FabSwingers.com forum: Sent messages

By *oliceterry OP Man
over a year ago

fobbing

Is anyone else experiencing this

Over the last five days I have sent messages to over twenty different people at different times.

They are not even being opened. Therefore not read have even tried sending further message whilst person is on line and still no response.

Is the site deliberately holding these back.

My profile shows the have been sent and still highlighted in yellow

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Is anyone else experiencing this

Over the last five days I have sent messages to over twenty different people at different times.

They are not even being opened. Therefore not read have even tried sending further message whilst person is on line and still no response.

Is the site deliberately holding these back.

My profile shows the have been sent and still highlighted in yellow

It's possible the people you messaged have loads of messages to go through and haven't read yours yet. It's also possible they read them then marked it as unread as its a feature that's available.

Usually bad policy to send repeat messages if they haven't been replied to. Comes across as pushy for many people.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

"Is anyone else experiencing this

Over the last five days I have sent messages to over twenty different people at different times.

They are not even being opened. Therefore not read have even tried sending further message whilst person is on line and still no response.

Is the site deliberately holding these back.

My profile shows the have been sent and still highlighted in yellow

Easiest way to manage this is to delete your sent messages, then you won’t fall into the trap of obsessing over your sent mail box!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Not responding is usually taken as a ‘No’. As advised above, delete sent messages and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is anyone else experiencing this

Over the last five days I have sent messages to over twenty different people at different times.

They are not even being opened. Therefore not read have even tried sending further message whilst person is on line and still no response.

Is the site deliberately holding these back.

My profile shows the have been sent and still highlighted in yellow

It's possible the people you messaged have loads of messages to go through and haven't read yours yet. It's also possible they read them then marked it as unread as its a feature that's available.

Usually bad policy to send repeat messages if they haven't been replied to. Comes across as pushy for many people."

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why check sent messages...if they reply great, if they don’t, just move on.

The only time I check sent messages is if I’m in a conversation and I can’t remember what I said and why they responded that way...

Don’t get hung up over someone not replying...

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