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**HELP FOR NEWBIES/NO MEETS**

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

This is a thread for you to post any questions you may have. Also any other tips I'm sure would be appreciated by our newer members. Let's keep this a positive thread and not let it get derailed by negativity please xxx

*HELP FOR NEWBIES/NO MEETS**

This section is especially for you singles and couples that need a bit of help with Fab!

1. Read FAQ section, particularly the part about no reply, no interest, it's not considered rude. Do not bother with the Sydney university shit on your profile, it means nothing.

2. Work on your profile: decent pics and a good bio, tick interests. Put a profile pic on. If you are a couple then pics of you both together.

3. Get photo verified, particularly important if you are a couple or single female.

4. Get cam verified to start, you can go into the cam rooms and ask someone to help you with this. Couples must both be on at the same time. Faces only and please have a profile before asking me! If I'm free to help with this I will post a status update.

5. Read a profile before messaging, it's polite.

6. Read existing forum threads on profile advice, some very good ones.

7. Post your own thread to ask for feedback, (not a whinging, whining entitled one!). Don't highjack an existing thread.

8. Act on said advice.

9. Go to local socials/clubs, meet people in public places.

10. Lastly, enjoy your time on fab and stay safe! (I have posted a thread with fabs safety advice on it too, check my green arrow)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

How long do I have to go without touching a man before I can switch back to being straight?

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"How long do I have to go without touching a man before I can switch back to being straight? "

Hmmm... Five and a half weeks??

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By *team7279Couple
over a year ago

London

Really useful and encouraging. Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a thread for you to post any questions you may have. Also any other tips I'm sure would be appreciated by our newer members. Let's keep this a positive thread and not let it get derailed by negativity please xxx

*HELP FOR NEWBIES/NO MEETS**

This section is especially for you singles and couples that need a bit of help with Fab!

1. Read FAQ section, particularly the part about no reply, no interest, it's not considered rude. Do not bother with the Sydney university shit on your profile, it means nothing.

2. Work on your profile: decent pics and a good bio, tick interests. Put a profile pic on. If you are a couple then pics of you both together.

3. Get photo verified, particularly important if you are a couple or single female.

4. Get cam verified to start, you can go into the cam rooms and ask someone to help you with this. Couples must both be on at the same time. Faces only and please have a profile before asking me! If I'm free to help with this I will post a status update.

5. Read a profile before messaging, it's polite.

6. Read existing forum threads on profile advice, some very good ones.

7. Post your own thread to ask for feedback, (not a whinging, whining entitled one!). Don't highjack an existing thread.

8. Act on said advice.

9. Go to local socials/clubs, meet people in public places.

10. Lastly, enjoy your time on fab and stay safe! (I have posted a thread with fabs safety advice on it too, check my green arrow)

"
is their any help with the entry fee to my local club or would you be up for coming with me and holding my hand and getting cheaper entry taboot?

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"This is a thread for you to post any questions you may have. Also any other tips I'm sure would be appreciated by our newer members. Let's keep this a positive thread and not let it get derailed by negativity please xxx

*HELP FOR NEWBIES/NO MEETS**

This section is especially for you singles and couples that need a bit of help with Fab!

1. Read FAQ section, particularly the part about no reply, no interest, it's not considered rude. Do not bother with the Sydney university shit on your profile, it means nothing.

2. Work on your profile: decent pics and a good bio, tick interests. Put a profile pic on. If you are a couple then pics of you both together.

3. Get photo verified, particularly important if you are a couple or single female.

4. Get cam verified to start, you can go into the cam rooms and ask someone to help you with this. Couples must both be on at the same time. Faces only and please have a profile before asking me! If I'm free to help with this I will post a status update.

