FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice dont be mean like usual lol

By *rayson_delver OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile text is ok, not great, but it’s not bad. The pictures on the other hand are bad; well the ones from this year are at any rate.

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By *rayson_delver OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"The profile text is ok, not great, but it’s not bad. The pictures on the other hand are bad; well the ones from this year are at any rate. "

Whats bad about them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The profile text is ok, not great, but it’s not bad. The pictures on the other hand are bad; well the ones from this year are at any rate.

Whats bad about them?"

It's a guess, but most women want to see you, and not you hanging out of other women.

I find it disturbing that you have a photo of a woman who's face is clearly identifiable up too.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"The profile text is ok, not great, but it’s not bad. The pictures on the other hand are bad; well the ones from this year are at any rate.

Whats bad about them?

It's a guess, but most women want to see you, and not you hanging out of other women.

I find it disturbing that you have a photo of a woman who's face is clearly identifiable up too. "

And the fact that all the pics are bareback.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"The profile text is ok, not great, but it’s not bad. The pictures on the other hand are bad; well the ones from this year are at any rate.

Whats bad about them?

It's a guess, but most women want to see you, and not you hanging out of other women.

I find it disturbing that you have a photo of a woman who's face is clearly identifiable up too.

And the fact that all the pics are bareback.

And internal cum shots...

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By *rayson_delver OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

With past girlfriend's/partners that were both 100% clean.

They arent random fab meet pics

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"With past girlfriend's/partners that were both 100% clean.

They arent random fab meet pics"

How are we to know that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics are awful. I didn't even bother reading the text after seeing them.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"With past girlfriend's/partners that were both 100% clean.

They arent random fab meet pics"

Thing is: people looking at your profile aren’t going to know that and conflicts with the ‘safe sex’ in your interests. Furthermore, has your previous girlfriend given her permission to have them displayed on the internet?

Have some pictures of your bum, torso, etc. Most women prefer to see the rest of your body, rather than just your cock and where it’s been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With past girlfriend's/partners that were both 100% clean.

They arent random fab meet pics"

And they know their photos are posted on here? Especially the young lady with her face on view? (Which I'm surprised even got approved on here in the first place...)

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By *rayson_delver OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"With past girlfriend's/partners that were both 100% clean.

They arent random fab meet pics

Have some pictures of your bum, torso, etc. Most women prefer to see the rest of your body, rather than just your cock and where it’s been. "

Safe sex with fab randoms only BB with someone i have been seeinf for a while and there is trust.

I have a massive tattoo across my stomach so that ruins the torso shot...even though i did have a 6 pack :/

I always thought the bum photo's people would automatically think im gay as thats what i think when i see a guys profile whos got lots of photos of his ass

The exs yes they had profiles on here with me. And some now have a single female profile.

But all were fine with me uploading aslong as no face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have pointed out, text ok, photo's hugely off putting, but that's just our opinion.

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By *rayson_delver OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

That photo has been removed due to one of you reporting it lol.

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By *rayson_delver OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"As others have pointed out, text ok, photo's hugely off putting, but that's just our opinion. "

Other people have much more explicit photos?

So the majority would prefer no actual sex photos?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"As others have pointed out, text ok, photo's hugely off putting, but that's just our opinion.

Other people have much more explicit photos?

So the majority would prefer no actual sex photos?

you must have the photos that you want and that actually work for you. If you're successful in getting the meets you want keep the profile as it is. If not think about the advice given

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By *rayson_delver OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"As others have pointed out, text ok, photo's hugely off putting, but that's just our opinion.

Other people have much more explicit photos?

So the majority would prefer no actual sex photos?

you must have the photos that you want and that actually work for you. If you're successful in getting the meets you want keep the profile as it is. If not think about the advice given

I think its partly the pussy to dick ratio in my area is terrible on here. All the women and couples are inundated with dudes messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As others have pointed out, text ok, photo's hugely off putting, but that's just our opinion.

Other people have much more explicit photos?

So the majority would prefer no actual sex photos?

Well at the moment I know more about your girlfriends body than yours.,

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By *rayson_delver OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"As others have pointed out, text ok, photo's hugely off putting, but that's just our opinion.

Other people have much more explicit photos?

So the majority would prefer no actual sex photos?

Well at the moment I know more about your girlfriends body than yours.,"

Can kind of tell from the leg shots im toned and athletic.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"As others have pointed out, text ok, photo's hugely off putting, but that's just our opinion.

