FabSwingers.com forum: Obligatory Help Post

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been changing and working my profile since starting and have got a little interaction at least but i'm still not really getting an conversion to messages, friend invites etc

Sent box is full of yellow boxes...

What would you change and what would a typical conversation flow like to evolve a meet, i want some personal examples, like how many messages between meet and what topics you talk about etc

Thanks x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Cabbages, mainly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been but they all seem to think i'm an amateur cabbage farmer..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been changing and working my profile since starting and have got a little interaction at least but i'm still not really getting an conversion to messages, friend invites etc

Sent box is full of yellow boxes...

What would you change and what would a typical conversation flow like to evolve a meet, i want some personal examples, like how many messages between meet and what topics you talk about etc

Thanks x

Not convinced a porn ideal is a good idea at this stage.

Conversation to meets could be anything from fancy a fuck to 6 months talking about the weather and what you've had for dinner.

Act wise and trust your gut instincts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pic is confusing...that’s what someone will look at first and can do that without opening a message.

If they aren’t opening your message then they’ve either looked at your profile first and didn’t like something or get so many messsges that yours is getting lost.

You are one of thousands of men on here so you need to stand out...be it with your pics, profile, messages...

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Looking at your pics, I'm surprised you describe yourself as "Very chubby".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking at your pics, I'm surprised you describe yourself as "Very chubby"."

I thought that was a bit left field as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Looking at your pics, I'm surprised you describe yourself as "Very chubby"."

Thanks..i guess. I'll take that out but i kinda wanted people to realise that i have stretch marks from losing a lot of weight quickly

I don't wanna sell any false dreams ygm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What topics to talk about...try talking about the weather, or jump straight in at the deep end and graphically describe what you'd like to do to them in great detail. Bound to be a winner.

Seriously, just go with the flow. If people are keen and there's a connection, then conversation should flow naturally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read their profile and try and engage with the person on their level. I find it hard to strike up a conversation when someone starts with ‘hi hows you’.

However I don’t respond to people who jump straight in to graphic descriptions (usually quite short sentences)

Your profile looks great I wouldn’t change it!

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