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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have been on and off this site over the years and have always struggles to get our profile right.

Can any one help us to get our profile sounding a bit more interesting.

Also how do you get others interested as never know where to start with a message.

Any tips or advice would be great please.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same advice given in your previous post :

Your profile is far too demanding on what you want, and not on what you can offer. Suggest you try to soften it up a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also as you're only looking for a women you might want to describe what you're able to offer her? There are very few single women on here looking for FB couples we'd suspect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im not very good with wording im better in person then over text, how do you mean soften it up, im trying to adjust the profile on my word doc,

thats a good idea ill put that in our profile thank you

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Profile photo is to rude

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm straight but just had a look

I think your pics will be off putting for some women and maybe appeal more to men.

Maybe look at putting some of your other body parts on ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, it's too demanding and negative. We don't want this, you can't be this, you can't do that. I had a look and was put off in the first four sentences - my immediate thought was 'This couple is far too high maintenance and picky'. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh, but that's just how it came across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been on and off this site over the years and have always struggles to get our profile right.

Can any one help us to get our profile sounding a bit more interesting.

Also how do you get others interested as never know where to start with a message.

Any tips or advice would be great please.

Thank you "

If you've been on and off for years you must know what is a decent profile, you must have read loads.

Having only yourselves as friends is just weird and screams avoid...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have just added a new profile text which has taken me an hour to make is this any better.

and yes that is what i had thought so im hoping to improve with other peoples help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we are currently still doing photos, which is hard for us as we dont live together, so what sort of photos would you recommend as im with Matt for the next 2 weeks so any thing would be great advice for us hun thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we havent read other couples profile and we did have a very good profile years ago which took some time to write

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I've said it before..the same advice that's given to single guys is just as relevant go any other gender or demographic..after all were all trying to inform and attract others..

If you look at your profile through the eyes of your target market.. will they think I gotta meet them. ?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"we are currently still doing photos, which is hard for us as we dont live together, so what sort of photos would you recommend as im with Matt for the next 2 weeks so any thing would be great advice for us hun thank you x "

Some body shots as you can't see anything of him at the min,pics that leave something to the imagination ie in lingerie /boxers or a shirt /towel.

Explicit pics ok but maybe only 1 or 2 or in friends only,you will attract only certain messages from them and I doubt it would be women .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes i did think about that and ill get some more done when hes home from work,

i have hidden most of the photos for now until i can get some better nice ones on there thank you for giving me another insight look on our profile x


"we are currently still doing photos, which is hard for us as we dont live together, so what sort of photos would you recommend as im with Matt for the next 2 weeks so any thing would be great advice for us hun thank you x

Some body shots as you can't see anything of him at the min,pics that leave something to the imagination ie in lingerie /boxers or a shirt /towel.

Explicit pics ok but maybe only 1 or 2 or in friends only,you will attract only certain messages from them and I doubt it would be women ."

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Asking women to message with a code word and a face pic I think is a bit demanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very long, and single women don't tend to need a code word. Try to be less expansive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have now removed this part


"Asking women to message with a code word and a face pic I think is a bit demanding."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a 'sexual health certificate' and do you both have one?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What is a 'sexual health certificate' and do you both have one?"

There was a forum post about this recently. Apparently some private clinics let you pay for a certificate to say your last STD checks were clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a 'sexual health certificate' and do you both have one?

There was a forum post about this recently. Apparently some private clinics let you pay for a certificate to say your last STD checks were clear. "

Nice little earner!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes we do and is this a good or bad thing to have on profile.


"What is a 'sexual health certificate' and do you both have one?

There was a forum post about this recently. Apparently some private clinics let you pay for a certificate to say your last STD checks were clear.

Nice little earner!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes we both have one that says we are clear. Do you think think is needed on profile


"What is a 'sexual health certificate' and do you both have one?

There was a forum post about this recently. Apparently some private clinics let you pay for a certificate to say your last STD checks were clear. "

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

When did you get the certificates ?

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