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"I go to BBW events because I feel the same way. I may still be one of the biggest in the club; but at least I know that the men will be admirers at those events. " Same here. I went to one club where a friend of mine (a larger lady too) was playing in an open room and there were a couple of 'body beautiful' women outside nodding towards her and sniggering. I thought that was bloody rude and nasty - however, I had to remind myself that it was my larger friend who was having fun and not left to pose outside the room. | |||
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"I am a large lady and would only feel comfortable around another lady similar any one else feel like this?" I have refused to meet couples because the lady is so much slimmer than me. | |||
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" Same here. I went to one club where a friend of mine (a larger lady too) was playing in an open room and there were a couple of 'body beautiful' women outside nodding towards her and sniggering. I thought that was bloody rude and nasty - however, I had to remind myself that it was my larger friend who was having fun and not left to pose outside the room. " Proof that "beautiful" women can be c*nts too ... And good for your friend ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Difficult one...my partner is very body conscious but actually this lifestyle has given her some more confidence. But really we all fancy different types. And without wishing to reinforce any particluar stereotypes, many guys really do prefer larger ladies. Leave your worries behind and just have fun." I agree about this lifestyle giving more confidence, and no I'm no longer a larger lady, but used to be, found I got far more attractive and genuine offers when I was! Embrace your body no matter what your size | |||
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"I am a large lady and would only feel comfortable around another lady similar any one else feel like this? I have refused to meet couples because the lady is so much slimmer than me." I think that would be my hang up too | |||
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"Difficult one...my partner is very body conscious but actually this lifestyle has given her some more confidence. But really we all fancy different types. And without wishing to reinforce any particluar stereotypes, many guys really do prefer larger ladies. Leave your worries behind and just have fun. I agree about this lifestyle giving more confidence, and no I'm no longer a larger lady, but used to be, found I got far more attractive and genuine offers when I was! Embrace your body no matter what your size" Great post...now I need to act on it | |||
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"I am a large lady and would only feel comfortable around another lady similar any one else feel like this? I have refused to meet couples because the lady is so much slimmer than me." so u understand what I mean then | |||
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"I am a large lady and would only feel comfortable around another lady similar any one else feel like this?" Yes I feel the same. If I was meeting a lady she would have to be a size 18 and curvy like myself..... ![]() | |||
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"I understand!!! I'll admit something stupid I do. When a guy writes to me I look at his verifications to see if he has met other big ladies. If he has not, if he has only slim ladies verifying, I don't go on with the conversation. I'd be too afraid to meet someone who thinks I am too big for his taste or to be confronted with fitter women." I do this too!! ![]() | |||
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"I am a large lady and would only feel comfortable around another lady similar any one else feel like this? I have refused to meet couples because the lady is so much slimmer than me.so u understand what I mean then " totally. I would feel so self conscious | |||
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"I understand!!! I'll admit something stupid I do. When a guy writes to me I look at his verifications to see if he has met other big ladies. If he has not, if he has only slim ladies verifying, I don't go on with the conversation. I'd be too afraid to meet someone who thinks I am too big for his taste or to be confronted with fitter women. I do this too!! ![]() Me too ![]() | |||
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"I am a large lady and would only feel comfortable around another lady similar any one else feel like this?" Nope..... I'm lush ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I am a large lady and would only feel comfortable around another lady similar any one else feel like this?" I have always been on the larger size, but have alot of confidence, i can honestly say my body shape has never put off men or women, and i get plenty of attention. I find in clubs alot of the women are bigger, like me, but also comfortable with their shape | |||
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"I am a large lady and would only feel comfortable around another lady similar any one else feel like this? I have always been on the larger size, but have alot of confidence, i can honestly say my body shape has never put off men or women, and i get plenty of attention. I find in clubs alot of the women are bigger, like me, but also comfortable with their shape " Larger ladies have more fun... I've been in a club 4 hours and noticed slimmer girls walking around and finding no fun, until they're sloshed at midnight. Surely that says lack of confidence too! | |||
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"I understand!!! I'll admit something stupid I do. When a guy writes to me I look at his verifications to see if he has met other big ladies. If he has not, if he has only slim ladies verifying, I don't go on with the conversation. I'd be too afraid to meet someone who thinks I am too big for his taste or to be confronted with fitter women. I do this too!! ![]() ![]() Same here. | |||
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"I understand!!! I'll admit something stupid I do. When a guy writes to me I look at his verifications to see if he has met other big ladies. If he has not, if he has only slim ladies verifying, I don't go on with the conversation. I'd be too afraid to meet someone who thinks I am too big for his taste or to be confronted with fitter women." I think a lot of us do it ![]() | |||
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"Nope. Large ladies make me uncomfortable ![]() Why? Are you worried you won’t be able to squirm out from under us? ![]() | |||
