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By *all Dark and Handsome 75 OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter

Isn't it odd when you message someone who on the face of it matches your requirements in every way, especially when these are quite niche, and you still don't get a response? Obviously you can't expect one or get upset if you don't, but it still feels weird. Anyone know what I mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it odd when you message someone who on the face of it matches your requirements in every way, especially when these are quite niche, and you still don't get a response? Obviously you can't expect one or get upset if you don't, but it still feels weird. Anyone know what I mean?"

No.

So because on paper you match their requirements they should meet you or at least reply to your email? That is what you are not so subtly trying to say.

The woman and couples get lots of email from people who meet their requirements.

No reply = not interested and I don't care if you match my requirements.

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By *all Dark and Handsome 75 OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter


"Isn't it odd when you message someone who on the face of it matches your requirements in every way, especially when these are quite niche, and you still don't get a response? Obviously you can't expect one or get upset if you don't, but it still feels weird. Anyone know what I mean?

No.

So because on paper you match their requirements they should meet you or at least reply to your email? That is what you are not so subtly trying to say.

The woman and couples get lots of email from people who meet their requirements.

No reply = not interested and I don't care if you match my requirements. "

Well you completely missed what I was trying to say!

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull


"Isn't it odd when you message someone who on the face of it matches your requirements in every way, especially when these are quite niche, and you still don't get a response? Obviously you can't expect one or get upset if you don't, but it still feels weird. Anyone know what I mean?

No.

So because on paper you match their requirements they should meet you or at least reply to your email? That is what you are not so subtly trying to say.

The woman and couples get lots of email from people who meet their requirements.

No reply = not interested and I don't care if you match my requirements.

Well you completely missed what I was trying to say!"

Yes Op completely understand... We get this often. Xx

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By *all Dark and Handsome 75 OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter


"Isn't it odd when you message someone who on the face of it matches your requirements in every way, especially when these are quite niche, and you still don't get a response? Obviously you can't expect one or get upset if you don't, but it still feels weird. Anyone know what I mean?

No.

So because on paper you match their requirements they should meet you or at least reply to your email? That is what you are not so subtly trying to say.

The woman and couples get lots of email from people who meet their requirements.

No reply = not interested and I don't care if you match my requirements.

Well you completely missed what I was trying to say!

Yes Op completely understand... We get this often. Xx"

Thank you! I'm not meaning to sound entitled or anything, but there are times when you think these guys are made for me surely, and they don't reply which leaves you wondering why! X

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Isn't it odd when you message someone who on the face of it matches your requirements in every way, especially when these are quite niche, and you still don't get a response? Obviously you can't expect one or get upset if you don't, but it still feels weird. Anyone know what I mean?

No.

So because on paper you match their requirements they should meet you or at least reply to your email? That is what you are not so subtly trying to say.

The woman and couples get lots of email from people who meet their requirements.

No reply = not interested and I don't care if you match my requirements.

Well you completely missed what I was trying to say!

Yes Op completely understand... We get this often. Xx

Thank you! I'm not meaning to sound entitled or anything, but there are times when you think these guys are made for me surely, and they don't reply which leaves you wondering why! X"

they are not interested in you op, it’s that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would they know that you hatch their requirements though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it odd when you message someone who on the face of it matches your requirements in every way, especially when these are quite niche, and you still don't get a response? Obviously you can't expect one or get upset if you don't, but it still feels weird. Anyone know what I mean?

No.

So because on paper you match their requirements they should meet you or at least reply to your email? That is what you are not so subtly trying to say.

The woman and couples get lots of email from people who meet their requirements.

No reply = not interested and I don't care if you match my requirements.

Well you completely missed what I was trying to say!

Yes Op completely understand... We get this often. Xx

Thank you! I'm not meaning to sound entitled or anything, but there are times when you think these guys are made for me surely, and they don't reply which leaves you wondering why! X"

Not entitled but subjective when you say "made for me". Other people on here aren't made for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it odd when you message someone who on the face of it matches your requirements in every way, especially when these are quite niche, and you still don't get a response? Obviously you can't expect one or get upset if you don't, but it still feels weird. Anyone know what I mean?"

Yes I think know exactly what you mean. Sometimes someone just looks perfect, then no reply. It just puzzles me - what am I seeing my that they’re not.

No entitlement or annoyance or expectations, just leaves me wondering (and that’s ok, it’s not a complaint)

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