FabSwingers.com forum: Devoted husband free to play

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Married to my best friend with whom I share the care of a special person.

Long ago our intimacy ceased and we became carers and friends, but thats ok, we accept our situation.

I have a long term fwb and we sometimes play alone, sometimes together.....it works for us.

I get little or no interest on here.

Am I the sort of guy you ladies avoid?!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some won't play with married guys whatever their situation, others won't mind. You just have to find the ones who don't mind.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

"Some won't play with married guys whatever their situation, others won't mind. You just have to find the ones who don't mind."

Exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some won't play with married guys whatever their situation, others won't mind. You just have to find the ones who don't mind.

Exactly that

The end

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Short, clear and concise! Thank you ladies !!

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Simple . If you good lady is ok with it. Then just let those have the reassurance that they can speak to her if they feel they need confirmation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Simple . If you good lady is ok with it. Then just let those have the reassurance that they can speak to her if they feel they need confirmation. "

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Would she be happy to confirm on the phone OP?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Your profile says your wife also has a profile here OP - if she's in agreement it might help to reference it on your profile so people have the ability to run their own checks if they want.

As for the little or no interest thing - regardless of your marital status etc you're in a pool of single men who represent the vast majority of users on the site and so need to make yourself stand out with a well written profile, decent pics and an avatar pic - not saying all of those apply to you but take a look at them and answer honestly if they could be better and are serving you well - for example there are lots of people here who won't even read messages from someone with a silhouette avatar.

You've also only been here two weeks with this profile which is no time at all.

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

So what would help all to show your not just another married guy is . partner profile name . We hope she has a few pictures so the cynical ones won't think it's a guy pretending to be a woman . And also include a line that ladies or couples can chat to your partner via phone to confirm it all

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

As well as a wife you have a long term FWB. Women might think it less complicated to meet a single man than you with two partners already.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to all....I’ll do some thinking ??

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Simple . If you good lady is ok with it. Then just let those have the reassurance that they can speak to her if they feel they need confirmation. "

This,I wouldnt just take someone's word for it I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to all....I’ll do some thinking ??

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By *otwife CoolhubCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

You’re fairly clear on your profile and it comes across as sincere.

People can then make a choice whether it’s for them or not.

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Trouble is, there are thousands of Single Guys vying for Pole Position.

Most people would choose to play with a less complicated individual.

Married or Married with wife’s permission is just not for us. For some, it’s acceptable.

Fully agree that IF your wife has given permission. Has a profile on here and is willing to confirm all you have said then great.

Alternatively, why not have a Profile together as well as your Single ones, explaining the situation?

Just a thought

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Trouble is, there are thousands of Single Guys vying for Pole Position.

Most people would choose to play with a less complicated individual.

Married or Married with wife’s permission is just not for us. For some, it’s acceptable.

Fully agree that IF your wife has given permission. Has a profile on here and is willing to confirm all you have said then great.

Alternatively, why not have a Profile together as well as your Single ones, explaining the situation?

Just a thought

Having looked for advice his profile is the same with no changes . You could see how some would find it all a bit cynical

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Married to my best friend with whom I share the care of a special person.

Long ago our intimacy ceased and we became carers and friends, but thats ok, we accept our situation.

I have a long term fwb and we sometimes play alone, sometimes together.....it works for us.

I get little or no interest on here.

Am I the sort of guy you ladies avoid?!!!

Avoid single women. Go for couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married to my best friend with whom I share the care of a special person.

Long ago our intimacy ceased and we became carers and friends, but thats ok, we accept our situation.

I have a long term fwb and we sometimes play alone, sometimes together.....it works for us.

I get little or no interest on here.

Am I the sort of guy you ladies avoid?!!!

If you discuss your meets with your wife then I would avoid you.

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Your profile says your wife also has a profile here OP - if she's in agreement it might help to reference it on your profile so people have the ability to run their own checks if they want.

You've also only been here two weeks with this profile which is no time at all."

Have took a peek and this part of the profile far now been removed . So was there really another profile . Maybe, maybe not .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all, taking a step back.

I feel the need to talk.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Thank you all, taking a step back.

I feel the need to talk.

That's a wise move. Personally speaking I would only meet genuinely single males not male halves of couples. Less complicated that way and more available for regular meets.

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