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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im so SO sorry for this thread i just need to be told straight!! After reading hundreds of posts on here ive taken all help and advice and read profiles thoroughly, send face pics when requested i NEVER send cut nd paste messages all the usual gripes people have i avoid and do all the right things, yeat for a long time now all of my messages are being deleted with no reply leaving me to believe im simply not attractive enough. Would people please just take a look at my profile and be honest and tell me what the hell im doing wrong?! Also the pics on my profile are only face pics but i'll put them all public for the sake of this post

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Not sure what the 'recent pics on Fab Flirts' bit will achieve as not everyone on here is on there, and vice versa! Apart from that, your profile is great, very informative, love the pics and would be happy to meet you apart from one thing: I'm not interested in regular meets. But there are plenty out there that are. I think the only thing I can tell you is to perservere.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read your profile and tbh was impressed with it as most guys cant be arsed to write one, your a nice looking guy and look pretty fit to me. It seems this site has an average 5 guys to every woman so its not always easy to catch the eye. I personally reply to all mail, even if its a polite No Thanx.....but, good luck, though not sure why you need it as your a good looking lad x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Your profile looks OK to me.

Athough I'm not into guys - I wouldn't agree with your assertion that you must be unattractive.

Probably just unlucky... Don't lose heart - give it time.

You may find it's just because you are a single bloke...

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

By the beach

While your profile is in no way bad or offensive, it's just like a thousand other generic cookie cutter profiles - there's nothing in it that demands attention.

You'll need to go away and do a complete re-write - by yourself I'm afraid.No one else can write it for you or tell you what to say because it's got to come from you for it to work - but make it fun and and entertaining in the best way you know how.

perhaps you're just one of those people who isn't gifted in the written word - not everyone is and it's not a crime - but if thats the case then using fab merely to email people isn't going to get you anywhere - use the other tools fab has to offer - go to socials and clubs and distinguish yourself in person - you might find that easier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone youve genuinely made me feel better. Again i am sorry for this post i realise it comes across as moany but sometimes i think we all need a good whinge aspecially when youve got the horn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps using the words 'loving, affectionate' plus looking for 'regular', on your profile, makes people think you are looking for more than swinging. Just a thought.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

And as the above responses show, its no point asking for advice on here. Some people will like your profile, some won't. If you think it genuinely describes you then don't change it.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I agree with Tobleton that your profile is a bit generic, but it wouldn't necessarily put me off if I was actively seeking single males for more than NSA, for me personally, try to get a bit more fun into it - your life's been interesting so far - what sort of interesting - have you pole-danced down the M62 (I did that just last week on the Party Bus - we make our own fun in Cumbria lol). Cute pix - I would, if I was looking for pals in the NE. But at the end of the day, I think it's possible that there are just so many single guys on here that Percy Verance should be your motto - good luck xxxx

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

By the beach

Caz is on the right lines - try to be demonstrative rather than informational.

You say you've got a sense of humour - well lets see it then rather than us having to just take your word for it.

you've had an unsual life? so says you - let's hear something about it.

It doesn't even have to be true as long as it's entertaining - do you think I'm really radioactive for example?

But remember that fab provides you with a whole lot more than a profile to hide behind and an email button.

You've got forums, chatrooms, socials, club and party listings - you'd be amazed what a difference just spending a few hours in your local chatroom a few times a week will make (provided you have more to say than "who wants a meet" every 5 minutes) - and it can be a good laugh too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally, i hate cockpics but i'm new to this so what do i know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice above. You're a good looking guy from what I can see in the pics so doubt thats the issue. Someone above said it's about 5 guys to every lady on here-I suspect it's nearer 500 to 1 which makes it very competitive. You can accomodate so thats in your favour. Looking for a regular thing will put some ladies off but not others. Good luck and hope you find what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's not the looks (or at least i very much doubt it)

can only think it is purely the amount of single males on here all vying for the same fems and couples

keep ur pecker up and don't lose heart !

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

I think you are attractive enough, I always like to see pics of people looking really happy and smiling (not too cheesy though), I warm to smilers easier.

Just an idea.

x

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

If a boring old fart like me can do it then so can you!

I'd suggest not as many cock pics and some of you smiling. It might also be a good idea to remove your pics altogether then upload them in order with the cock pics first so the viewer see's face pics when they look instead of their eye poked out.

Have patience go to socials, involve yourself in banter in the chatrooms and forums and it will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile looks ok to me and the photos.

if i was closer i would meet x

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I'd do you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks again everyone i'll adjust things appropriately (and truthfully) and hopefully it might help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks again everyone i'll adjust things appropriately (and truthfully) and hopefully it might help "

and least ya now know ur not a minger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep good looking guy...Your profile doesn't show what interests you have. Your age limit could possible be limiting your meets as well. Goodluck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks again everyone i'll adjust things appropriately (and truthfully) and hopefully it might help

and least ya now know ur not a minger "

Thats always a bonus lol

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