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By *uppies OP   Couple
over a year ago

sw

How do we find out where this happens in our area. Who sets the rules? Wife likes to be looked at and sometimes touched but that’s it. Is that normal ? No pm’s please .just advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi both I am in the same position as you.

I would love to watch a woman having fun and have her touch and play with me.

meets are not normally advertised too early on here from what i gather due to possibility of the attendance of unwanted guests like the police im guessing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to arrange your own Dogging meets these day's..find yourselves a spot you would think would be suitable and private..then you invite the number of guys you want with your rules already in place..The trouble with uncontrolled Dogging is, it can turn into a sausage fest ..and of course you have the possibility of being secretly filmed via mobile phones and dash cams with no control on where the footage will end up.. open Dogging is dying off, you only have to look at the many Dogging meet posts on here, most do not get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best to arrange your own Dogging meets these day's..find yourselves a spot you would think would be suitable and private..then you invite the number of guys you want with your rules already in place..The trouble with uncontrolled Dogging is, it can turn into a sausage fest ..and of course you have the possibility of being secretly filmed via mobile phones and dash cams with no control on where the footage will end up.. open Dogging is dying off, you only have to look at the many Dogging meet posts on here, most do not get a reply"
in public but what goes on in private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best to arrange your own Dogging meets these day's..find yourselves a spot you would think would be suitable and private..then you invite the number of guys you want with your rules already in place..The trouble with uncontrolled Dogging is, it can turn into a sausage fest ..and of course you have the possibility of being secretly filmed via mobile phones and dash cams with no control on where the footage will end up.. open Dogging is dying off, you only have to look at the many Dogging meet posts on here, most do not get a reply

in public but what goes on in private "

Don't no what you mean

when we have set up a private dogging meet we outline our rules and rules about filming ..I Mr control and keep an eye on what goes on .. we only invite two or three guys and they know what we expect from them and what they are allowed to

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"How do we find out where this happens in our area. Who sets the rules? Wife likes to be looked at and sometimes touched but that’s it. Is that normal ? No pm’s please .just advice. you know the holes bay restaurant in Poole that car park at night to op and all that ans this .op you must take private messages .do not post locations on forum as it will ruin the dogging site in a couple of weeks .they will be over run with to many cars ect.and they get to littered up .not being bolshy .but long time at dogging seen it happen many times ."

Great advice, sometimes folks you need to think long term, why would you advertise a nice discreet spot where you can have repeated fun, when a simple pm would answer your question and give you something to enjoy time and again.

It maybe in a public place, but you still need to keep things private if you don't want to alert those who can/are going to, spoil it for you and others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do we find out where this happens in our area. Who sets the rules? Wife likes to be looked at and sometimes touched but that’s it. Is that normal ? No pm’s please .just advice. you know the holes bay restaurant in Poole that car park at night to op and all that ans this .op you must take private messages .do not post locations on forum as it will ruin the dogging site in a couple of weeks .they will be over run with to many cars ect.and they get to littered up .not being bolshy .but long time at dogging seen it happen many times .

Great advice, sometimes folks you need to think long term, why would you advertise a nice discreet spot where you can have repeated fun, when a simple pm would answer your question and give you something to enjoy time and again.

It maybe in a public place, but you still need to keep things private if you don't want to alert those who can/are going to, spoil it for you and others. "

Yes.. just advertised the rough area any Dogging meet is going to take place..always give the full location via a PM once you are happy with the people who responded to your advert or meet request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your best bet is to just take a drive out OP over a couple of evenings and suss out some secluded car parks or laybys.

As for pre-arranging, wheres the thrill in that ffs! It's just a meet but guess some want it pasteurised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your best bet is to just take a drive out OP over a couple of evenings and suss out some secluded car parks or laybys.

As for pre-arranging, wheres the thrill in that ffs! It's just a meet but guess some want it pasteurised."

How would people know where to meet you then if you have sussed out a car park or layby..what about the security cameras in the car park..some folk do not like it turning into a sausage fest too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your best bet is to just take a drive out OP over a couple of evenings and suss out some secluded car parks or laybys.

As for pre-arranging, wheres the thrill in that ffs! It's just a meet but guess some want it pasteurised."

We all work differently ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your best bet is to just take a drive out OP over a couple of evenings and suss out some secluded car parks or laybys.

As for pre-arranging, wheres the thrill in that ffs! It's just a meet but guess some want it pasteurised.

How would people know where to meet you then if you have sussed out a car park or layby..what about the security cameras in the car park..some folk do not like it turning into a sausage fest too.."

Have you been dogging before??

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Couples seem to make this much more difficult than it needs to be, it's been our favourite type of fun for years, as a couple you are holding all the cards, and you make all the rules, find a suitable place to park, start kissing and touching while watching to see who's taking an interest, either pop your interior light on so they can see more or open your window and talk to them, that's when you can set the rules, don't post the address of your intended carpark on here it causes too much unwanted attention, if your carpark is completely empty try using the "see who's near" link and invite a few people who are online and local for an instant meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your best bet is to just take a drive out OP over a couple of evenings and suss out some secluded car parks or laybys.

