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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I notice that every time I use lube or even when I just have sex using condoms that have lube on them, that it seems to turn to lots of little bits with all the friction. My nether regions end up being covered in little rolled up flakes of lube?! It's so gross. I'm pretty sure it's not just my lady bits that need a good exfoliation otherwise this would happen when I have sex with my husband without condoms. Does this happen to everyone else?! It's so gross and having to try to wipe off the bits between sessions is so not sexy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There must be someone. Almost all of us use condoms and/or lube?!

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"There must be someone. Almost all of us use condoms and/or lube?!"
try some vet lube .it remains exactly the same throughout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not experienced that, but when ever I use lube it gives me thrush?!?!? WTF

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've not experienced that, but when ever I use lube it gives me thrush?!?!? WTF

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Yes I have to be careful which lube I use otherwise it just stings!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There must be someone. Almost all of us use condoms and/or lube?!try some vet lube .it remains exactly the same throughout "

Vet lube?

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria


"There must be someone. Almost all of us use condoms and/or lube?!try some vet lube .it remains exactly the same throughout

Vet lube?"

Not to be confused with Veet, ouch.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

If I use KY i get a stinging sensation. I hate the stuff. The absolute best lube on the market is sensilube which is an oil based lube as opposed to the KY water based lubes. I find the oil based lubes MUCH better. I love anal sex so have tried most of the lubes on the market. Another good one is Lubido which is cheaper and available from Amazon. That's a fantastic oil based lube. No bits left behind using that x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I use KY i get a stinging sensation. I hate the stuff. The absolute best lube on the market is sensilube which is an oil based lube as opposed to the KY water based lubes. I find the oil based lubes MUCH better. I love anal sex so have tried most of the lubes on the market. Another good one is Lubido which is cheaper and available from Amazon. That's a fantastic oil based lube. No bits left behind using that x"

Thanks, can oil based lubes be used with condoms though or is it just latex condoms that it's an issue with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ordered a box of skyn condoms off amazon and a free skyn lube with it. It’s brilliant, it doesn’t feel heavy or greasy and doesn’t irritate my lady area. Haven’t tried it for anal yet though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another thread about lube in swingers chat might have some useful information.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"There must be someone. Almost all of us use condoms and/or lube?!try some vet lube .it remains exactly the same throughout

Vet lube?"
yes its the lube vets,use to deliver calves .it doesn't dry up at all .it doesn't cause any friction .its v v expensive stuff .I know someone who has it then re bottles it into smaller bottles .it beats,any lube sold in shops or chemists by miles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There must be someone. Almost all of us use condoms and/or lube?!try some vet lube .it remains exactly the same throughout

Vet lube?yes its the lube vets,use to deliver calves .it doesn't dry up at all .it doesn't cause any friction .its v v expensive stuff .I know someone who has it then re bottles it into smaller bottles .it beats,any lube sold in shops or chemists by miles "

Wow I thought you're original reply was an autocorrect gone wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vet lube?"

Try J lube, think this is the same stuff, it starts as powder which you have to mix up. Was lots about it on a fisting page I used to use with lots of mixing tips!

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By *teveukkentMan
over a year ago

Local

What about good old vaseline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vaseline's way to messy and hard to get out and off of everywhere! Also worried it'll melt my favourite dildos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use ID glide lube (get it from amazon) highly recommended

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Best lube found so far is one called liquid silk

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"If I use KY i get a stinging sensation. I hate the stuff. The absolute best lube on the market is sensilube which is an oil based lube as opposed to the KY water based lubes. I find the oil based lubes MUCH better. I love anal sex so have tried most of the lubes on the market. Another good one is Lubido which is cheaper and available from Amazon. That's a fantastic oil based lube. No bits left behind using that x

Thanks, can oil based lubes be used with condoms though or is it just latex condoms that it's an issue with?

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Sorry it was my bad. Sensilube and Lubido are SILICONE based lubes NOT oil. Silicone based lubes are fine with condoms. Sensilube really is the best on the market. It comes in a tiny bottle and you only need a small amount. It never dries out. Georgous for anal x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There must be someone. Almost all of us use condoms and/or lube?!try some vet lube .it remains exactly the same throughout

Vet lube?yes its the lube vets,use to deliver calves .it doesn't dry up at all .it doesn't cause any friction .its v v expensive stuff .I know someone who has it then re bottles it into smaller bottles .it beats,any lube sold in shops or chemists by miles "

Buy it in 5L then it's not expensive. I have loads of it. I don't use it though as I don't often need lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have 'flakes' then your lube may be degrading the condom. Some oil based lubes don't mix with some condoms, see previous comments on latex, back to reading the box/ leaflets to be certain.

Mrs

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"I've not experienced that, but when ever I use lube it gives me thrush?!?!? WTF

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Try waterbased ones, parabins and glycerin in some lubes can cause nasties in ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we use pjur for women very slippery lasts ages, silicone based no smell or taste

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By *rishcouple12Couple
over a year ago

Cork County

We concur on pjur but I use the water based for sensitive skin. Feels amazing and lasts ages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you so much for so many great recommendations xxx

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