5. Read a profile before messaging, it's polite.

6. Read existing forum threads on profile advice, some very good ones.

7. Post your own thread to ask for feedback, (not a whinging, whining entitled one!). Don't highjack an existing thread.

8. Act on said advice.

9. Go to local socials/clubs, meet people in public places.

10. Lastly, enjoy your time on fab and stay safe! (I have posted a thread with fabs safety advice on it too, check my green arrow)

is their any help with the entry fee to my local club or would you be up for coming with me and holding my hand and getting cheaper entry taboot? "

Pmsl x

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By *oolstewieMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Really helpful information. Especially about getting cam verified. Never entered my head to ask someone in the cam rooms. It is the one thing I have been getting stuck on. Will keep an eye on your status updates.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Cam veris for single blokes don't really mean alot. Single guys need meet veris but they are really easy to get, just go to a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a thread for you to post any questions you may have. Also any other tips I'm sure would be appreciated by our newer members. Let's keep this a positive thread and not let it get derailed by negativity please xxx

*HELP FOR NEWBIES/NO MEETS**

This section is especially for you singles and couples that need a bit of help with Fab!

1. Read FAQ section, particularly the part about no reply, no interest, it's not considered rude. Do not bother with the Sydney university shit on your profile, it means nothing.

2. Work on your profile: decent pics and a good bio, tick interests. Put a profile pic on. If you are a couple then pics of you both together.

3. Get photo verified, particularly important if you are a couple or single female.

4. Get cam verified to start, you can go into the cam rooms and ask someone to help you with this. Couples must both be on at the same time. Faces only and please have a profile before asking me! If I'm free to help with this I will post a status update.

5. Read a profile before messaging, it's polite.

6. Read existing forum threads on profile advice, some very good ones.

7. Post your own thread to ask for feedback, (not a whinging, whining entitled one!). Don't highjack an existing thread.

8. Act on said advice.

9. Go to local socials/clubs, meet people in public places.

10. Lastly, enjoy your time on fab and stay safe! (I have posted a thread with fabs safety advice on it too, check my green arrow)

is their any help with the entry fee to my local club or would you be up for coming with me and holding my hand and getting cheaper entry taboot?

Pmsl x

"
oh and as I'm getting in cheaper you can have a sip of my tizer

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"This is a thread for you to post any questions you may have. Also any other tips I'm sure would be appreciated by our newer members. Let's keep this a positive thread and not let it get derailed by negativity please xxx

*HELP FOR NEWBIES/NO MEETS**

This section is especially for you singles and couples that need a bit of help with Fab!

1. Read FAQ section, particularly the part about no reply, no interest, it's not considered rude. Do not bother with the Sydney university shit on your profile, it means nothing.

2. Work on your profile: decent pics and a good bio, tick interests. Put a profile pic on. If you are a couple then pics of you both together.

3. Get photo verified, particularly important if you are a couple or single female.

4. Get cam verified to start, you can go into the cam rooms and ask someone to help you with this. Couples must both be on at the same time. Faces only and please have a profile before asking me! If I'm free to help with this I will post a status update.

5. Read a profile before messaging, it's polite.

6. Read existing forum threads on profile advice, some very good ones.

7. Post your own thread to ask for feedback, (not a whinging, whining entitled one!). Don't highjack an existing thread.

8. Act on said advice.

9. Go to local socials/clubs, meet people in public places.

10. Lastly, enjoy your time on fab and stay safe! (I have posted a thread with fabs safety advice on it too, check my green arrow)

is their any help with the entry fee to my local club or would you be up for coming with me and holding my hand and getting cheaper entry taboot?

Pmsl x

oh and as I'm getting in cheaper you can have a sip of my tizer "

Ooh you devil, haven't had that for years mmmm

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Really helpful information. Especially about getting cam verified. Never entered my head to ask someone in the cam rooms. It is the one thing I have been getting stuck on. Will keep an eye on your status updates. "

Very welcome. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a thread for you to post any questions you may have. Also any other tips I'm sure would be appreciated by our newer members. Let's keep this a positive thread and not let it get derailed by negativity please xxx

*HELP FOR NEWBIES/NO MEETS**

This section is especially for you singles and couples that need a bit of help with Fab!

