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By *ootall2920 OP   Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow

What to do?

My master has gone AWOL, no message from him for 8 days. He didn't tell me he was going dark. I have asked if he is ok, but no answer.

I have to get his permission to play, he has only refused it once. I can only meagre him through Fab. How long do I leave it until I fail my master and seek a meet? (Serious question)

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By *ootall2920 OP   Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow

*message Not meagre

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By *oAngelsCouple
over a year ago

Sutton

Approximately 4 seconds!

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

times up

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By *ootall2920 OP   Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow

That long? Lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You should of binned him off when he ignored your message.

Those sort of mind games aren't fair if you ask me.

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By *upidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

If no answer after a week move on

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By *ootall2920 OP   Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow


"You should of binned him off when he ignored your message.

Those sort of mind games aren't fair if you ask me."

The mind games are part of the fun, to a certain extent. My worry is if he doesn't return, then how long have I wasted?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"What to do?

My master has gone AWOL, no message from him for 8 days. He didn't tell me he was going dark. I have asked if he is ok, but no answer.

I have to get his permission to play, he has only refused it once. I can only meagre him through Fab. How long do I leave it until I fail my master and seek a meet? (Serious question)"

Your master has a responsibility to you, for your health & well-being. If he treats you so poorly, he does not deserve his title.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"You should of binned him off when he ignored your message.

Those sort of mind games aren't fair if you ask me.

The mind games are part of the fun, to a certain extent. My worry is if he doesn't return, then how long have I wasted?"

Yes, I get that but to go AWOL as you said is a little unkind.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

He might have popped his clogs. Best move on.

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By *aileyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

A week is enough. Move on.

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Move on. A week is more than long enough!

Ss

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Time to renegotiate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What to do?

My master has gone AWOL, no message from him for 8 days. He didn't tell me he was going dark. I have asked if he is ok, but no answer.

I have to get his permission to play, he has only refused it once. I can only meagre him through Fab. How long do I leave it until I fail my master and seek a meet? (Serious question)

Your master has a responsibility to you, for your health & well-being. If he treats you so poorly, he does not deserve his title."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What to do?

My master has gone AWOL, no message from him for 8 days. He didn't tell me he was going dark. I have asked if he is ok, but no answer.

I have to get his permission to play, he has only refused it once. I can only meagre him through Fab. How long do I leave it until I fail my master and seek a meet? (Serious question)

Your master has a responsibility to you, for your health & well-being. If he treats you so poorly, he does not deserve his title.

This

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Def this. Hate this word but "true" Masters don't act that way.

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By *ootall2920 OP   Man
over a year ago

Linlithgow


"What to do?

My master has gone AWOL, no message from him for 8 days. He didn't tell me he was going dark. I have asked if he is ok, but no answer.

I have to get his permission to play, he has only refused it once. I can only meagre him through Fab. How long do I leave it until I fail my master and seek a meet? (Serious question)

Your master has a responsibility to you, for your health & well-being. If he treats you so poorly, he does not deserve his title.

This

Def this. Hate this word but "true" Masters don't act that way."

Thanks everyone.

He finally messaged me tonight. I agree that he should act in a better way. I will renegotiate (as it was well put) at the next opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget him and find someone else. He's messing with you.

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