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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whenever I do I get a bad rash and don't know why. I shaved Monday and was in pain for two days and now it's just itchy. It's so annoying how do other people cope with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exfoliate, sleep knickerless and used some E45. I hate shaving down there and try to wax or epilate where possible. A dab of teatrea oil sometimes helps. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rub baby oil in before shaving its friction burn

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Use cream like Nair or Veet.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I shave everyday in the bath with just soap, water and a lady disposable razor. Come out and rub in coconut body butter. Never had any rash or itching and it's as Smooth as a babies botty.

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By *DNKitty11Woman
over a year ago

London

Wax instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shave once a week ,cock balls and ass, and under arms ,sometimes legs ,but not so regularly now on my legs ,and I've done it for years and years, I do get a tiny rash when it sometimes grows back ,but that s Friction on clothes, then it stops, I'm not a hairy person so grows back slower ,but I can see your prob

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By *ajorwetMan
over a year ago

poole

I use veet .only takes a few minuets. But don’t leave it on to long... it burns like fuck, had blisters on my balls for two days...

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I shave every few days and use Aveeno and Stubble-Eaze om it afterwards...never had an issue.

I also use a different blade to my underarm and leg razor, and I swap out the blades more often. A keen blade is your friend down there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wax will last you weeks. I got 5/6 weeks between my Hollywood waxing.

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London


"I use veet .only takes a few minuets. But don’t leave it on to long... it burns like fuck, had blisters on my balls for two days... "

I just started using Veet for men. First time went well. Not too much hair came off so had a razor shave to clean the rest up.

Second time was OK and shaved again. Note to self and everyone else probably best not to use it an hour or so before sex. Balls were properly on fire but couldn’t let that affect my performance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your skin needs to get used to it mine did the same many years ago when I started ,but it doesn't now

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By *aughty Little SecretsCouple
over a year ago

Wetherby

Hello

If one has time! “tweezers” requires much dedication & patience x the results are awesome especially with an tan & sun top up!

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By *ingAlMan
over a year ago

hereford

Shaving down there can be dangerous, I don't have the balls to do it anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same problem. I shave in the bath. After soaking for 20 mins to soften the hair, i exofoliate and then use a new blade each time and after shaving use HC45 cream. Just a little. Quickly calms the area down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get irritating with shaving so now I use Veet, just be careful with timing and mind those extra sensitive parts.

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride

i exfoliate every day... use a new cheap razor everytime and apply sudocrem constantly for a couple of days... and get no rash!

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I use Veet x

Lovely smooth finish x

I then every few days apply shaving gel and use Gillette Mach razor

I’ve started using Dove moisture’s x

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

Have a bath to soften the skin.

Choose your razor carefully. Get a single blade razor. Bic still sells disposable ones that doesn't look 'Barber shop threatening'. For smaller bits you can get bikini line single blade razors about 1-2 cm wide. Don't use multiblades. They will shave hairs below the skin which can cause ingrown hairs. Those Gillette five blade things are not good. The first blade will shave. The second one will drag the hair up again and shave, and so forth and so forth.

Lather up with a gentle soap. Some use conditioner. I just use soap. You can get nice ones from Barber shops or on line. Personally I can't be bothered.

Shave ya bits. There is a method for underarms, faces and legs. However those regions have a definite pattern of hair growth and you can shave against/alongside it. Pubic hair grows everywhich way it can, so it depends on the person, much more individual.

Moisturise. You've just dragged a razor across your skin. I use coconut oil or E45.

Get yourself one of those hand scrubby mitts and give a cursory scrub when you get into the shower. Not too hard. Just to encourage the hairs to grow straight or of the skin and not curl back into the skin which will cause ingrown hairs. Moisturise again.

And there you have it.

I lurked for MONTHS on a male shaving forum and it's worked for me so far...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

creamop

veet or nair

easy peasy japaneasy

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Waxing is best and exfoliating works too

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

Seiko Cleancut.

Game changer.

(Until I had the laser treatment)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I don't use Magic Powder.. I use a razor with the aloe Vera strip on it..soap and water then moisturize when out. It's smooth as

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Shave in the direction of hair growth...usually downward or side ways...going upwards against will cause the itchiness...and invest in a really good razor...I bought a pack of different ones last week and they left both my armpits and foof quite sore. .and nicked my knees. ..so ive gone back to my trusted ones (the pink Gillette disposables

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

I’ve just brought a laser hair remover..... used it a couple of times already notice a reduction in the speed of hair growth and specifically on my legs they are starting to become patchy where no hair is growing back.... also reducing the rash

So far it has been worth the investment... just hope the results continue to show

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By *entleman of GirthMan
over a year ago

Forest Row

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By *entleman of GirthMan
over a year ago

Forest Row

Me too, I’ve tried different methods, this is what works for me....