1. Read FAQ section, particularly the part about no reply, no interest, it's not considered rude. Do not bother with the Sydney university shit on your profile, it means nothing.

2. Work on your profile: decent pics and a good bio, tick interests. Put a profile pic on. If you are a couple then pics of you both together.

3. Get photo verified, particularly important if you are a couple or single female.

4. Get cam verified to start, you can go into the cam rooms and ask someone to help you with this. Couples must both be on at the same time. Faces only and please have a profile before asking me! If I'm free to help with this I will post a status update.

5. Read a profile before messaging, it's polite.

6. Read existing forum threads on profile advice, some very good ones.

7. Post your own thread to ask for feedback, (not a whinging, whining entitled one!). Don't highjack an existing thread.

8. Act on said advice.

9. Go to local socials/clubs, meet people in public places.

10. Lastly, enjoy your time on fab and stay safe! (I have posted a thread with fabs safety advice on it too, check my green arrow)

is their any help with the entry fee to my local club or would you be up for coming with me and holding my hand and getting cheaper entry taboot?

Pmsl x

oh and as I'm getting in cheaper you can have a sip of my tizer

Ooh you devil, haven't had that for years mmmm "
What about tizer?

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Cam veris for single blokes don't really mean alot. Single guys need meet veris but they are really easy to get, just go to a social."

They do need meet veris, but if they meet someone unverified they can at least start the ball rolling as they are cam verified and can verify that person.

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By *outhEastPaulMan
over a year ago

Thames Ditton surrey

Don’t get put off or worried when messages you send just get deleted even when you think your a pretty good match for someone’s profile- There are 000’s of people here especially guys - So just go with the flow and don’t give up and something may happen Oh and Enjoy Fab And fully explore the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asked someone who I just had chats & declined to cam veri me. When on pc use webcam in General or Directing Rooms so welcome this. Don't cam when using tablet

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

Can I add...

If you don't fit what they're looking for don't bother. All the god lives a trier etc is lost on an atheist like me. I don't change my mind what I'm looking for because someone asks x

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Asked someone who I just had chats & declined to cam veri me. When on pc use webcam in General or Directing Rooms so welcome this. Don't cam when using tablet "

You can cam on mobile or tablet, download Puffin browser and log onto the full site not mobile app.

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Can I add...

If you don't fit what they're looking for don't bother. All the god lives a trier etc is lost on an atheist like me. I don't change my mind what I'm looking for because someone asks x"

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By *oolstewieMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"Asked someone who I just had chats & declined to cam veri me. When on pc use webcam in General or Directing Rooms so welcome this. Don't cam when using tablet

You can cam on mobile or tablet, download Puffin browser and log onto the full site not mobile app. "

Yes Puffin works well. Just remember to close the browser sometimes and reopen if it appears to be slowing down. It is then much faster again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for the much needed info we need to spark up conversations more and get into the swing of things

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Asked someone who I just had chats & declined to cam veri me. When on pc use webcam in General or Directing Rooms so welcome this. Don't cam when using tablet

You can cam on mobile or tablet, download Puffin browser and log onto the full site not mobile app.

Yes Puffin works well. Just remember to close the browser sometimes and reopen if it appears to be slowing down. It is then much faster again."

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Thank you for the much needed info we need to spark up conversations more and get into the swing of things "

Very welcome and thanks for all the helpful posts from everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for the much needed info we need to spark up conversations more and get into the swing of things

Very welcome and thanks for all the helpful posts from everyone "
yw

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

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By *unstargangstarCouple
over a year ago

romford

Thank you This makes a lot if sense.

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Thank you This makes a lot if sense. "

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It's very kind of you to reach out to newbies like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

READING the profiles and respecting that members desires, is REALLY important!

Its got to be the most common mistake newbies make!

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By *erriandRobCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think arranging socials first is definitely the way to go

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