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"I am a large lady and would only feel comfortable around another lady similar any one else feel like this?" if that's what youre comfortable with then carry on, don't scare yourself. If you're happy and that works for you then you don't need to worry about anyone else | |||
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"Nope. Large ladies make me uncomfortable ![]() We bounce better and put more effort into play... Not known to be pillow princesses ![]() | |||
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"I feel self conscious if there are a lot of slimmer, younger, hot people about in a club, especially if I’ve come on my own, but generally I have a lot of fun in clubs and at socials. I wonder sometimes whether the pert bottomed people still standing about in their pretty underwear at midnight really do." Still standing around till closing haha | |||
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"Big is beautiful if nobody likes the look of us gorgeous lady's then they can shut their eyes n move on. I'm a barmaid @ clubf and saturday i totally stripped off dancing behind the bar and all the members loved it! This Wednesday I'll be totally naked except for a little apron. Be big and proud lady's Xxx ![]() WOW love this ![]() | |||
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"I feel self conscious if there are a lot of slimmer, younger, hot people about in a club, especially if I’ve come on my own, but generally I have a lot of fun in clubs and at socials. I wonder sometimes whether the pert bottomed people still standing about in their pretty underwear at midnight really do. Still standing around till closing haha" So, so many, because they haven’t found someone as ‘gorgeous’ as they are.. | |||
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"I go to BBW events because I feel the same way. I may still be one of the biggest in the club; but at least I know that the men will be admirers at those events. Same here. I went to one club where a friend of mine (a larger lady too) was playing in an open room and there were a couple of 'body beautiful' women outside nodding towards her and sniggering. I thought that was bloody rude and nasty - however, I had to remind myself that it was my larger friend who was having fun and not left to pose outside the room. " Exactly so ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I understand!!! I'll admit something stupid I do. When a guy writes to me I look at his verifications to see if he has met other big ladies. If he has not, if he has only slim ladies verifying, I don't go on with the conversation. I'd be too afraid to meet someone who thinks I am too big for his taste or to be confronted with fitter women." Oh I’m so glad I’m not the only one Last year I met up with a guy on here a few times. I invited him to a club but he said he was working. The night in question he turned up at the club with a very slim woman and was embarrassed to see me there. Every time I saw him at a club after that he was always with a slim woman. He’s tried to meet up with me again but I refuse to. He hasn’t displayed my veris, only those from slim women All his pics are with slim women He professes to really like me, I was his first fab meet etc etc. I gave him one more chance and he let me down. We went to a club together - he ignored me and I found him in the open play room with a slim woman. Says it all He’s history | |||
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"Ive been after a Genuine BBW LOVER for ages... .it's proving to be a non x fantasy... ![]() We are out there, I promise. As a larger person myself, I find I am more attracted to (ss)bbw ladies. I find larger ladies to be more friendly, have an all round better attitude and they also are usually much kinker. | |||
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"I think men that settle for big women can't get hardbody women and aren't being honest with women or themselves but that's just my opinion" You’re a brave man...... | |||
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"Nope. Large ladies make me uncomfortable ![]() ![]() Haha love that answer but do respect that bbw are not everyones cup of tea though why it makes someone uncomfortable i dont know. | |||
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"I think men that settle for big women can't get hardbody women and aren't being honest with women or themselves but that's just my opinion" I dont think men settle for big women they have to like them.Your preference is a hard body fair play to you but i can assure you ive played with some hard bodied young men that have a great time with me and enjoy other bbws and certainly not because they cant attract other women. | |||
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"I understand!!! I'll admit something stupid I do. When a guy writes to me I look at his verifications to see if he has met other big ladies. If he has not, if he has only slim ladies verifying, I don't go on with the conversation. I'd be too afraid to meet someone who thinks I am too big for his taste or to be confronted with fitter women. Oh I’m so glad I’m not the only one Last year I met up with a guy on here a few times. I invited him to a club but he said he was working. The night in question he turned up at the club with a very slim woman and was embarrassed to see me there. Every time I saw him at a club after that he was always with a slim woman. He’s tried to meet up with me again but I refuse to. He hasn’t displayed my veris, only those from slim women All his pics are with slim women He professes to really like me, I was his first fab meet etc etc. I gave him one more chance and he let me down. We went to a club together - he ignored me and I found him in the open play room with a slim woman. Says it all He’s history " He's a twat!!! You're well rid ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think men that settle for big women can't get hardbody women and aren't being honest with women or themselves but that's just my opinion" Interesting, you winked me two months ago and I'm fat ... Go on, tell me the wink was a click by mistake, even the "are you sure you want to send a wink?" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think men that settle for big women can't get hardbody women and aren't being honest with women or themselves but that's just my opinion Interesting, you winked me two months ago and I'm fat ... Go on, tell me the wink was a click by mistake, even the "are you sure you want to send a wink?" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I can't wait for his response | |||