Clippers for the above the Dick area, I trim to 1mm, I then shave my balls with a twin blade razor in a hot bath...dont seem to get shaving rash in that area.

Not perfect, but seems to stop the irritation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever I do I get a bad rash and don't know why. I shaved Monday and was in pain for two days and now it's just itchy. It's so annoying how do other people cope with it?"

I wax. I have sensitive skin. An the strips on razors irritate me. Plus are you shaving in warm water? Try cold

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area


"I’ve just brought a laser hair remover..... used it a couple of times already notice a reduction in the speed of hair growth and specifically on my legs they are starting to become patchy where no hair is growing back.... also reducing the rash

So far it has been worth the investment... just hope the results continue to show "

Remember to be careful in summer when your skin may be tanned. I’m taking a break from mine because I’m way more tanned than usual with this lovely weather, and the laser/IPL can cause permanent discolouration!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Use a new razor and soap to make it easier. I don’t usually have an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever I do I get a bad rash and don't know why. I shaved Monday and was in pain for two days and now it's just itchy. It's so annoying how do other people cope with it?"

Are you shaving against or with the hair direction. Against will more likely to rash.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"Whenever I do I get a bad rash and don't know why. I shaved Monday and was in pain for two days and now it's just itchy. It's so annoying how do other people cope with it?"

Just leave it to grow. Looks so much better when women have hair down there!

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By *estbedCouple
over a year ago

essex

Magic shave powder/cream.

Absolutely stinks but works

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"Whenever I do I get a bad rash and don't know why. I shaved Monday and was in pain for two days and now it's just itchy. It's so annoying how do other people cope with it?"

You're best off just letting it grow, so many men want it natural, or at least don't mind it; it looks sexy when there's hair down there.

Bald, stubbly rashy fannies aren't the nicest look to be fair.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Magic shave powder/cream.

Absolutely stinks but works "

+1 tiz really good

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Use conditioner prior to shaving.

Having said that, I'm growing mine back in now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like with any shaving you should always make sure you heat the area first with hot water and let it soak in.

Apply some shaving cream and then shave lightly in a 3 pass system, applying more cream each pass. So shave with the hair growth, against the hair growth and across the hair growth.

Once finished, wash with cold water to close the pores, dry and apply a moisturising cream.

Moisturise every day!

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Why you waste your life doing such a pointless practice

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By *merald89Woman
over a year ago

Scotland

I keep getting the odd ingrown hair down below and its sore coming through! Always use a clean razor however usually more than one blade so going to try single blade. Try and use veet and nair when I can also however I shaved for a meet and its gave me an ingrown hair so the veet will sting oh the joys! Thanks for the tips everyone

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I get really bad ingrown hairs and I've never been able to find a way to stop that happening

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By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london


"Hello

If one has time! “tweezers” requires much dedication & patience x the results are awesome especially with an tan & sun top up! "

The amount of European Girls you see on a beach using tweezers.

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By *onandCouple
over a year ago

Cheadle

Shave every night in the bath..... never a problem just make sure your moisturize after drying off. Need the twizzer for the odd stubborn one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exfoliate, exfoliate, exfoliate!

I find those cheap exfoliating gloves are the best, every couple of days.

New razor every time

Good mosturiser, I use raw shea butter

I also use none perfumed shaving cream

I used to use veet but developed an allergy, my poor miaow swelled up and felt on fire for 3 days

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow


"Why you waste your life doing such a pointless practice "

Clearly you don’t give a hoot about what the females endure when presented with an Amazon jungle Frankly I turn a man away if they’re hairy It usually smells of sweat and I don’t want a mouthful of fur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't use a shaven again. Im a converted waxer. So much nicer. No itch or rash

The first wax is always a ittle more pain full of but gets easier as the hair cycles come together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why you waste your life doing such a pointless practice

Clearly you don’t give a hoot about what the females endure when presented with an Amazon jungle Frankly I turn a man away if they’re hairy It usually smells of sweat and I don’t want a mouthful of fur "

Agree on that. Nothing worse than pulling hair off your tongue

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By *edcrossCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I posted this last week in a similar thread.

