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Couples - how often do you meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How often do couples meet others ? For us it’s every few months.

One of us would like to meet more regularly the other not so much . Lol

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By *firsttimeCouple
over a year ago

halifax


"How often do couples meet others ? For us it’s every few months.

One of us would like to meet more regularly the other not so much . Lol"

Wish we where closer we wouldn't leave x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often do couples meet others ? For us it’s every few months.

One of us would like to meet more regularly the other not so much . Lol"

We are hoping every few months or so, last one was March and next one tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged meets are extremely rare for us, we goto clubs about once every 6 weeks however.

Meeting off here is extremely difficult, especially when it comes to meeting a couple because you need that 4 way dynamic.

We occasionally (once,twice a year) meet a single guy but we tend to stick now to ones we’ve met previously. We don’t meet single females so we dont have to even think about that

We are both constantly horny so would probably meet more if we had both the time and opportunity

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We get to the club when we get the time, rather that trying to organise meets around our busy lives, which means we get multiple play all in one go.....so we make the most of the time there.

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By *arleyfanCouple
over a year ago

Dover

Not very often, meets through here need planning as everybody has a different social calendar and other commitments plus of course it’s arranging things and chatting etc.

We go to a club every few weeks and play when we are there, occasionally pre arranged but often spur of the moment.

It depends what you want, we would like to have a circle of friends we can have a laugh with, socials and of course play with. That’s not so easy with club meets as often it’s very spur of the moment and takes many trips to get to know somebody who nine times out of 10 lives miles away lol

In time we will probably get a good mix and hopefully can go to the club with a few friends, that would be our perfect scenario

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By *andAukCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Not often enough. Everyday life interferes too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not often enough. Everyday life interferes too much "

Working , children and family commitments can spoil all the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of things affect how often we meet...real life is busy, we like it to be an occasional addition to life and there has been a severe lack of people who appeal to us...

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Very rarely

Getting 4 way attraction and all being free at same time is a nightmare lol.

This is why we use our single profiles more now.

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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

We make sure we get a once a month kid free"date night".

Sometimes we go to a club or a meet with those we have met before.

However those date nights are also about us so often it's just time together.

I would say we probably alternative so we get to play maybe every two months.

As it's been said already real life usually gets in the way!

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Other than our two weeks of total debauchery, and almost non stop fucking, in Cap d'Agde we go to a club on average 2 or 3 times a month.

Just got back from Cap so having a little break for a couple of weeks now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as others have said, we are finding it really hard...hard to make initial contact and then I guess hard to find a 4 way attraction. not sure if we will keep trying tbh ...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often do couples meet others ? For us it’s every few months.

One of us would like to meet more regularly the other not so much . Lol"

Just whenever the fancy takes us. Probably the same as yourselves. I like that we never plan meets either...It's always spontaneous. I will admit also that I'm always more up for a meet than Mr x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have another couple we try and meet around once a month.

My solo meets revolve around when my husband has plans already, so not as often as I'd like.

He solo meets as and when the opportunity allows, as he doesn't actively seek them it's not very often.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

We try meeting twice a week but it’s never that easy.

Too many let downs in the past so won’t do the arranged meets thing any more

Go to clubs or dogging but don’t often get lucky.

We still try though

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


"Not often enough. Everyday life interferes too much "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our meets are prearranged, as we know the few dates we're free well in advance.

This also gives us time to find and chat with singles and couples we like to see if there's mutual attraction.

We like to have at least one a month, but it can be more.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Usually once a month , but sometimes 2

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

Ooooh usually 2 or 3 times a week, on average.

Janet xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We seem to be averaging once every 3-4 months. It's very hard finding time where everyone is available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading the comments for the thread clubs seem the place to go....unfortunately for us the best clubs seem to be in England ye lucky lot

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Club is the best place in our opinion.

Like other said, people are busy and it is hard to match the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As and when we can sometimes every week other times not for months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often do couples meet others ? For us it’s every few months.

One of us would like to meet more regularly the other not so much . Lol"

We usually meet weekly but it happens when 2-3 week gap occurs.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we average it out over the four years we've been doing this we okay with another couple about once a year!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Quite interesting how some couples are saying 4 way attraction is difficult so they meet solo. Given the site dynamics I’d imagine the female can meet every night of the week and the guy struggles.

At our end L could meet solo anytime but I’d struggle alongside all the other single men!

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We have recently discovered clubs. We definatley prefer club meets and like to go whenever we get time alone together. We would be happy to go once a week but life gets in the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not having enough free time is swinging's nemesis. We would probably meet someone every week if we had time. We're making a renewed effort now since we have a fair amount of time off coming up. Life does get in the way sometimes, but you have to find the time!

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Socials or arranged club meets may happen 3-4 times a year. Otherwise we might go to a club every couple of months to do our own thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try once or twice a week but recently it's become impossible to find once a week.

Not through lack of trying but all no shows and a waste of time..

Fingers crossed now the footy is over things will pick up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Club is the best place in our opinion.

Like other said, people are busy and it is hard to match the time.

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Whats the one club you would recommend guys for a couple traveling over to England from Ireland possibly as a once off ( young kids make it to hard to be anything more then a visit once every couple of months )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most on here we are struggling to sort dates where the four of us are free.

Maybe back to clubs for us. X

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By *havenpussycatsCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Maybe about once every month on average.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

When we started and for several years after it was about once a month. Now it's every few months.

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We used to meet fairly regularly but now a days Not very often as it's becoming more and more difficult to set arranged meets which is a shame

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We tend to go to clubs every 2/3 months, but it just depends on available time. We would like to go more often - Angels tonight might have been fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to get a meet about once a month, not easy living where we do. However we do have a few regular lovers that keep the pot boiling in the meantime

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

We try to arrange meets most weeks or attend a club

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