FabSwingers.com forum: confidence issues when attending clubs..

By *mo OP Man
over a year ago

Salford

Hi guys, I'm just wondering if anybody else suffers from being shy when at clubs? I'm not sure how to approach ladies in there. Any tips would be appreciated guys. Thanks x

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Hi guys, I'm just wondering if anybody else suffers from being shy when at clubs? I'm not sure how to approach ladies in there. Any tips would be appreciated guys. Thanks x "

Just go over and say hi, make friendly conversation etc. Just as if you're in a vanilla club.

There's a couple of parties coming up at chams where single male non members are allowed if they are on the guest list, you should look into going, there's a few single females going to both events.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to townhouse for the first time last night and was shy when i walked in but a few people made me feel welcome and was chatting away within half hour. It's worth it as soon as you walk through the door

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By *anksy100Man
over a year ago

London

Not been myself. Although have been advised everyone is really friendly and depending on the club they’ll even give you a tour to make you feel at ease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m still a club virgin and I know I’ll be quite shy when I finally go to one!

Shall see how it goes!

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By *mo OP Man
over a year ago

Salford

Feel free to come an be scared with me lol x

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I’m still a club virgin and I know I’ll be quite shy when I finally go to one!

Shall see how it goes!"

Come to chams!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m still a club virgin and I know I’ll be quite shy when I finally go to one!

Shall see how it goes!

Come to chams! "

That’s where everyone recommends and it’s definitely where I’ll be going for my first meet since it’s so close to me!

It’s just plucking up the courage haha! X

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I’m still a club virgin and I know I’ll be quite shy when I finally go to one!

Shall see how it goes!

Come to chams!

That’s where everyone recommends and it’s definitely where I’ll be going for my first meet since it’s so close to me!

It’s just plucking up the courage haha! X"

I often arrive on my own, it's alot less scary once you get in there. I'm happy to introduce you around to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just talk to people like you would in a "normal" pub or club - there's nothing more offputting than when a guy's second sentence to you is sex-related.... "I'm Mark how are you, you fancy coming to a room then / do you play lots?"

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