heard of white privilege? Similar but much more profound, sexpot privilege is the treatment granted to sexpots by others. Often this more forgiving, more respectful treatment is not even conscious on the part of those giving it. "

But I understand sexpot to be a highly-sexed person, irrespective of appearance, in which case I wouldn't expect privilege to come into it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a supply/ demand thing. I'm as picky as I am because I can be. And I'm not sure why wanting what you want and seeking that is grandiose. That's what this site is about, and it works for many people. I'm sorry it doesn't seem to be working for you, OP.

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By *urlinaTV/TS
over a year ago

London W1


"But I understand sexpot to be a highly-sexed person, irrespective of appearance, in which case I wouldn't expect privilege to come into it"

I think you'll find most people understand the term differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a supply/ demand thing. I'm as picky as I am because I can be. And I'm not sure why wanting what you want and seeking that is grandiose. That's what this site is about, and it works for many people. I'm sorry it doesn't seem to be working for you, OP. "

I think it's more because women on this site are able to have the power to pick and choose. Some men are resentful of that, because they don't have that same level of power. Though I'm sure they would take full advantage of it, if they did. When someone becomes resentful,they try to attribute blame to those they think are punching above their weight, to attempt to bring them down a peg or two, from that (apparent) pedestal that they think someone doesn't deserve. *Note I said 'some', so don't everyone jump on me*

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"It's a supply/ demand thing. I'm as picky as I am because I can be. And I'm not sure why wanting what you want and seeking that is grandiose. That's what this site is about, and it works for many people. I'm sorry it doesn't seem to be working for you, OP.

I think it's more because women on this site are able to have the power to pick and choose. Some men are resentful of that, because they don't have that same level of power. Though I'm sure they would take full advantage of it, if they did. When someone becomes resentful,they try to attribute blame to those they think are punching above their weight, to attempt to bring them down a peg or two, from that (apparent) pedestal that they think someone doesn't deserve. *Note I said 'some', so don't everyone jump on me*

"

We agree with this. Its up to the men to stand out from the crowd and appeal. Nothing to do with being grandiose, but can understand that it might feel like that, when nothing is going in that direction/keep getting knocked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a supply/ demand thing. I'm as picky as I am because I can be. And I'm not sure why wanting what you want and seeking that is grandiose. That's what this site is about, and it works for many people. I'm sorry it doesn't seem to be working for you, OP.

I think it's more because women on this site are able to have the power to pick and choose. Some men are resentful of that, because they don't have that same level of power. Though I'm sure they would take full advantage of it, if they did. When someone becomes resentful,they try to attribute blame to those they think are punching above their weight, to attempt to bring them down a peg or two, from that (apparent) pedestal that they think someone doesn't deserve. *Note I said 'some', so don't everyone jump on me*

"

. The balance of power here is only an illusion here, as you have alluded to, perhaps because there is an imbalance of power irl. I rather enjoy relaxing and knowing that there is little I can do apart from using words, thoughts and badly taken pictures to connect with people. People can enjoy their power and I can enjoy the ride, wherever that takes me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I understand sexpot to be a highly-sexed person, irrespective of appearance, in which case I wouldn't expect privilege to come into it

I think you'll find most people understand the term differently."

OK.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

The site is full of narcissists and histrionics - what do you expect!

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Having had time this week to read, partake and assess this forum/website, I have noticed a significant amount of folk showing an above average amount of these traits.

When I then look at their profiles and pics it confirms this.

Now if you are one of the few beautiful beautiful people on here then I think its fine to peer down from the pulpit, and play monarch.

But if you are just average or below then I think you should just act normal and not try and rise to these heights. I doubt you would act as superior in a place of work or at a social event.

Just my opinion that’s all.

"

Nobody has the right to look down on people or tell them what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beauty is completely subjective isn't it? I might think I'm beautiful but you might not

Yes it is correct

But for example how many profiles read

BBW some Tattoos ample smoker seeks exceptional athlectic guy

Its sheer exploitation of ratios, these people know exactly that a huge number of fellas will get stuck in to anything that’s on offer

Tbh I should be blaming the fellas themselves

Go on girls fill your waders

"

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