FabSwingers.com forum: Separate accounts?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello, can you help, offer any advice?

Both myself and Sassy have decided to meet, play and socialise separately however, we only have one main couples account... it's not until the other day that one of her fuck buddys decided to set up a new couples account, elsewhere using just himself and my partner. As you can imagine, I was fucking furious just due to the serious lack of respect show towards me and how deceitful they had become thinking that they could get away with it...

However,

I know quite a few couples that have both singles and couples accounts which seem to work well for them, obviously they both have full access, login details and total trust that they will use their accounts accordingly to maximise their fun both individually and collectively.

I'm now at a point of no return and to save our relationship I now that I'm going to let Sarah have a freedom and Sat up a singles profile account for her and her fuck buddys to use... I know that she feels trapped, doesn't feel comfortable with group chats and exchanging our mobile phones...

I'm lost, please help!

Many thanks,

Nigel xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm not sure what you're asking for advice on.

Can you clarify your question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very concerned by the paragraph 'to save your relationship'.

Surely you shopping be swinging if your relationship is having some issues. Wouldn't you better both taking some time out from swinging and working on your relationship just the two of you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very concerned by the paragraph 'to save your relationship'.

Surely you shopping be swinging if your relationship is having some issues. Wouldn't you better both taking some time out from swinging and working on your relationship just the two of you?"

*surely you shouldn't be swinging...i meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly some discussion between you is needed? It sounds like you haven't set out the ground rules between you both.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Talk to her before too much damage is done. Both of you should not be swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello, can you help, offer any advice?

However,

I'm lost, please help!

Many thanks,

Nigel xxx"

Swinging is meant to make you stronger as a couple, the way I read it you need to rethink if you’re better of separated anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont talk to strangers on here, talk to her...and certainly dont involve anyone else until its sorted, its not fair to them. Slave.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you everyone xxx"

Establish both your boundaries and the decide if you wish to move forward together ... lots of soft and other options if you do decide it’s right for you both.. Good Luck

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