FabSwingers.com forum: MMF...best way to organise one?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Something thats always intrigued me...would love to try it!

Advice please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs Badcherry has had a few! Best way we found is to find two guys who know each other already. If you search for MM couples you will find some straight guys who meet just for this. Two randoms who dont know each other can cause problems..

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Message a couple .. explain what you're looking for ..it's no different to a guy messaging a girl..

Introduce yourself , explain why you think you're a good fit for them... then wait for a reply.

Good luck.

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

Dunno if this is something that you’d enjoy but it was a fantasy of mines to have an MFM during which I would be blindfolded for the whole thing and unaware of who was joining us.

Mr Sofa made arrangements with a male friend of ours (whom we’d met previously as part of an mfmf) and orchestrated the whole thing so we could safely carry out the fantasy.

I was blindfolded on the bed, Mr Sofa began playing with me and teasing me, and then all of a sudden there’s another person on the bed touching me! Then it escalated from there

Mr Sofa had planned every detail to perfection so our friend could seamlessly join us adding to the excitement for me.

I kept the blindfold on right until after our friend left, it was by far one of the hottest nights we’ve ever had.

Hope you find what you’re lookinh for OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something thats always intrigued me...would love to try it!

Advice please?"

I would recommend a club. You'll have the social aspect covered and can choose who you want to play with, you're not going to get no-shows and you will have a dedicated play area where you won't be disturbed.

I would suggest Townhouse; they have parties posted on here with guest lists so you can chat to people going. It's also a well managed club and spotless too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Many thanks for the advise. Much appreciated. Let the hunt commence!

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By *otwife CoolhubCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

It may be worth getting together with a Male you trust and have messages being directed to him to sift through.

Be aware of approx a 50% no show from people you haven’t met. Want 2? Invite 4!

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By *bthreeCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil

"Dunno if this is something that you’d enjoy but it was a fantasy of mines to have an MFM during which I would be blindfolded for the whole thing and unaware of who was joining us.

Mr Sofa made arrangements with a male friend of ours (whom we’d met previously as part of an mfmf) and orchestrated the whole thing so we could safely carry out the fantasy.

I was blindfolded on the bed, Mr Sofa began playing with me and teasing me, and then all of a sudden there’s another person on the bed touching me! Then it escalated from there

Mr Sofa had planned every detail to perfection so our friend could seamlessly join us adding to the excitement for me.

I kept the blindfold on right until after our friend left, it was by far one of the hottest nights we’ve ever had.

Hope you find what you’re lookinh for OP

So sexy looking to organise this for the wife

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I had an mmfm today and it was organised by someone else. I just got invited. It’s tricky getting people all free at the same time as everyone seems to have such busy lives.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Something thats always intrigued me...would love to try it!

Advice please?"

Spend your time getting to know guys. Take your time in getting to know them. Tell them you are looking for a MMF. See which ones are ok with that and doing it with another guy they don't know.

Look for MM profiles.

Spend a lot of time getting to know somebody online before you meet them. By a lot of time I mean weeks or even months. That way you can out the weirdoes, axe murderers, guys looking for a one-off fuck, married guys pretending to be single, guys looking for another notch on the bedpost, idiots, guys who don't respect you, guys who think fabswingers is called I shag anybody who asks me, etc.

After getting to know them for a long time always have the first meet as a social meet. Have the meet in a very public place like a coffee shop, a pub, a cafe, etc. Whenever you meet somebody make sure a good friend knows where you are going and when you should be back. Maybe also when you first meet someobdy in real life for a social meet ask if you can take a photo of the person you are meeting to send to your friend. When you get home text your friend to say you are safe.

Never invite somebody to your home until your are 100% sure you are safe with them. Same for going to somebody elses home. Only go when you feel 100% safe. Always let a friend know what you are doing and where you are going. Take a photo of the outside of the house or flat and send it to your friend.

Probably best to stick to hotel meets but again only when you feel 100% safe. Get the guy/couple to book the hotel even if you are going halves on the cost of the room. That way hopefully proves he is not a timewaster. Also, the hotel will have his name and address.

Never takes risks with your safety. Always think about your safety.

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By *agic hands 81Man
over a year ago

Loughborough

Definately down a club. If there's someone local on here a range to meet them there, then if you aren't keen in person you have plenty of other choices.

Also you can just meet singles guys there, become friends and if you trust them invite them over, but saves you risking it with someone you have never met before x

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Are you actually joking.

I bet you could just post a meet ad and the males will come flooding in. Your pics are lovely x

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"Something thats always intrigued me...would love to try it!

Advice please?"

Are you after mmf or mfm? I am available for both!

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By *umerouno1Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

Anyone wanna facetime?

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By *ittle_missknowitallWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

"It may be worth getting together with a Male you trust and have messages being directed to him to sift through.

Be aware of approx a 50% no show from people you haven’t met. Want 2? Invite 4!"

Totally agree with this

I invited 5 for a GGGB and ended up as a MMF

Hot though it was it wasn’t what I had been looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message a couple .. explain what you're looking for ..it's no different to a guy messaging a girl..

Introduce yourself , explain why you think you're a good fit for them... then wait for a reply.

Good luck.

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a couple would make it mff she wants two manly men with hairy chests stamina and bald heads unfortunately I have hair ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife picked two guy's on here,she would fuck with them once

A week after about a month she arranged for one to fuck while the other watched and after a while it just happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feck - I de fly over if you were organising it

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

Post a meet and event for two guys who know each other.

Also put the desire in your status .

Add a bucket list to your profile and put the idea there.

