FabSwingers.com forum: Threesome advice

By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago

tralee

Have a wedding coming up and the groom is staying with myself and my girlfriend for a day or two before the wedding she has suggested a threesome with him as a “wedding gift” is it unfair to put him in this position or is it a good idea.

Any help is appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrible idea.

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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago

tralee

Really why?

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

It's unfair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you seriously have to ask why its a bad idea for a guy to be sleeping with someone else a day before his wedding?

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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago

tralee

"It's unfair. "

Even if he was keen?

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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago

tralee

"Do you seriously have to ask why its a bad idea for a guy to be sleeping with someone else a day before his wedding?

Even if he was keen?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

even if he is keen! what about the bride?????????? she may well not be so damn keen!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago

tralee

"even if he is keen! what about the bride?????????? she may well not be so damn keen!!!!!!!!!!!

I totally understand but maybe some discreet fun between the 3 of us

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"even if he is keen! what about the bride?????????? she may well not be so damn keen!!!!!!!!!!!

I totally understand but maybe some discreet fun between the 3 of us"

sorry but cannot agree, if he is remaining single then that maybe not so bad to keep from a girlfriend but this is just so wrong on many counts the poor girl is marrying him remember she does count!

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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago

tralee

"even if he is keen! what about the bride?????????? she may well not be so damn keen!!!!!!!!!!!

I totally understand but maybe some discreet fun between the 3 of us

sorry but cannot agree, if he is remaining single then that maybe not so bad to keep from a girlfriend but this is just so wrong on many counts the poor girl is marrying him remember she does count!"

Of course I see your point so best to leave it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you like living your life in a soap opera

Does anyone remember that program. It used to end with things like

Does Tony tell Natalie that he and his wife slept with Roger the night before her wedding to him. How will Natalie react. Will she be pleased or a bit angry. Does Natalie have any idea. Will Sharon spill the beans to Natalie before the big day.

Bla Bla Bla. find out next week in SOAP.

You get the idea. Good luck there mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really !!?? Just NO .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice idea but maybe consequences! Wait until the reception and you’ve had a few and there might be a willing participant!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Bad idea

Already cheating before he's even married ,that's if he says yes

If not might be a bit awks for you all.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Honest genuine single guy that's got a girlfriend and wants to have a 3sum with the groom just before the guy gets married? How would the groom feel if his bride was getting horsed just before the wedding? You read some stupid stuff here but this is top 3

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

"Have a wedding coming up and the groom is staying with myself and my girlfriend for a day or two before the wedding she has suggested a threesome with him as a “wedding gift” is it unfair to put him in this position or is it a good idea.

Any help is appreciated "

And you're here as a single guy, it appears that honesty, trust and loyalty don't feature much in your life.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

You are assuming his G/F doesn't know he has a profile on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this is a serious post, words fail me.

You assume that he would want one. And show a lack of respect to his future wife that can only be described as vile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, glad we don’t have mates like you. What a crass idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is disgusting. The forums give me more and more reasons to block people every day.

You're offering to help your friend cheat? That's not what real friends do. Look in the mirror. Disgusting.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Wow I’m married, I swing, if all parties are happy..,

Possibly be more ecological as a foursome though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The open minded lynch mob

I wouldn’t advise it myself op, but if you’re all good with it then fill ya boots.

If you wouldn’t mind pointing the bride in our direction we’d happily keep her entertained for the evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the 3 of you are up for it , then go for it. Just expect consequences if it all goes south

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The open minded lynch mob

So unless swinger condone cheating they aren't open minded? And this scenario goes a little further than cheating...

The OP asked for people's thoughts, it's hardly a lynching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this just a fantasy post fella to create a forum post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The open minded lynch mob

So unless swinger condone cheating they aren't open minded? And this scenario goes a little further than cheating...

The OP asked for people's thoughts, it's hardly a lynching. "

But because you don’t condone it you found the need to call him vile ?

How does it go further than cheating ?

His pal won’t be married at the time and of course no stag or hen party has ended with the bequeathed getting their rocks off one last time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is disgusting. The forums give me more and more reasons to block people every day.

You're offering to help your friend cheat? That's not what real friends do. Look in the mirror. Disgusting."

Just want to make it clear what I meant. Having a threesome with the guy is fine, but not without the wife's permission. Cheating is never okay in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hes a big boy he can make his own decisions, make the proposition and see what he says, itll either be a yes or a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is disgusting. The forums give me more and more reasons to block people every day.

You're offering to help your friend cheat? That's not what real friends do. Look in the mirror. Disgusting.

Just want to make it clear what I meant. Having a threesome with the guy is fine, but not without the wife's permission. Cheating is never okay in my book."

Never back track fella just to please others ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously? All I can think of to say on the matter is “grow up”.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

"You are assuming his G/F doesn't know he has a profile on here"

True, and from the nature of the post a quite reasonable assumption don't you think

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I would say no as she is happy to have a threesome then she could be on here too or at least know he is on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's unfair.

Even if he was keen?"
especially wrong if he's keen totally shows that he obviously shouldn't be getting married to his fiancé

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By *amb210Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Wind up merchant...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really wish Fab had the facepalm emoji.

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By *iknaknok42Man
over a year ago

limavady

Nice thought...bad idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any help is appreciated "

yeah its a bad idea

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

Rugby, that is not enough. It needs at least three.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

"Bad idea

Already cheating before he's even married ,that's if he says yes

If not might be a bit awks for you all."
it'll be on Jeremy kyle before you know what's hit you

Its a truely bad idea

A recipe for disaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has to be a piss take for a reaction.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Any help is appreciated "
what sort of gift ? " a bun in the oven for your girlfriend " if she did suggest that I'd think seriously about binning her .you obviously aint enough for her . for gods sake how do you think his bride to be would take it .definately Jeremy kyle material

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

"This has to be a piss take for a reaction. "
no piss take I can assure you .would you do it ? And how would it make you feel if you were the bride to be. I say what I feel .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disgusting to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantasy Island.....Hey Boss it’s de plane

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Disrespectful!

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

I'm pretty certain this is bait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has to be a piss take for a reaction. no piss take I can assure you .would you do it ? And how would it make you feel if you were the bride to be. I say what I feel . "

I wasn't saying your reply was a piss take. I'd have used reply & quote.

I'm saying the OP is a piss take.

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's a really bad idea

The bride could get hurt hurt and hurt again... And you'd be involved if not responsible

Don't do it and keep it as a fantasy instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad idea! Even if the bride and groom had an open relationship and were swingers, I would be fuming if my husband to be had a threesome without me knowing, the night before our wedding

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

If you have to ask for opinions on here then you obviously don’t think it’s a good idea. If you did then you’d just go ahead with it.

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By *reddie51Man
over a year ago

north east

Bloody stupid question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you seriously have to ask why its a bad idea for a guy to be sleeping with someone else a day before his wedding?

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg!

Nooooo....don't do it!

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Single guy asks " My girlfriend is in a coma, is it alright if I bang her mum, dad and sister on her hospital bed?"

Rest of the world "No!!!"

Single guy "Why is it a bad idea?"

Other single guy " Go for it..."

Sorry, we know a lot of great single guys from here but others beggar belief...

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Jeremy Kyle would love to invite him onto his show .

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By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London

think this should be in the stories and fiction section

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By *humper9erMan
over a year ago

Rocklin

Just how Stupid can your gf be? She gets the LOOSER award!

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