FabSwingers.com forum: Clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After 3 years of swinging, we finally got the courage to attend club. We registered at hellfire today and hope to dash there soon. We are couples and new to club. Would prefer couple night rather singles . Hope they have one of it. ??.

Any tips for first time clubbing

By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

My advice is to make sure you agree beforehand what both of your rules and boundaries are. Good communication between couples is vital as if one is doing something that the other is uncomfortable with it could lead to upset. Just relax, enjoy each other and take things at your pace. Don’t feel obliged to play with others unless it’s something you both want to do. Good luck and have fun xx Flik xx

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Many thanks , yes you are right. We will take it at slow pace, and agree before hand on limits of first visit. May be gradually we mature to clubbing lifestyle ??

By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Many thanks , yes you are right. We will take it at slow pace, and agree before hand on limits of first visit. May be gradually we mature to clubbing lifestyle ??"

Everyone is different....we are soft swingers and there are lots of couples that are the same. The golden rule is to always ask before you touch someone else and they should ask you. We always make it clear that we are happy to kiss, lick & touch but we don’t have penetrative sex with anyone else. In the 3 years we’ve been doing this together we’ve never had anyone get funny about it and we’ve played with lots of other people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow sounds like good plan to me. Than you so much ??????

By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Wow sounds like good plan to me. Than you so much ??????"

You’re welcome

Clubs - first time !!