As others have said finding two individual guys who will turn up will be the problem... it will be easier to find one guy who has a friend.

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

"Mrs Badcherry has had a few! Best way we found is to find two guys who know each other already. If you search for MM couples you will find some straight guys who meet just for this. Two randoms who dont know each other can cause problems..

This

We are two straight experienced guys seeking ladies that want no nonsense fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really difficult OP to find this isn't it. I've only ever done it twice in 5 years!!

I have a regular-ish friend thankfully who I very happy to share me and encourages me to (a lot of men only seem to want 1 on 1 and won't share me).

When I'm meeting him I have recently started looking for another man to join us. I do post a meet and see who replies but I also do my own searching and go from there.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"Message a couple .. explain what you're looking for ..it's no different to a guy messaging a girl..

Introduce yourself , explain why you think you're a good fit for them... then wait for a reply.

Good luck.

a couple would make it mff she wants two manly men with hairy chests stamina and bald heads unfortunately I have hair ha

There are such things as mm couples on here..

reason I suggested a couple they know each other have likely played together before so they're comfortable around each other .. get two strange guys it's way more difficult.

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

"Something thats always intrigued me...would love to try it!

Advice please?"

Have a look at us

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Something thats always intrigued me...would love to try it!

Advice please?

Have a look at us

We did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a few and it’s always been with one friend I know who doesn’t have an issue about ‘sharing’ and either another friend or someone sexy in a club. Talk to those you are meeting 121 and see if they would be up for it later down the line.

I wouldn’t do it with two men I hadn’t met before as I would be concerned about boundaries and wouldn’t be able to relax and enjoy. That said an established and very well verified mm profile might be ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message a couple .. explain what you're looking for ..it's no different to a guy messaging a girl..

Introduce yourself , explain why you think you're a good fit for them... then wait for a reply.

Good luck.

a couple would make it mff she wants two manly men with hairy chests stamina and bald heads unfortunately I have hair ha

There are such things as mm couples on here..

reason I suggested a couple they know each other have likely played together before so they're comfortable around each other .. get two strange guys it's way more difficult."
yes some guys are strange around here ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message a couple .. explain what you're looking for ..it's no different to a guy messaging a girl..

Introduce yourself , explain why you think you're a good fit for them... then wait for a reply.

Good luck.

a couple would make it mff she wants two manly men with hairy chests stamina and bald heads unfortunately I have hair ha

There are such things as mm couples on here..

reason I suggested a couple they know each other have likely played together before so they're comfortable around each other .. get two strange guys it's way more difficult.yes some guys are strange around here ha "

You can say that again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message a couple .. explain what you're looking for ..it's no different to a guy messaging a girl..

Introduce yourself , explain why you think you're a good fit for them... then wait for a reply.

Good luck.

a couple would make it mff she wants two manly men with hairy chests stamina and bald heads unfortunately I have hair ha

There are such things as mm couples on here..

You can say that again"
that again

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Something thats always intrigued me...would love to try it!

Advice please?"

Come to cupids on the 2nd Aug sure we could find two lovely fellas for you

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe

We have found organising a MMF the easy part, the hard one to organise is a FFM lol H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something I fear I shall never cross off my bucket list because I don't do clubs

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By *ittlevixenWoman
over a year ago

Mold North Wales

"Something thats always intrigued me...would love to try it!

Advice please?"

Yes good post! I’m following

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By *ittlevixenWoman
over a year ago

Mold North Wales

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By *ittlevixenWoman
over a year ago

Mold North Wales

"Dunno if this is something that you’d enjoy but it was a fantasy of mines to have an MFM during which I would be blindfolded for the whole thing and unaware of who was joining us.

Mr Sofa made arrangements with a male friend of ours (whom we’d met previously as part of an mfmf) and orchestrated the whole thing so we could safely carry out the fantasy.

I was blindfolded on the bed, Mr Sofa began playing with me and teasing me, and then all of a sudden there’s another person on the bed touching me! Then it escalated from there

Mr Sofa had planned every detail to perfection so our friend could seamlessly join us adding to the excitement for me.

I kept the blindfold on right until after our friend left, it was by far one of the hottest nights we’ve ever had.

Hope you find what you’re lookinh for OP

Big fantasy for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something thats always intrigued me...would love to try it!

Advice please?"

do you mean a Bi MMF or two straight guys?

Try talking to guys you have met and see if two of them are interested,

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By *vesham cplCouple
over a year ago

Evesham

Look for couples who are not hung up on only playing together, arrange a meet for all 4 and have a play and then arrange various combinations for all of you to have fun, it can be extremely erotic and a massive turn on to see your partner getting ready for a meet with another couple. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something thats always intrigued me...would love to try it!

Advice please?"

Easy to find in clubs.

FFM - a couple.

FMM - two guys. You get to know the single guys and who plays with others. Take each guy for a test drive individually if you want too. Sorted

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

"Dunno if this is something that you’d enjoy but it was a fantasy of mines to have an MFM during which I would be blindfolded for the whole thing and unaware of who was joining us.

Mr Sofa made arrangements with a male friend of ours (whom we’d met previously as part of an mfmf) and orchestrated the whole thing so we could safely carry out the fantasy.

I was blindfolded on the bed, Mr Sofa began playing with me and teasing me, and then all of a sudden there’s another person on the bed touching me! Then it escalated from there

Mr Sofa had planned every detail to perfection so our friend could seamlessly join us adding to the excitement for me.

I kept the blindfold on right until after our friend left, it was by far one of the hottest nights we’ve ever had.

Hope you find what you’re lookinh for OP

Big fantasy for me too"

Well how you doing

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