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"I think men that settle for big women can't get hardbody women and aren't being honest with women or themselves but that's just my opinion Interesting, you winked me two months ago and I'm fat ... Go on, tell me the wink was a click by mistake, even the "are you sure you want to send a wink?" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Lol i bloody love it pmsl x | |||
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"I think men that settle for big women can't get hardbody women and aren't being honest with women or themselves but that's just my opinion Interesting, you winked me two months ago and I'm fat ... Go on, tell me the wink was a click by mistake, even the "are you sure you want to send a wink?" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I understand OP’s feeling. Id rather larger ladies play with me and my partners. Im not sure if its me being insecure about my size or jealous if we have a smaller lady. I realize im a big girl and its not everyones cup of tea, but i find it a little offensive that its a ‘kink’ or ‘weird’ to fancy bigger girls! Im sure im not the only one who feels this way " I agree. It's fetishised as if being fat is a weird kinky thing rather than just a normal variation in body type. I prefer not to go to BBW events because although it's a nice confidence boost I don't really want the niggling doubt that they're only interested in my because fat people is their "fetish". | |||
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"Doggy style is good ![]() Yes I found doggy was the best way in! | |||
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"i like on top ![]() ![]() We like them sandwiched between us ![]() | |||
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"Yes sometimes.i feel uncomfortable..but I just. fluff up my Tut tu..and hold head high.. enjoy my night regardless.. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm larger in regular life, not sure what I am here. When I first joined I was really self conscious about my size, but I've found I'm really appreciated for who I am (in person). Positive reinforcement from friends, work on my self esteem issues etc, has meant I see it as less of an issue now. I am who I am, take me or leave me. I wish everyone the ability to not give a fuck. " Couldn’t agree more. I’ve found guys in here that love the junk in the trunk I have. Gives me a nice little boost too. | |||
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"I understand!!! I'll admit something stupid I do. When a guy writes to me I look at his verifications to see if he has met other big ladies. If he has not, if he has only slim ladies verifying, I don't go on with the conversation. I'd be too afraid to meet someone who thinks I am too big for his taste or to be confronted with fitter women. I do this too!! ![]() And me ![]() | |||
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"Isnt it a shame how we are so hung up on bodies... I'm guilty of worrying and im coming to realise it really dosent matter!... if someone had preference to opt for a smaller lady ..cool... if someone chooses a bigger lady .. cool.. at the end of the day great sex is a result of confidence so what the hell life's short.. enjoy every second!xxx ![]() I couldn't agree more ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Isnt it a shame how we are so hung up on bodies... I'm guilty of worrying and im coming to realise it really dosent matter!... if someone had preference to opt for a smaller lady ..cool... if someone chooses a bigger lady .. cool.. at the end of the day great sex is a result of confidence so what the hell life's short.. enjoy every second!xxx ![]() ![]() ![]() I wanna sit in my nursing home with a glint in my eye knowing ive lived a bit! Xx | |||
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"Isnt it a shame how we are so hung up on bodies... I'm guilty of worrying and im coming to realise it really dosent matter!... if someone had preference to opt for a smaller lady ..cool... if someone chooses a bigger lady .. cool.. at the end of the day great sex is a result of confidence so what the hell life's short.. enjoy every second!xxx ![]() ![]() ![]() Too right, I can safely say I've ticked a couple off the list ![]() | |||
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"I think that's why I'm a bit wary of clubs...I really don't know where my.body shape fits to be honest." It fits naked on top of mine ![]() | |||
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"I think that's why I'm a bit wary of clubs...I really don't know where my.body shape fits to be honest." Looking at your profile pics there's absolutely nothing wrong with your body shape. In fact it's stunning. | |||
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"I am a large lady and would only feel comfortable around another lady similar any one else feel like this?" Yes this is me | |||
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"I'm larger in regular life, not sure what I am here. When I first joined I was really self conscious about my size, but I've found I'm really appreciated for who I am (in person). Positive reinforcement from friends, work on my self esteem issues etc, has meant I see it as less of an issue now. I am who I am, take me or leave me. I wish everyone the ability to not give a fuck. " ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I understand!!! I'll admit something stupid I do. When a guy writes to me I look at his verifications to see if he has met other big ladies. If he has not, if he has only slim ladies verifying, I don't go on with the conversation. I'd be too afraid to meet someone who thinks I am too big for his taste or to be confronted with fitter women." ![]() | |||
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"I am a large lady and would only feel comfortable around another lady similar any one else feel like this?" I used to but decided to boost my confidence with a lovely poster of Beth Ditto to remind me sexy comes in all shapes and sizes and confidence is the biggest turn on. I now have a collection of pics of sexy women who are plus sized to look at and help me love my bod as it is. | |||
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"The three ladies I've met off here have all been size 16-20 & my wife is size 16 too. I just can't get enough ![]() . A size 16 really is not a bbw. This is why women like me get abused and told we are too big because men are disillusioned by smaller women claiming to be bbw. | |||
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