Other people have much more explicit photos?

So the majority would prefer no actual sex photos?

you must have the photos that you want and that actually work for you. If you're successful in getting the meets you want keep the profile as it is. If not think about the advice given

I think its partly the pussy to dick ratio in my area is terrible on here. All the women and couples are inundated with dudes messaging"

that's fab for you.

Something to bear in mind is that in general women are less visually aroused than men. So while to you a picture of a cock entering an anonymous vagina might be very arousing to a woman who values discretion and likes to feel at least a little special it can have the opposite effect. As I said if your photos work for you stick with them

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

You've asked for advice but argued or disagreed with everything people have said. As someone above said, if it works for you, carry on. It obviously isn't so it might be worth taking on board the advice.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

With context the pics are worse. Sharing intimate photos of an ex (assuming without permission). That is treading close to revenge porn if she finds out. 2 guys with no condoms hints at a disregard for safety-how does anyone know you didn't both bb her?

So without this thread you say you play safe but your pics tell a different story.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"With past girlfriend's/partners that were both 100% clean.

They arent random fab meet pics

Have some pictures of your bum, torso, etc. Most women prefer to see the rest of your body, rather than just your cock and where it’s been.

Safe sex with fab randoms only BB with someone i have been seeinf for a while and there is trust.

I have a massive tattoo across my stomach so that ruins the torso shot...even though i did have a 6 pack :/

I always thought the bum photo's people would automatically think im gay as thats what i think when i see a guys profile whos got lots of photos of his ass

The exs yes they had profiles on here with me. And some now have a single female profile.

But all were fine with me uploading aslong as no face.

You’ll find that most women find a man’s bum appealing, as long as you don’t part the cheeks!

I’m always perving at partners!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As others have pointed out, text ok, photo's hugely off putting, but that's just our opinion.

Other people have much more explicit photos?

So the majority would prefer no actual sex photos?

Other people weren’t asking for advice, you were, no skin off our noses whether you listen or not as we wouldn’t be meeting you.

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By *rayson_delver OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"As others have pointed out, text ok, photo's hugely off putting, but that's just our opinion.

Other people have much more explicit photos?

So the majority would prefer no actual sex photos?

Other people weren’t asking for advice, you were, no skin off our noses whether you listen or not as we wouldn’t be meeting you. "

No need to get defensive.

I was reconfirming that people do actually prefer vanilla photos without sex on a swinging website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you messaged me it would be a no, as some of your pictures are a complete put off.

The bareback ones and the one ejaculating on a mirror sorry.

Also there isn’t much on your profile that makes it stand out from the rest.

An interesting profile that shows a bit of personality would make me want to read it.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Surely the ladies using this site who have ever met OP are very flattered to be referred to as "randoms". Way to go.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"As others have pointed out, text ok, photo's hugely off putting, but that's just our opinion.

Other people have much more explicit photos?

So the majority would prefer no actual sex photos?

Other people weren’t asking for advice, you were, no skin off our noses whether you listen or not as we wouldn’t be meeting you.

No need to get defensive.

I was reconfirming that people do actually prefer vanilla photos without sex on a swinging website.

Wow. Just wow.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"As others have pointed out, text ok, photo's hugely off putting, but that's just our opinion.

Other people have much more explicit photos?

So the majority would prefer no actual sex photos?

you must have the photos that you want and that actually work for you. If you're successful in getting the meets you want keep the profile as it is. If not think about the advice given

I think its partly the pussy to dick ratio in my area is terrible on here. All the women and couples are inundated with dudes messaging"

The more I read the more I wonder...

Do you have any respect for women at all?

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By *rayson_delver OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Going from the hot photos they are usually quite explicit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going from the hot photos they are usually quite explicit..."

Tell you what... if you want to do your own thing on here don’t ask for advice.

It makes you seem obnoxious.

You asked for advice, you got it, and because it’s not what you wanted to hear you’re defensive. Just don’t ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going from the hot photos they are usually quite explicit...

Tell you what... if you want to do your own thing on here don’t ask for advice.

It makes you seem obnoxious.

You asked for advice, you got it, and because it’s not what you wanted to hear you’re defensive. Just don’t ask.

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands

"That photo has been removed due to one of you reporting it lol."

Commonsense on your part didn't prevail then!

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Going from the hot photos they are usually quite explicit..."

Hot photos are usually fabbed by guys, not girls!!

Women generally do not like action shots, as Nicecouple pointed out above. I’m put off by your photos just from hearing about them, never mind seeing them.

