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"Hi everyone, as the subject suggests I’m looking for advice and tips on how to make my first club visit a good one. Being 19 I don’t feel very comfortable in a social situation with many older and much more experienced swingers but I want to give it a go. Any advice is much appreciated ![]() At 19 I wouldn't class you as a swinger. I'd class you as a young lad who just wants to get a shag without paying for a whore. Swinging is a lifestyle, get some pampas grass on your front lawn and they'll come flocking to you ![]() ![]() | |||
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"The attention from the older woman is the reason I keep going back..." It was couples behaviour that put me off even after the second time...hense why I won't meet couples here either. | |||
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"The attention from the older woman is the reason I keep going back... It was couples behaviour that put me off even after the second time...hense why I won't meet couples here either." How so please? I've never been to a club so very interested to get a fell for what happens, good or bad | |||
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"Hi everyone, as the subject suggests I’m looking for advice and tips on how to make my first club visit a good one. Being 19 I don’t feel very comfortable in a social situation with many older and much more experienced swingers but I want to give it a go. Any advice is much appreciated ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Hi everyone, as the subject suggests I’m looking for advice and tips on how to make my first club visit a good one. Being 19 I don’t feel very comfortable in a social situation with many older and much more experienced swingers but I want to give it a go. Any advice is much appreciated ![]() Get a proper gf....the trouble now with 19 year olds what do they know??? Anyway most clubs you have to.be 21 .....well I think it should be 25!!! Poor girls who don't swing when he has a real gf she won't do what he wants her to do cos hea been in a club! K feel sorry for any girl in the real world he picks up | |||
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"The attention from the older woman is the reason I keep going back... It was couples behaviour that put me off even after the second time...hense why I won't meet couples here either. How so please? I've never been to a club so very interested to get a fell for what happens, good or bad" A lot of couples in clubs can be very aloof toward single guys; I’ve been deliberately blanked by some, but most will just say “We’re not interested in single guys thanks”, then look away. You do need a thick skin as a single guy in a club, be able to take rejection then move on to open dialogue with others (you will always be expected to talk first, seems to be an unwritten rule). BUT! It does depend on who is in when you are; any club is only as good as it’s patrons ![]() | |||
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"Take ID. If he takes his if he gonna be sent home clubs are mainly 21 and over " Take fab age ID. | |||
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"Go to the right club. In Manchester if you went to certain clubs you'd get nowhere, and others be overwhelmed. Never expect and be respectful. Good luck mate ![]() Which are the good and bad clubs in Manc for an (older) single guy? By the way OP, sorry to slightly hijack your thread, I was going to pose a similar question. | |||
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"Thanks for the reply _oiluvfun. I'm at the early of getting an idea of what clubs are like, but it's not the first time I've heard this regarding single men, especially if you're not young / fit / attractive / hung. Not really good news as I would be nervous and reserved, also not really thick skinned ... never been good at chatting anyone up in a pub/club Unfortunately, I'm being advised that clubs/socials are my best option, as I'm not likely to make any headway on here no matter how much profile reading and polite messaging do. " I have far more success with private meets through Fab, with both couples and single females, but the club scene has been a steep learning curve for me, and I’ve done 8 visits as a single guy. I went to a social evening in my local town, but was warned off attending by friends as the event had gone public via Facebook! Unfortunately I only got the message as I sat down with my drink, so chose to sit back and watch as the staff sniggered and chuckled to themselves about the party at the big table, right in the middle of the pub! Put me off socials that night ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Take ID. If he takes his if he gonna be sent home clubs are mainly 21 and over " Exactly my thoughts, all the clubs I've been to are 21 and over. And strictly enforced for guys. | |||
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"You’ll be fine. Guys will hit on you regardless of what you look like. You’re a female." No he isn't, look! | |||
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"Thanks for the advice guys ![]() Eurekas is 18+ | |||
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"Some of the responses seem a little lofty and patronising to be honest, as though attending swinging clubs requires sage wisdom and decades of experience. Just relax and don’t expect anything at all. I’ve met plenty of older ignorant rude fools and young people who were mature beyond their years. As long as the rules of the club are respected these clubs are for all respectful people to enjoy." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Hi everyone, as the subject suggests I’m looking for advice and tips on how to make my first club visit a good one. Being 19 I don’t feel very comfortable in a social situation with many older and much more experienced swingers but I want to give it a go. Any advice is much appreciated ![]() Check the age requirements before you go... some clubs are over 25s Cal | |||
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