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Long Term/Regular Fun with same couples

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By *alnSim OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Just been reading a thread which talks about the challenges which couples face when trying to find another couple for fun and it got me thinking ...

If a couple were to find another couple and they all click then does having regular fun amongst themselves bring a risk of added complication - i.e. some sort of emotional or other attraction which could make it not worth it?

Another argument is swapping is generally driven by the desire to have new erotic experiences and having fun with the same couple could get mundane. However given the challenges and seemingly infinite time it seems to take to find the right couple - we personally feel it would be much easier if we were to find that ideal couple who matches our thought process and just settle with having fun with them on a regular/long term basis. As the level of trust builds up , it can open doors for more kinky and erotic experiences and help push the boundaries further...

It would be good to know what others think - primarily from the females' viewpoint.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

From my point of view the truly erotic experiences are one offs in the moment. They just happen and can't be set up or repeated. This is why we go to clubs. We are not long back from cap D'agde where we had a lot of "fun" but actually couldn't tell you the name of anyone we played with. Flik x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and my husband have hit it off with another couple and we're definitely into friends with benefits territory.

Meets keep getting better as we all learn what each other likes and prefers. We go to clubs together, have vanilla days out together and have even introduced all our kiddies to each other and have family days out.

They're definitely friends for life, but with the added bonus we all want to fuck each other senseless.

I'd definitely take that over one off meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Myself and my husband have hit it off with another couple and we're definitely into friends with benefits territory.

Meets keep getting better as we all learn what each other likes and prefers. We go to clubs together, have vanilla days out together and have even introduced all our kiddies to each other and have family days out.

They're definitely friends for life, but with the added bonus we all want to fuck each other senseless.

I'd definitely take that over one off meets. "

That actually sounds amazing Almost like you've found the Holy Grail for most couples

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Myself and my husband have hit it off with another couple and we're definitely into friends with benefits territory.

Meets keep getting better as we all learn what each other likes and prefers. We go to clubs together, have vanilla days out together and have even introduced all our kiddies to each other and have family days out.

They're definitely friends for life, but with the added bonus we all want to fuck each other senseless.

I'd definitely take that over one off meets.

That actually sounds amazing Almost like you've found the Holy Grail for most couples

C"

It surprised all of us how well we get on, as when they joined fab they were strictly looking for one offs.

But its definitely worked out very well for us all

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By *alnSim OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Myself and my husband have hit it off with another couple and we're definitely into friends with benefits territory.

Meets keep getting better as we all learn what each other likes and prefers. We go to clubs together, have vanilla days out together and have even introduced all our kiddies to each other and have family days out.

They're definitely friends for life, but with the added bonus we all want to fuck each other senseless.

I'd definitely take that over one off meets. "

This is exactly what we are after as well but it's proving to be near impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Myself and my husband have hit it off with another couple and we're definitely into friends with benefits territory.

Meets keep getting better as we all learn what each other likes and prefers. We go to clubs together, have vanilla days out together and have even introduced all our kiddies to each other and have family days out.

They're definitely friends for life, but with the added bonus we all want to fuck each other senseless.

I'd definitely take that over one off meets. "

We have that with a few couples and some single females too...its a great situation...we've also introduced lots of them to each other so we never really run out of options...the only limit to it is diaries lining up...it beats the slog of trying to find people on here...

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"Myself and my husband have hit it off with another couple and we're definitely into friends with benefits territory.

Meets keep getting better as we all learn what each other likes and prefers. We go to clubs together, have vanilla days out together and have even introduced all our kiddies to each other and have family days out.

They're definitely friends for life, but with the added bonus we all want to fuck each other senseless.

I'd definitely take that over one off meets. "

This is exactly what we want to find. Haven’t managed it yet though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had this type of relationship with another couple twice. Both times went on for cple of years. We did the social stuff as well as the fun, and even ended up baby sitting for each other. Never really got complicated but unfortunately both couples ended up splitting due to one of them caught cheating.so that was the end of that.

But definitely type of swinging we liked and would enjoy again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've got friendly with 2 couples we go out for drinks with and the one couple we go out for meals as well and we've been introduced to their children as well. We meet at Chams to play so we get the best of both worlds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're after the same. With a bit of luck we'll find the right couple (or more than one). We're keeping our fingers crossed

Mrs

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By *outhEastPaulMan
over a year ago

Thames Ditton surrey

Well I know I’m not a couple - But I have been meeting the same Hotwife couple for nearly 10 years and the Lady still cannot get enough of me and I keep on finding new experiences with her which actually surprises me but I guess that’s all part of the world of swinging when you know exactly why you are meeting - Chat a lot of Skype as well

So best of all worlds

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