FabSwingers.com forum: Keeping up the momentum

By *rcher69 OP Man
over a year ago

nr Milton Keynes

Any advice on the below gratefully received:

Met a great sexy couple for a social after quite a lot of messaging, all went great, they're ace and say they want to play and we've exchanged quite a lot of fantasy messages since but due to diaries (both sides, hols etc) it doesn't look like playing is going to happen in the near future.

Question is, how to keep up the 'relationship' and stay fresh in their minds without badgering or coming across as needy or pushy?

Cheers

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why not set a date at some point in the future and in the meantime maintain contact however you choose. First establish that they aren't the kind of people who find it impossible to tell people they don't want to meet again and are just putting obstacles in the way or don't assume that you are.

By *rcher69 OP Man
over a year ago

nr Milton Keynes

Good advice about setting a future date.

These guys are genuine and really nice,the diary issues are both sides so no one to blame.

Cheers.

By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"Any advice on the below gratefully received:

Question is, how to keep up the 'relationship' and stay fresh in their minds without badgering or coming across as needy or pushy?

Cheers

Why not ask them? They are only ones who can give you the answer

As also said arrange a date in the future.