FabSwingers.com forum: I'm not a Porn star, I'm a human being

By *achiato OP Man
over a year ago

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Playing with couples is so breathtakingly exciting both mentally and physically but struggle with the cum on demand requests which really puts you in the spotlight.

Ejaculation and orgasm in Tantric sex are not mutually exclusive, not that I am a Yogi of any sort. Have never felt that the female was under any pressure to squirt to the ceiling as a reflection of my sexual skills, kind of more in tune with partners breathing and "I'm into this" relaxed eye and body contact as barometer of satisfaction not a weigh in of body fluids. Just chill and "let me do my thang" usually races across my mind cause nothing puts you off more than being interrupted but always bite my lip and smile whilst tugging vigorously for the money shot.

Go with the flow, I'm a swinger not a porn star you hired.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet a demanding couple,

Do this, Do that, Cum now etc

If either of them started trying to direct me I would tell them where to go

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I wouldn't meet a demanding couple,

Do this, Do that, Cum now etc

If either of them started trying to direct me I would tell them where to go

I agree if couples are demanding why meet? Mutual pleasure is the thing.

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By *achiato OP Man
over a year ago

Fife

I get the the role play, try this and try that that couples enjoy(me too) but when it gets all a bit mechanical then it seems to lose some sensuality....maybe there lies the problem. Get a Cum now switch tatooed on my butt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds like you're meeting the wrong couples OP.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Only guys can stop the demands by saying no or agreeing beforehand and maintaining those boundaries..

If you'd have stopped rather than smiling and tugging I'd have given you a

... know your worth and agree your boundaries

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By *achiato OP Man
over a year ago

Fife

Maybe over thinking this...Could be I'm too much in the moment and want to savour the experience. Time to cum means time to finish but hate the pressure and reassuring conversation that yes I was friggin turned on that's why I'm rock hard and still want to carry on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Maybe over thinking this...Could be I'm too much in the moment and want to savour the experience. Time to cum means time to finish but hate the pressure and reassuring conversation that yes I was friggin turned on that's why I'm rock hard and still want to carry on. "
do I understand correctly? you met a couple and when they'd had enough they told you it was time to cum?

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By *achiato OP Man
over a year ago

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Was highlighting that couples might have expectations of a porn star cum on demand from shoot director, but just your average guy here and that cumming on demand maybe a bit unrealistic and no reflection on the sexual prowess of those involved.

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