As for pre-arranging, wheres the thrill in that ffs! It's just a meet but guess some want it pasteurised.

How would people know where to meet you then if you have sussed out a car park or layby..what about the security cameras in the car park..some folk do not like it turning into a sausage fest too..

Have you been dogging before??"

Yeah loads of times, have you..like I say, we all work different and do what suits each individual person or couple, we gave our advice because it works for us..if somebody uses it or not thats upto them. it's about doing and acting on what's best for you..we value are privacy and the thought of any pics or videos getting out would mortifie us..we have sons in their 30's and the thought of them comimg across a pic or video of their mum getting fucked in the back of a car or sucking cock would be terrible..we all work differently fella

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By *oggi_g coupleCouple
over a year ago

Derby

Absolutely spot on, anything other is a pre arranged meet and not dogging...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your best bet is to just take a drive out OP over a couple of evenings and suss out some secluded car parks or laybys.

As for pre-arranging, wheres the thrill in that ffs! It's just a meet but guess some want it pasteurised.

How would people know where to meet you then if you have sussed out a car park or layby..what about the security cameras in the car park..some folk do not like it turning into a sausage fest too..

Have you been dogging before??

Yeah loads of times, have you..like I say, we all work different and do what suits each individual person or couple, we gave our advice because it works for us..if somebody uses it or not thats upto them. it's about doing and acting on what's best for you..we value are privacy and the thought of any pics or videos getting out would mortifie us..we have sons in their 30's and the thought of them comimg across a pic or video of their mum getting fucked in the back of a car or sucking cock would be terrible..we all work differently fella "

The reason I asked if you had been dogging before is because you asked 'How would people know where to meet you then'. It indicated a naivity of how dogging worked.

It sounds like from what you have said that you just arrange meets outdoors which sometimes take place in vehicles. Not sure what the pics or videos aspect has got to do with the subject matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your best bet is to just take a drive out OP over a couple of evenings and suss out some secluded car parks or laybys.

As for pre-arranging, wheres the thrill in that ffs! It's just a meet but guess some want it pasteurised.

How would people know where to meet you then if you have sussed out a car park or layby..what about the security cameras in the car park..some folk do not like it turning into a sausage fest too..

Have you been dogging before??

Yeah loads of times, have you..like I say, we all work different and do what suits each individual person or couple, we gave our advice because it works for us..if somebody uses it or not thats upto them. it's about doing and acting on what's best for you..we value are privacy and the thought of any pics or videos getting out would mortifie us..we have sons in their 30's and the thought of them comimg across a pic or video of their mum getting fucked in the back of a car or sucking cock would be terrible..we all work differently fella

The reason I asked if you had been dogging before is because you asked 'How would people know where to meet you then'. It indicated a naivity of how dogging worked.

It sounds like from what you have said that you just arrange meets outdoors which sometimes take place in vehicles. Not sure what the pics or videos aspect has got to do with the subject matter."

OK then fair enough, it's private meets outside and not traditional Dogging ..as for video and pics ..we know of a few instances of them being taken without permission and posted online..where a private outdoor meet there would be less chances of this.. ..like I say, it's our way of doing things and it works for us. It's upto others what they do and get upto and if they act upon any advice given by others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are places in the forest where people hang around in hope. Not an expert in this but have come across then at times. Usually blokes sitting in their cars but very occasional couple.

Never really got involved so can't give much more advice on the dynamics

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

90% of the people we meet dogging don’t use the internet to find their fun.

Just go out and find it, it’s out there to be found.

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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"90% of the people we meet dogging don’t use the internet to find their fun.

Just go out and find it, it’s out there to be found. "
very true most doggers not on fab .its like going fishing .some days you get a bite catch a few another day you get f a. when we go we dont want pre aranged meet .its the thrillseek not know whats goint to happen .or whoes going to be there

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent


"90% of the people we meet dogging don’t use the internet to find their fun.

Just go out and find it, it’s out there to be found. very true most doggers not on fab .its like going fishing .some days you get a bite catch a few another day you get f a. when we go we dont want pre aranged meet .its the thrillseek not know whats goint to happen .or whoes going to be there"

We are the same. We never give details of where or when but still find plenty of fun.

We have been dogging for around 20 years so have seen the massive decline since internet got involved.

Just because your having fun outdoors, it don’t mean it’s dogging

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By *uppies OP   Couple
over a year ago

sw

Cheers for info everyone. Some good tips.

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By *uppies OP   Couple
over a year ago

sw

Not sure it’s true anyway. Hardly a quiet area

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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"90% of the people we meet dogging don’t use the internet to find their fun.

Just go out and find it, it’s out there to be found. very true most doggers not on fab .its like going fishing .some days you get a bite catch a few another day you get f a. when we go we dont want pre aranged meet .its the thrillseek not know whats goint to happen .or whoes going to be there

We are the same. We never give details of where or when but still find plenty of fun.

We have been dogging for around 20 years so have seen the massive decline since internet got involved.