I am a bisexual male and I have indulged in shaving for many years. I have shaved myself, been shaved by both males and females as part of play and just as an exercise and I have done waxing (anus)

Around 5 years ago I met up with a guy who offered to shave me (I often seek to meet people with this in mind) and it turned out he used to be a nurse. He proceeded to tell me when preparing people for operations they used to use talcum powder rather than a dry shave or foam.

He then proceeded to to powder my cock and balls and proceeded to shave me. It was an is amazing, no sticky foam and it smells good too. It does mean you can move onto other things very quickly.

Give it a go, I still use this method when I shave myself, in fact when I read the original post I thought it was time for a shave so I have been off and given myself a talcum powder shave. Back now nice and smooth and smelling nice sat naked typing this reply

Let me know how you go on

Mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep getting the odd ingrown hair down below and its sore coming through! Always use a clean razor however usually more than one blade so going to try single blade. Try and use veet and nair when I can also however I shaved for a meet and its gave me an ingrown hair so the veet will sting oh the joys! Thanks for the tips everyone "

Exfoliate, moisturise and for the stubborn ingrown hairs - skin doctor no ingrown! It’s amazing stuff!

I’ve switched from shaving to waxing... it’s hard work for the first 4 waxes as shaved hair grows at different rates.

Exfoliate exfoliate exfoliate! Moisturise! It works!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get really bad ingrown hairs and I've never been able to find a way to stop that happening "

Get an exfoliating mit, hot water and exfoliate regularly with a non perfumed antibacterial body wash. Try skin doctor no ingrown solution (becareful and use sparingly!!!) and also moisturise!

You will stop the ingrown and reduce inflammation super quickly. Don’t dig the ingrown hairs it will scar and take longer to heal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shaving down there can be dangerous, I don't have the balls to do it anymore"

Ouch that must have been a nasty razor slip!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The talcum powder tip sounds amazing thanks for that. I have tried creams, tweezers, shaving and various exfoliating products and I still get ingrown hairs so I now use a number one clipper for most of it and a single blade razor for my balls. A friend of mine had her food lasered professionally and it took about eight sessions but it's the most lovely and permanently smooth pussy I have ever met. She did say that the girl who was doing her said that it doesn't always work on blondes and redheads and there's no way it will work on grey hairs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foof I meant

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I use veet .only takes a few minuets. But don’t leave it on to long... it burns like fuck, had blisters on my balls for two days...

I just started using Veet for men. First time went well. Not too much hair came off so had a razor shave to clean the rest up.

Second time was OK and shaved again. Note to self and everyone else probably best not to use it an hour or so before sex. Balls were properly on fire but couldn’t let that affect my performance "

Try veet sensitive

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Have a bath to soften the skin.

Choose your razor carefully. Get a single blade razor. Bic still sells disposable ones that doesn't look 'Barber shop threatening'. For smaller bits you can get bikini line single blade razors about 1-2 cm wide. Don't use multiblades. They will shave hairs below the skin which can cause ingrown hairs. Those Gillette five blade things are not good. The first blade will shave. The second one will drag the hair up again and shave, and so forth and so forth.

Lather up with a gentle soap. Some use conditioner. I just use soap. You can get nice ones from Barber shops or on line. Personally I can't be bothered.

Shave ya bits. There is a method for underarms, faces and legs. However those regions have a definite pattern of hair growth and you can shave against/alongside it. Pubic hair grows everywhich way it can, so it depends on the person, much more individual.

Moisturise. You've just dragged a razor across your skin. I use coconut oil or E45.

Get yourself one of those hand scrubby mitts and give a cursory scrub when you get into the shower. Not too hard. Just to encourage the hairs to grow straight or of the skin and not curl back into the skin which will cause ingrown hairs. Moisturise again.

And there you have it.

I lurked for MONTHS on a male shaving forum and it's worked for me so far..."

Lurker

I got a lot of my pegging and assplay skillz initially from lurking an a forum for gay men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trim to minimal length with electric beard trimmer (one for face, one for balls / cock), and then wet shave cock entirely.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Rub baby oil in before shaving its friction burn "

Will give this a go as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shave everyday after a while it settles down as little to shave x

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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago

Isle of Arran


"Shaving down there can be dangerous, I don't have the balwls to do it anymore"
ha ha lol now that's dedication to one's art

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