If I want to get to know a guy, I want to see him, not the last inch of his dick while it’d buried into some other woman. Action shots are a massive turn off.

Try a chest shot, bath or shower, use a mirror, hold a towel over your tattoo ... show women who they are going to meet, not what your ex’s favourite positions were!!

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Going from the hot photos they are usually quite explicit..."

Yes, but everyone in the pictures are aware they are on a public forum. You obviously have no respect for your ex gfs privacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by your pics and profile write up, I wouldn't meet you either. I always read a males profile before reading his message. However after seeing your profile and pics, I wouldn't even read your message if you sent one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“What should I do? Help please!”

“Do this, it’ll probably help you”

“I don’t need to do THAT! It’s totally fine I don’t need your opinion! You’re wrong!”

....

Dude why make a thread asking for advice if you don’t want it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

When you said this.....”I always thought the bum photo's people would automatically think im gay as thats what i think when i see a guys profile whos got lots of photos of his ass...”

It made me think that you don’t have much of a clue about what turns a lady on. There’s nothing wrong with being gay. Or people thinking that you are - although, of course, you’re labelled as straight so I don’t quite see why you would think people would think you were gay. Unless you count the homoerotic photos you have up. Gay men are attracted by cock photos, women are not, generally speaking. You knew that, yes?

Leave your profile as it is.

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By *ornysxguyMan
over a year ago

Maldon, Essex

Says straight, but veried by men who claim to have had a great session? I’ve found a lot of woman and couples get out off by mixed signals.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Going from the hot photos they are usually quite explicit..."

I'm literally face palming

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By *rayson_delver OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Says straight, but veried by men who claim to have had a great session? I’ve found a lot of woman and couples get out off by mixed signals. "

You can see in the veri they were mmf

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By *rayson_delver OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Going from the hot photos they are usually quite explicit...

Yes, but everyone in the pictures are aware they are on a public forum. You obviously have no respect for your ex gfs privacy."

Says the dude who has a photo of two girls giving him head.

I have consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going on the profile now, it may have been altered slightly from the advice at the top of the thread. If so, well done, a lot who ask for advice don't act on it and people soon stop giving constructive advice if they think it's like taking the proverbial piss into the wind.

Profile is "ok". Text is informative, but to stand out you need to let your creative juices flow, interweave all the useful information amongst seductive image producing dialogue, make sure that any ladies and couples can see that you have the imagination and sense of adventure to ensure that meets with you will be hugely sexually charged explorations of pleasure...

Pics are a mixed bag. The suit one is fine, and a couple of the others acceptable if as side pics to showcase your legs and cock along with the main event...

Don't get me wrong. Some will understandably want to know what your family jewels are like. But it's not the main event...Aside from one or two obvious pics, make sure a lot of others don't depict your organ at all...or at best hint at it in most images perhaps...Like it's something under the radar that glimpses of it are all that is seen, even with it covered...

Appreciate this advice sounds a bit cryptic in parts perhaps, but to those who truly "get it" it will be only too understandable?

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Going from the hot photos they are usually quite explicit...

Yes, but everyone in the pictures are aware they are on a public forum. You obviously have no respect for your ex gfs privacy.

Says the dude who has a photo of two girls giving him head.

I have consent."

Mine was a fab meet, and neither of them are identifiable..

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By *rayson_delver OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Going from the hot photos they are usually quite explicit...

Yes, but everyone in the pictures are aware they are on a public forum. You obviously have no respect for your ex gfs privacy.

Says the dude who has a photo of two girls giving him head.

I have consent.

Mine was a fab meet, and neither of them are identifiable..

Are mine identifiable? Nope

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

If it's any help, I think it's best to create yr own profile and chop it around as time goes by.Feedback from meets and verifications should guide you but asking 'Sharon from Tunbridge wells' to comment probably won't help.Any profile will be criticised if advice is asked for.

Use the filters if men are messaging you, but your pics are very 'Tom of Finland' like and homo-erotic.I bet most of your fab pics are fabbed by men.

Remember you can't have it all ways!

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Going from the hot photos they are usually quite explicit...

Yes, but everyone in the pictures are aware they are on a public forum. You obviously have no respect for your ex gfs privacy.

Says the dude who has a photo of two girls giving him head.

I have consent.

Mine was a fab meet, and neither of them are identifiable..

Are mine identifiable? Nope"

Not after it got reported. Current pics are fine.

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