Just because your having fun outdoors, it don’t mean it’s dogging "
yes we have seen a decline in real dogging .a few factors .many spots that where on the outstirts of town have become retail parks or factory units.so know have to share spots with the smokers and sniffers .the young ones throw fast food rubish out of car windows ,fly tippers dump .so council then have to increase security.still good places to go but they are getting fewer and fewer.

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"How do we find out where this happens in our area. Who sets the rules? Wife likes to be looked at and sometimes touched but that’s it. Is that normal ? No pm’s please .just advice. "

Maybe find a lay bye that has a few vehicles parked up. Dress up but make it obvious that your dogging . Get out of car and give a subtle flash and hope that those that would be interested are atune to dogging . open window a bit on your side and see also the flashing of interior lights or a tap on the brake pedal might help Trouble with posting meets now or on open forums is even when you state your play rules ,guys just cant seem to understand that and the proverbial cock blocking and sausage fest will follow spoiling your fun and that of other respectful doggers .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t agree more with people’s input about doing it privately. If you know of a dogging location I guarantee it won’t be one by the end of the month.

On the other hand If you don’t want it private you need it to be spontaneous and just go for a drive and see what happens

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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

is it us or has some of the earlier coments on this been deleted?

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent


"is it us or has some of the earlier coments on this been deleted?"

Possibly due to naming locations

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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

we where out tonight .in dogging van .only 1 drver no one else about .think its time to send for the grim reaper as east brum dogging sites are well and truly dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we where out tonight .in dogging van .only 1 drver no one else about .think its time to send for the grim reaper as east brum dogging sites are well and truly dead."

Try doing a invited van meet..pick your place, place an advert, pick your guys and girls, give them the time and place via a pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do we find out where this happens in our area. Who sets the rules? Wife likes to be looked at and sometimes touched but that’s it. Is that normal ? No pm’s please .just advice. you know the holes bay restaurant in Poole that car park at night to op and all that ans this .op you must take private messages .do not post locations on forum as it will ruin the dogging site in a couple of weeks .they will be over run with to many cars ect.and they get to littered up .not being bolshy .but long time at dogging seen it happen many times .

Great advice, sometimes folks you need to think long term, why would you advertise a nice discreet spot where you can have repeated fun, when a simple pm would answer your question and give you something to enjoy time and again.

It maybe in a public place, but you still need to keep things private if you don't want to alert those who can/are going to, spoil it for you and others. "
It's not a dogging site it's a play on words ' holes bay ' oh my I do despair sometimes

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By *ue and robCouple
over a year ago

ware


"Best to arrange your own Dogging meets these day's..find yourselves a spot you would think would be suitable and private..then you invite the number of guys you want with your rules already in place..The trouble with uncontrolled Dogging is, it can turn into a sausage fest ..and of course you have the possibility of being secretly filmed via mobile phones and dash cams with no control on where the footage will end up.. open Dogging is dying off, you only have to look at the many Dogging meet posts on here, most do not get a reply"

Excellent advice spot on

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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"we where out tonight .in dogging van .only 1 drver no one else about .think its time to send for the grim reaper as east brum dogging sites are well and truly dead.

Try doing a invited van meet..pick your place, place an advert, pick your guys and girls, give them the time and place via a pm"
thanks but thats not dogging .dogging is random meets in random places .with random doggers .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we where out tonight .in dogging van .only 1 drver no one else about .think its time to send for the grim reaper as east brum dogging sites are well and truly dead.

Try doing a invited van meet..pick your place, place an advert, pick your guys and girls, give them the time and place via a pmthanks but thats not dogging .dogging is random meets in random places .with random doggers ."

Yeah but you have said yourself it was dead..but I get your point

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent


"we where out tonight .in dogging van .only 1 drver no one else about .think its time to send for the grim reaper as east brum dogging sites are well and truly dead.

Try doing a invited van meet..pick your place, place an advert, pick your guys and girls, give them the time and place via a pmthanks but thats not dogging .dogging is random meets in random places .with random doggers .

Yeah but you have said yourself it was dead..but I get your point "

Would rather have a quiet night than a bad night.

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Hi . The trouble you will find is post a meet with a venue and it will be overrun with guys . If you ask for pm then a lots will message but seldom show up . Best to take a drive about and seek sites that might work. If you park up some will take the hint . But if you find a juicy spot then don't post it on a open forum as it will go lime so many spots and end up going on the radar for boy racers and cock blockers and eventually the law

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do we find out where this happens in our area. Who sets the rules? Wife likes to be looked at and sometimes touched but that’s it. Is that normal ? No pm’s please .just advice. "

Hi guys I searched dogging in my location aka south wales and found a few site that tell you were the location is and when to go for the best results

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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"we where out tonight .in dogging van .only 1 drver no one else about .think its time to send for the grim reaper as east brum dogging sites are well and truly dead.

Try doing a invited van meet..pick your place, place an advert, pick your guys and girls, give them the time and place via a pmthanks but thats not dogging .dogging is random meets in random places .with random doggers .

Yeah but you have said yourself it was dead..but I get your point "
thank you for your comment we are long time doggers and are not put off by a quiet night .we will be out and about again .a bit like fishing eh .some days good some days bad .may be will see you there

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