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By *heSofaDestroyers OP   Couple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

So after getting some low heat play candle we had some fun last night!

Pics on the profile!

But the advice we need is how best to clean up, man what a mess we made and had more time cleaning than playing,

Any experienced users got any good tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love wax play but haven’t found an easy solution regarding cleaning off yet, so watching with interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to try wax play! Maybe one for the festival of fun next month...

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

If you cover yourself in baby oil first .it comes off no problem and less mess

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Candle wax is pretty low heat anyway for me .for intense wax try sealing wax .that's painful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only played with wax a few times purely because it's so messy we just use normal tea lights have also used uv candles xx

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

A plastic sheet for the play.

I incorporate taking it off as part of the mindgames of the play. But for sensual play it is akward to remove.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

If you buy the special play candles it doesn't stick to the skin, brushes off easily, same with getting it off of fabric.

Plus they won't get too hot and burn the skin like everyday candles can x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It does kind of disturb the point of it a little bit but she can use a layer of cling film or pallet wrap between the wax on the skin.

I personally like to remove it using a knife, but I know that's not for everybody. In the right situation it can be very nice for the receiver to wear the wax for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is on hard surfaces and fabric you can use ice cubes to make it brittle and easier to remove.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

The special candles have a lower melting point and are less likely to leave burns like parafin regular candles do.

Lay out an old sheet or painting cloth over the area you’re playing on. Any drips on here and those later removed from the body can be a nice reminder of the play too - kind of like splatter paint art.

Removing from the skin. Use something like a wooden kitchen spatula and it should crack off easily

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

...or has been said, a knife which depending on your dynamic together can add to the experience.

Definitely buy the special candles and see how you get on with them

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By *heSofaDestroyers OP   Couple
over a year ago

HereAndThere


"If you cover yourself in baby oil first .it comes off no problem and less mess "

Now way I had given Mrs a back massage first and didn’t put to much in her back as worried the baby oil might go alight!

Not ready for that explanation to the neighbors

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By *heSofaDestroyers OP   Couple
over a year ago

HereAndThere


"If you buy the special play candles it doesn't stick to the skin, brushes off easily, same with getting it off of fabric.

Plus they won't get too hot and burn the skin like everyday candles can x "

It was play candles we used but still so messy to clean up!

Mrs threatened to make me do the Freddie Mercury tribute and put stockings on before i hoovered

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects


"If you cover yourself in baby oil first .it comes off no problem and less mess

Now way I had given Mrs a back massage first and didn’t put to much in her back as worried the baby oil might go alight!

Not ready for that explanation to the neighbors "

“Have next door just bought a dog, as I just heard a howl and a WOOF!”

Coconut oil: non flammable, no yukky taste and ethical!

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Big, cheap dust sheet on the floor. Just lift gently gathering everything in the middle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

please don't ever combine playing with fire and oils, even some perfumes and hair products are highly flammable!

You did the right thing using low temperature candles made for purpose

The best sheet we have found is one of the blue waterproof medical sheets which doesn't absorb the wax, afterwards pull the corners in, and if you use as much as we do sometimes, keep it in a jar, get a candle mould and some wicking cotton and make your next set of candles along...

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"If you buy the special play candles it doesn't stick to the skin, brushes off easily, same with getting it off of fabric.

Plus they won't get too hot and burn the skin like everyday candles can x

It was play candles we used but still so messy to clean up!

Mrs threatened to make me do the Freddie Mercury tribute and put stockings on before i hoovered "

Sorry I missed that bit when I read it the first time xx

But if you do decide to comply with hoovering instructions pop the pics on hey

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By *heSofaDestroyers OP   Couple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

Was looking for advice not to get pimped out for housework

Am sure Mrs will have the camera at the read

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By *heSofaDestroyers OP   Couple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

True to our word, there’s a little picture pending approval of Mr Sofa paying homage to Freddy after tonight’s power drill/home made cross antics!

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"True to our word, there’s a little picture pending approval of Mr Sofa paying homage to Freddy after tonight’s power drill/home made cross antics! "

Fabulous!

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It depends on the candles being used

Soya candles - just a mess to clean up after... So you can always use a hot bath as after care to help with getting the residue off.

Bdsm candles - lower melting point but once dried you can easily peel off skin with fingers... If you want to recycle, use a glass, put the bits in and add a wick, pop glass in a bowl of hot water and voila

Parafin candles - a higher melting point and is deemed as "extreme" due to the wax burning the skin... Definate aftercare needed! Think extreme sunburn so aftersun, aloe vera or a burn gel (you can get these from ebay)

Also worth noting different additives in the candles can alter a melting temp

Should say if this is something new to you then always make sure you have a burn kit to hand (again ebay)

Ultimately enjoy

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