FabSwingers.com forum: Nerves are building.

By *ophlee OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

So, tonight we have our first meet (with a single guy) in a very long time. The anticipation is killing me and I’m now starting to feel the nerves. I know it will all be fine once we get going. Just curious as to how you all deal with the nerves beforehand?

~Sophie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll do great, just relax and enjoy yourself, like you say once you get going it will all be OK.

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By *ophlee OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

I’m trying to relax, believe me. But the tummy butterflies have kicked in now

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

O ensure I only allow positive thoughts and excitement. I may do some yoga, to get me relaxed and with the right vibe. This week's needed a cold bath though, so I'd meet with energy, not drained. I also work out, so excess mental energy is used up - a walk is good too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m trying to relax, believe me. But the tummy butterflies have kicked in now

Thats all part of the fun for us, the nervous excitement of not knowing how things will play out. Hope you enjoy ! X

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By *henightstagMan
over a year ago

London

I usually find that keeping myself busy helps. Just gets you out of your own head. Also a SMALL glass of wine (insert drink of choice) helps. Emphasis on the small, you dont want to be d*unk before as that definitely wont help!

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Deep breaths and think about how good it will be...

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor

Have a stiff drink and a play first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With beautiful tits like that, you’ve got nothing to worry about !

Hope this helps X

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Have you met him before or for a social or is it a blind meet so to speak?

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By *ophlee OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

"Have you met him before or for a social or is it a blind meet so to speak? "

Lee met him for a social first. This is my first time meeting him although we’ve been messaging for the last couple of days...

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Have you met him before or for a social or is it a blind meet so to speak?

Lee met him for a social first. This is my first time meeting him although we’ve been messaging for the last couple of days..."
That's good at least. Doesn't stop the nerves but hopefully eases them..as soon as the first move is made and the chatting is done you'll be fine I'm sure...

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Nerves are good. It means you'll enjoy the fun stuff even more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m trying to relax, believe me. But the tummy butterflies have kicked in now

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Sexy pics he's a lucky man Sophie

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By *SPrincessWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere near you

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By *SPrincessWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere near you

Have a glass of wine, just the one though!

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By *ophlee OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

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By *ophlee OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

Glass of wine in hand, starting to feel calmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself and enjoy we like you not met a guy for a long time all turned out to be time wasters unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copious amounts of alcohol usually help....

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I know the feeling ! I'm meeting someone new tonight and my stomach is doing flips atm. Keep busy and try not to think about it. Hope you have a great evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, tonight we have our first meet (with a single guy) in a very long time. The anticipation is killing me and I’m now starting to feel the nerves. I know it will all be fine once we get going. Just curious as to how you all deal with the nerves beforehand?

~Sophie"

It not nerves it’s excitement

have a little drink not to much mind. Watch a little porn have a little play to get warmed up. I like to buy some new underwear as always makes me feel good too. Enjoy x

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

~Sophie

It not nerves it’s excitement

have a little drink not to much mind. Watch a little porn have a little play to get warmed up. I like to buy some new underwear as always makes me feel good too. Enjoy x"

what she said, the anticipation of a new meet is one of the best bits for me....

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Glass of wine in hand, starting to feel calmer

Relax he is the lucky one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace the nervousness! The nerves help to build adrenaline when you do meet which should make things more enjoyable for you. I know that when I stop feeling nervous before a meet it will be time for me to leave Fab x

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We usually pretend that we're just meeting an old friend. It can help with the nerves if it's 'just Dave from the pub'.

It can also help if you plan something for after the meet and then focus on that.

But generally we try and embrace the nervous energy and laugh about it together. If you are ever not nervous then it's probably a sign to give it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent you a little pm op but I see you took my advice anyway so either someone else beat me to it or you figured it out by yourself. Have a lovely evening. I'm sure it'll be great

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

~Sophie"

Hi Sophie the nervous excitement is all part of the fun. Enjoy it... you'll miss it when it's gone. Hope you have a great meet and please do come back tomorrow to tell us it all went well.

I'm sure such a message will be appreciated by all the Fabbers who feel just like you

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By *SPrincessWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere near you

"Glass of wine in hand, starting to feel calmer

Have a great night!

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By *ipplebarnyMan
over a year ago

milton keynes

"I’m trying to relax, believe me. But the tummy butterflies have kicked in now

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your pics look gorgeous he’s a lucky guy

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By *ophlee OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

Lee’s just gone to pick him up. Wish me luck x

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Lee’s just gone to pick him up. Wish me luck x"
Good luck!

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By *oodgirlbadboyCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

So good to hear that I am not the only one that gets the butterflies even now after a few meets I still get the, w I find once the fun has started the nerves soon disappear,

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

~Sophie"

That sense of anticipation, that not quite knowing what is coming next . . . it's a thrill that never goes away.

I usually pace the house lololol

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Did it go well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the nervous butterflies before a meet

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By *ndtheswingersMan
over a year ago

colchester

Hope you all had a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the nervous butterflies before a meet

Me too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the worst butterflies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I hope it went well. I've been known to pull out of a meet due to nerves which is so daft, I'm usually fine when I get there. It's only human nature to be nervous.

S xx

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By *khot1Couple
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

I tend to just pace up and down for about an hour, my wife hates it lol... The worst part for me is the initial meet, the awkwardness of introducing yourself, after that I'm fine, I talk about nonsense for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soooooo how was it?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a pacer, if my LTP is coming to me; even after 8 years.

When I'm travelling to someone new-usually by train-i'm so relieved I've got off the tube I'm glad to see them.

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By *ophlee OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

Hi all. Thanks for all your words of encouragement and snippets of advice. We had a great time last night. The nerves were gone as soon as the door opened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all. Thanks for all your words of encouragement and snippets of advice. We had a great time last night. The nerves were gone as soon as the door opened

Just read the veri’s you left each other! Sounds like a very kinky scenario and lots of fun!

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

"I get the worst butterflies

Wow you are stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all. Thanks for all your words of encouragement and snippets of advice. We had a great time last night. The nerves were gone as soon as the door opened

Knew it

Good on you. So glad it was a lovely experience for you both... that the guy turned up... and he didn't mess it up

It's nice to have a success story on the forum every now and then.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Hi all. Thanks for all your words of encouragement and snippets of advice. We had a great time last night. The nerves were gone as soon as the door opened

Knew it

Good on you. So glad it was a lovely experience for you both... that the guy turned up... and he didn't mess it up

It's nice to have a success story on the forum every now and then. "

This! X

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By *ophlee OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

"Hi all. Thanks for all your words of encouragement and snippets of advice. We had a great time last night. The nerves were gone as soon as the door opened

Just read the veri’s you left each other! Sounds like a very kinky scenario and lots of fun!

Mr "

It was a good night and different from most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

~Sophie"

Definite no no' S

Drink, food, drugs or any inhibiters.

Yes yes

Breather nice and deep, relaxing bath, slow sensuous music anything that defers your thoughts about tonight. Oh and knowing whatever happens there is more life after the meet.

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By *ophlee OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

"Have a glass of wine, just the one though! "

Worked a treat although think it was more than one lol

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

"Have a glass of wine, just the one though!

Worked a treat although think it was more than one lol"

Hi Sophie

Your meet sounded great fun. Please write it up in the stories section as im sure it will be appreciated by more than me

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Love the nerves before a planned meet. The problem for me is my brain is now so conditioned to these meets being cancelled at the last minute (you know my dogs poorly, I’ve got to take my goldfish for a walk), that I’ve stopped getting nervous. I WANT THAT NERVOUS FEELING BACK!

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