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"I don't do phone chats, cam or anything else to prove myself to anyone before a meet. I only ever meet for the first time at clubs or a local social with no prospect of more. If you are just meeting up locally for a cuppa there is no need for anyone to prove themselves first." Pretty much this | |||
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"So who insists on phone chat before meet. So just had a meet cancelled. All arranged after a few chats over a few weeks. All keen...then asked to chat before meet...one of my rules...then puff...vanished like the dragon. Anyone else insist on phone before meet." I like it yes but sometimes youre cutting off yer nose to spite your face | |||
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"Always insist on a quick chat phone me now x Ha ha " cmon I'd give you a laugh you sexy arse | |||
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"Always insist on a quick chat phone me now x Ha ha cmon I'd give you a laugh you sexy arse " I'm sure you would | |||
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"I don't do phone chats, cam or anything else to prove myself to anyone before a meet. I only ever meet for the first time at clubs or a local social with no prospect of more. If you are just meeting up locally for a cuppa there is no need for anyone to prove themselves first. For me it’s a filter. I don’t want to get dressed up and drag my sorry arse across Leeds for someone who isn’t going to make an effort to be good company or isn’t prepared to demonstrate easily that they are genuine. It also filters out married men sometimes (text me before phoning). I can understand it’s different for couples." I ask for texts before calling as I work a lot and have kids, can’t always speak on the phone | |||
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"I've never insisted on proof by phone call pic of any other means. When I felt I needed some proof, that in itself was enough for me to say thank you but I'm not feeling it and move on. If someone insists on a face pic or a call before meeting then I will move on quickly. Reason is if one cannot feel it through chatting before hand then it probably won't work out well and the social will be a waste of time too. My gut feeling has never let me down yet in the years I've been on fab and can't see why it will now." I thought I was the only one | |||
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"So who insists on phone chat before meet. So just had a meet cancelled. All arranged after a few chats over a few weeks. All keen...then asked to chat before meet...one of my rules...then puff...vanished like the dragon. Anyone else insist on phone before meet." You mean the chats were texts and they disappeared before the real chat? I insist on speaking to the guy before a meet. | |||
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"It's not something I ask for - usually by the time I've got round to suggesting meeting a lot (and I mean a lot) of messages have passed back and forth and I have a 99.99999% certainty that the person is genuine and likely to turn up. I actually quite like the surprise element of finding out what someone sounds like when we first meet too." You don't have any accents you dislike? | |||
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"It's not something I ask for - usually by the time I've got round to suggesting meeting a lot (and I mean a lot) of messages have passed back and forth and I have a 99.99999% certainty that the person is genuine and likely to turn up. I actually quite like the surprise element of finding out what someone sounds like when we first meet too. You don't have any accents you dislike?" Being forced to watch Love Island, Essex is one i shudder at - Dani, such a sweetie, but button it honey | |||
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"Always insist on a quick chat phone me now x Ha ha cmon I'd give you a laugh you sexy arse I'm sure you would " Hey you seem to have a great sense of humour..... Love it | |||
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"It's not something I ask for - usually by the time I've got round to suggesting meeting a lot (and I mean a lot) of messages have passed back and forth and I have a 99.99999% certainty that the person is genuine and likely to turn up. I actually quite like the surprise element of finding out what someone sounds like when we first meet too. You don't have any accents you dislike?" Not that I dislike enough to make me not want to meet someone I've built a connection and chemistry with through messages - plus if I know where they're from originally I have a rough idea of their accent anyway | |||
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"It's not something I ask for - usually by the time I've got round to suggesting meeting a lot (and I mean a lot) of messages have passed back and forth and I have a 99.99999% certainty that the person is genuine and likely to turn up. I actually quite like the surprise element of finding out what someone sounds like when we first meet too." This. | |||
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"No I don't. I prefer the surprise of how they sound when I meet them." I like to surprise them that I sound like Keith Lemon in a tiny little body lol | |||
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"No I don't. I prefer the surprise of how they sound when I meet them. I like to surprise them that I sound like Keith Lemon in a tiny little body lol" I've heard some things about you lady, not once was Keith Lemon mentioned though. | |||
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"I don't do phone chats, cam or anything else to prove myself to anyone before a meet. I only ever meet for the first time at clubs or a local social with no prospect of more. If you are just meeting up locally for a cuppa there is no need for anyone to prove themselves first. Pretty much this " Yup me too | |||
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"No we don’t do phone verifications for anyone. Feels uncomfortable taking a call from someone you know and another opportunity for something to go wrong; eg don’t like sound of voice. Our veris prove we’re genuine. We had a couple recently insist we speak to them on the phone but we wouldn’t do didn’t meet them. If they don’t believe we’re a couple then tough. " So if you met them and hated the sound of their voice... would you still play? | |||
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"No we don’t do phone verifications for anyone. Feels uncomfortable taking a call from someone you know and another opportunity for something to go wrong; eg don’t like sound of voice. Our veris prove we’re genuine. We had a couple recently insist we speak to them on the phone but we wouldn’t do didn’t meet them. If they don’t believe we’re a couple then tough. " so agree!! I had a meet arranged for tonight but he wouldnt meet unless i spoke on the phone. I dont have to prove myself to anyone | |||
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"I have twice (reluctantly!) spoken on the phone before being invited into a couples home. I would not see the need to have a phone call before meeting in a public place or club. The suggestion that someone's accent is so offputting you wouldn't want to meet them is bizarre. Akin to racism !" I'm heightist, voicist and probably other ists, but oddly enough not racist | |||
