FabSwingers.com forum: Contribution to a party

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How much would you contribute (pay) for a party?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Nothing if its a private one, but would take a bottle of something.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Nothing if its a private one, but would take a bottle of something. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How about 30 quid and have to send payment in advance?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"How about 30 quid and have to send payment in advance?"

Have you been asked to do this OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How about 30 quid and have to send payment in advance?

Have you been asked to do this OP? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hold partys and NEVER ask for payment

And we supply

Wetwipes

Condoms

Mixers

Soft drinks

Nibbles

All we ask is people bring there own alcohol. And them self.

I certainly wouldnt pay to attend a party i had been asked to go to.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"How about 30 quid and have to send payment in advance?

Have you been asked to do this OP?

Yes"

And where is the party being held? In a club or something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How about 30 quid and have to send payment in advance?

Have you been asked to do this OP?

Yes

And where is the party being held? In a club or something? "

Private residence

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I charge £10 per person for private party to cover cost of place I hire

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

If it was my own home I wouldn't be fussed but def wouldn't pay £30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about 30 quid and have to send payment in advance?

Have you been asked to do this OP?

Yes

And where is the party being held? In a club or something?

Private residence "

Your being duped so it's a no never from me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly what we're thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to one where we paid £20 to cover buffet and mixer costs etc but in reflection it was probably just a money making exercise and wasn’t really value for money saying that we went twice lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Report and block them.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I was just going to bring a mixure of brie & crandberry and prawn cocktail vol au vents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most things in life . Never pay for anying up front unless there are guarantees you will get what you are paying for I.E. like something you would buy on eBay and have paypal protection..unless you personally know this event organiser or they have a great reputation and of course you are happy to pay, I would steer clear and avoid. There are lots of free events advertised on here, some just ask you bring a bottle or two of alcohol or beer

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Too many party planners/Escorts on here at the moment. Usually hide behind the single female profile.

No OP I wouldnt pay £30 to go to a party. Are you guaranteed play or just being used ad a cash cow? Better to stump up a bit more cash and find an up front Escort on other sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing.

I'd bring a bottle they liked as thanks.

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing

"How much would you contribute (pay) for a party? "

If it was with you

Anything you asked for x

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By *ntrobMan
over a year ago

Amesbury

I was asked if £50 was ok for a private party to cover venue condoms and lube .

I declined the offer

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

£10pp is reasonable.

We regularly pay this without quibble

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"How about 30 quid and have to send payment in advance?"

I would run away and very quickly.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"How about 30 quid and have to send payment in advance?

I would run away and very quickly. "

Because of the payment in advance.

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing

"How much would you contribute (pay) for a party? "
as much as you want

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Nothing.

I'd bring a bottle they liked as thanks."

That's good manners.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I was asked if £50 was ok for a private party to cover venue condoms and lube .

I declined the offer "

Offer to take your own lol

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

We have been to loads of parties and never paid anything. We do ask what the party hosts drink so we can take a bottle as a gift, but most just ask for a plate for the buffet.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"We have been to loads of parties and never paid anything. We do ask what the party hosts drink so we can take a bottle as a gift, but most just ask for a plate for the buffet.

I think a plate or a bottle is a fair contribution tbh. It should go without saying that you bring your own condoms and lube?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It all depends. I would say look at the details of the party and listen to what your gut has to say about the price, details and who's organising it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Depends. More likely to pay for a hired venue with a known party organiser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depending on what party is i'd pay between 20 and £50 and might bring some party treats too

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

What is your £30 supposedly covering? If a £300 hotel suite has been rented and there are 10 or so attendees it may be reasonable.

If the party is at someone's homeand they are looking to cover expenses such as drinks, nibbles, cleaning of bed linen.... It is surely over the top.

The one time we organised a sex/kink house party we only invited friends we know and charged nothing.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I know of event organisers that hire out venues and upfront have a charge for a contribution. They are established in the scene and the tickets are purchased through sites like eventbrite so in the event of something going wrong people will get their money back.

I think it really depends on the information given to you, including what the cost covers, how luxurious the Venue is, and what is provided, plus experience and reputation of the hosts.

I definitely would proceed with caution, and possibly speak to guests who have attended their parties before.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"We have been to loads of parties and never paid anything. We do ask what the party hosts drink so we can take a bottle as a gift, but most just ask for a plate for the buffet.

I think a plate or a bottle is a fair contribution tbh. It should go without saying that you bring your own condoms and lube? "

We would, even if they said they were providing them.

We prefer to use our own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's an established or well attended event then £30 for a couple sounds more than reasonable, especially if drinks and nibbles are being supplied

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"If it's an established or well attended event then £30 for a couple sounds more than reasonable, especially if drinks and nibbles are being supplied

If its a party in a private residence, by an established couple, who have done it before, then costs are minimal.

We have been to quite a few parties, some small, with half a dozen couple and a few singlies, and some large ones, with maybe 40 people, and have never paid anything.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Would pay £10 for a social event

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

You have a choice, surely no one is forced to attend such parties, just move on and go to a club or another party. It's entirely the hosts choice what they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bring this body. I think that should cover it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly we paid to go to a party last year... think it was £50 for the two of us

I don’t know why we did- or what we were expecting it would go towards.

We had a great night but not sure how the money contributed to it....

Will never pay again for a house party.

Mrs P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enquired about a couple who were hosting a party near Heathrow last week and they mentioned a small contribution is required. They messaged back to say £100.00.

I politely declined the offer, it must have been a very nice hotel room though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband and I paid £20 in advance towards the cost of the house that had been hired but that was more than reasonable we thought, have contributed half towards hotels before. Where somewhere has been hired I expect to contribute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband and I paid £20 in advance towards the cost of the house that had been hired but that was more than reasonable we thought, have contributed half towards hotels before. Where somewhere has been hired I expect to contribute. "

No doubt

By when it’s clearly their own house

I would happily contribute- as we did- but for drinks or food or something...

Otherwise we just left feeling confused

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By *uxinteriorMan
over a year ago

south west , continental

I've never paid at private parties, always take a few bottles of wine though. My parties are the same I will always cook a Chilli, curry or bbq and supply lots of nibbles and drinks, but people always contribute too with a bottle or two and desserts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never paid at private parties, always take a few bottles of wine though. My parties are the same I will always cook a Chilli, curry or bbq and supply lots of nibbles and drinks, but people always contribute too with a bottle or two and desserts. "

Love the idea of going to a bbq party

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