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"I have twice (reluctantly!) spoken on the phone before being invited into a couples home. I would not see the need to have a phone call before meeting in a public place or club. The suggestion that someone's accent is so offputting you wouldn't want to meet them is bizarre. Akin to racism ! I'm heightist, voicist and probably other ists, but oddly enough not racist " God knows why disliking an accent is bizarre, it's merely the opposite of falling in love with an accent. That Scottish guy on Highlander, phwoar, my knickers want to fall straight down | |||
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"No we don’t do phone verifications for anyone. Feels uncomfortable taking a call from someone you know and another opportunity for something to go wrong; eg don’t like sound of voice. Our veris prove we’re genuine. We had a couple recently insist we speak to them on the phone but we wouldn’t do didn’t meet them. If they don’t believe we’re a couple then tough. So if you met them and hated the sound of their voice... would you still play? " It’s never happened that we’ve not liked someone’s voice because when you meet in the flesh there are so many attributes other than voice to take in. We just think on a call you’d be concentrating on voice, for example, more. Plus as other have said they now have you’re telephone number which we don’t like before knowing the person. | |||
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"No we don’t do phone verifications for anyone. Feels uncomfortable taking a call from someone you know and another opportunity for something to go wrong; eg don’t like sound of voice. Our veris prove we’re genuine. We had a couple recently insist we speak to them on the phone but we wouldn’t do didn’t meet them. If they don’t believe we’re a couple then tough. So if you met them and hated the sound of their voice... would you still play? It’s never happened that we’ve not liked someone’s voice because when you meet in the flesh there are so many attributes other than voice to take in. We just think on a call you’d be concentrating on voice, for example, more. Plus as other have said they now have you’re telephone number which we don’t like before knowing the person. " Depends if you're the types that are just about one off meets as most couples are then the phone call which gauges personality isn't so important but for me who's interested in friendship as well as social and sex it's extremely important also the willingness to share number shows a commitment to a meet as well | |||
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"No we don’t do phone verifications for anyone. Feels uncomfortable taking a call from someone you know and another opportunity for something to go wrong; eg don’t like sound of voice. Our veris prove we’re genuine. We had a couple recently insist we speak to them on the phone but we wouldn’t do didn’t meet them. If they don’t believe we’re a couple then tough. So if you met them and hated the sound of their voice... would you still play? It’s never happened that we’ve not liked someone’s voice because when you meet in the flesh there are so many attributes other than voice to take in. We just think on a call you’d be concentrating on voice, for example, more. Plus as other have said they now have you’re telephone number which we don’t like before knowing the person. Depends if you're the types that are just about one off meets as most couples are then the phone call which gauges personality isn't so important but for me who's interested in friendship as well as social and sex it's extremely important also the willingness to share number shows a commitment to a meet as well " We use Kik to communicate so people do get that level of interaction. We’ve never met the person so don’t want to give something as personal as a phone number. To be honest if they need a phone chat before a meet then they’ll never meet us. It’s that simple. | |||
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"No we don’t do phone verifications for anyone. Feels uncomfortable taking a call from someone you know and another opportunity for something to go wrong; eg don’t like sound of voice. Our veris prove we’re genuine. We had a couple recently insist we speak to them on the phone but we wouldn’t do didn’t meet them. If they don’t believe we’re a couple then tough. So if you met them and hated the sound of their voice... would you still play? It’s never happened that we’ve not liked someone’s voice because when you meet in the flesh there are so many attributes other than voice to take in. We just think on a call you’d be concentrating on voice, for example, more. Plus as other have said they now have you’re telephone number which we don’t like before knowing the person. Depends if you're the types that are just about one off meets as most couples are then the phone call which gauges personality isn't so important but for me who's interested in friendship as well as social and sex it's extremely important also the willingness to share number shows a commitment to a meet as well We use Kik to communicate so people do get that level of interaction. We’ve never met the person so don’t want to give something as personal as a phone number. To be honest if they need a phone chat before a meet then they’ll never meet us. It’s that simple. " Well you're a couple as I said you're not concerned so much about personality although chatting on kick for a while isn't a bad medium, we're all different but as I said if they are willing to share number it shows a commitment to meeting OK a small commitment but it's a trust thing, I generally message for a while before I meet anyway | |||
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"So who insists on phone chat before meet. So just had a meet cancelled. All arranged after a few chats over a few weeks. All keen...then asked to chat before meet...one of my rules...then puff...vanished like the dragon. Anyone else insist on phone before meet." No not me... And if people insist on chatting with me first before they will meet me after weeks of chatting on here and maybe kik, then i probably wouldn't meet them anyway... I mean i could be talking to anyone | |||
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"So who insists on phone chat before meet. So just had a meet cancelled. All arranged after a few chats over a few weeks. All keen...then asked to chat before meet...one of my rules...then puff...vanished like the dragon. Anyone else insist on phone before meet. No not me... And if people insist on chatting with me first before they will meet me after weeks of chatting on here and maybe kik, then i probably wouldn't meet them anyway... I mean i could be talking to anyone " Ha hey and texting gives you a better insight? | |||
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"Nope, not for me. I don’t like the idea of giving my digits out so I stick to kik." And some people refuse to chat via kik..mmmm | |||
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