FabSwingers.com forum: No kissing

By *oodgirlbadboy OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

We meet and play with guys in clubs and private meets, enjoy being licked and also sucking and fucking but won’t do kissing, is this wrong to get so intimate but not kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really like kissing other men...

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mm its what ever you feel happy with... i personally love kissing as it turns me on and with out it I don't feel that connection and can put me off ... but as long as you clearly telling the guys what you do don't do... enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's wrong. It's your choice. I would meet anyone that didn't do kissing though. For me it's an essential part of foreplay.

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By *lim Jim 68Man
over a year ago

Guernsey

Personally, I wouldn't be keen on a meet if there were no kissing, but if those are your preferences, then stick by them, it's just not for me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it's wrong. It's your choice. I would meet anyone that didn't do kissing though. For me it's an essential part of foreplay. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't kiss our casual sex partners. Never let anybody tell you that what you allow or don't allow to be done to your body is wrong. Within legal and sane boundaries of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We meet and play with guys in clubs and private meets, enjoy being licked and also sucking and fucking but won’t do kissing, is this wrong to get so intimate but not kiss."
It's not proper sex without kissing

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We meet and play with guys in clubs and private meets, enjoy being licked and also sucking and fucking but won’t do kissing, is this wrong to get so intimate but not kiss.It's not proper sex without kissing

isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had been seeing my ex fuck buddy for a year and we never kissed once

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Personally i love kissing, If you are going to put your mouth and tongue everywhere else, So why stop at kissing. Kissing adds so much more, to the fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it's wrong. It's your choice. I would meet anyone that didn't do kissing though. For me it's an essential part of foreplay. "

*wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it's wrong. It's your choice. I would meet anyone that didn't do kissing though. For me it's an essential part of foreplay. "

Very much agree and very nice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand the couple side to this but one on one, no way, kissing is essential.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

For me kissing is important as it turns me on so much. Also sex without feels a bit clinical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (mrs), loves the kissing part all adds to the Sensual activity.

However would. Alwags respect other peoples boundaries

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By *oodgirlbadboy OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

We only meet when we are both present wether It be as a 3some or more some, I just feel it is a bit too personal and save that for hubby only, strange I know considering where else my mouth goes,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started out the same but enjoy kissing now . At the end of the day it's your preference and there is nothing wrong with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not right or wrong. Only you can say if kissing would spoil or enhance your personal sexual experience.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had some amazing hot threesome meets where the rules are no kisses. In some ways it almost makes it more intense. Touching, looking into each other’s eyes as we fuck, trying to stick to the rules! Mmmm.

Just because there’s no kissing doesn’t mean there isn’t passion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had some amazing hot threesome meets where the rules are no kisses. In some ways it almost makes it more intense. Touching, looking into each other’s eyes as we fuck, trying to stick to the rules! Mmmm.

Just because there’s no kissing doesn’t mean there isn’t passion. "

Is that because you found the experience more enjoyable without kissing. Or because you got off on the anticipation of waiting and holding back?

Mrs

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By *ipi2001Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We dont kiss either.

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

Those that dont kiss lack passion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because there’s no kissing doesn’t mean there isn’t passion.

Is that because you found the experience more enjoyable without kissing. Or because you got off on the anticipation of waiting and holding back?

Mrs"

Definitely to do with the holding back. There’s a nice feeling when it feels like both parties are almost about to break the ‘rules’ but don’t.

However, with a couple I’ve seen recently (see recent veris) we’ve gone from no kissing to the most recent meet where we did. Was spontaneous, led by her. Very intense!

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

Wouldn't feel right if i couldn't kiss...xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Those that dont kiss lack passion x"

A lot of people say that. Can you express why you feel that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never kissed casual sex partners. I find kissing gross unless I have a very strong emotional connection to the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because there’s no kissing doesn’t mean there isn’t passion.

Is that because you found the experience more enjoyable without kissing. Or because you got off on the anticipation of waiting and holding back?

Mrs

Definitely to do with the holding back. There’s a nice feeling when it feels like both parties are almost about to break the ‘rules’ but don’t.

However, with a couple I’ve seen recently (see recent veris) we’ve gone from no kissing to the most recent meet where we did. Was spontaneous, led by her. Very intense!"

Well that’s not enjoying no kissing. That’s simply enjoying the lead up and the tease which will eventually result in more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because there’s no kissing doesn’t mean there isn’t passion.

Is that because you found the experience more enjoyable without kissing. Or because you got off on the anticipation of waiting and holding back?

Mrs

Definitely to do with the holding back. There’s a nice feeling when it feels like both parties are almost about to break the ‘rules’ but don’t.

However, with a couple I’ve seen recently (see recent veris) we’ve gone from no kissing to the most recent meet where we did. Was spontaneous, led by her. Very intense!

Well that’s not enjoying no kissing. That’s simply enjoying the lead up and the tease which will eventually result in more.

Yes I guess so. Or at least ‘might’ result in more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those that dont kiss lack passion x

A lot of people say that. Can you express why you feel that?"

I think most people find from personal experience that if that particular ingredient is eliminated then the experience is less passionate. Therefore their perception will be that the person they are playing with is not passionate. Also there will be people (like myself) who are less like to kiss if they only want sex but no passion.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Those that dont kiss lack passion x

A lot of people say that. Can you express why you feel that?

Mrs"

It seems to me to be a huge generalisation based on not much evidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those that dont kiss lack passion x

A lot of people say that. Can you express why you feel that?

Mrs

It seems to me to be a huge generalisation based on not much evidence."

Subjective issues as to what is passion don’t need evidence. When someone plays with another person and they go away feeling that person was not passionate for whatever reason, then they simply feel that person was not passionate. It cannot proven or disproven as to whether their partner was a passionate person, because it is subjective. But people are entitled to their opinion as to what ingredients make a passionate person.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Those that dont kiss lack passion x

A lot of people say that. Can you express why you feel that?

Mrs

It seems to me to be a huge generalisation based on not much evidence.

Indeed they are. Just as I'm entitled to disagree with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's right for you then it's not wrong for you, if that makes sense.

However I would never let anyone fuck me if I wasn't good enough for them to kiss me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those that dont kiss lack passion x

A lot of people say that. Can you express why you feel that?

Mrs

It seems to me to be a huge generalisation based on not much evidence.

Indeed they are. Just as I'm entitled to disagree with them.

I don’t see how it’s possible to agree or disagree with what someone’s personal experience is. For example if your personal experience is that kissing or not kissing does not add or remove passion for you, then that is your experience and nobody can tell you that you have experienced otherwise. Only you know what you experience. Likewise my experience is that the I avoid kissing if I don’t want passion, and this results in a less passionate experience for me. This is not how it is for you or many others, but nobody can disagree that this is my experience, because it is my experience. If I feel someone is not passionate, they can say that they personally feel passion, but they can’t disagree that I didn’t feel passion.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Those that dont kiss lack passion x

A lot of people say that. Can you express why you feel that?

Mrs

It seems to me to be a huge generalisation based on not much evidence.

Indeed they are. Just as I'm entitled to disagree with them.

I feel that saying "those that don't kiss lack passion" is a huge generalisation. I don't disagree with your experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's right for you then it's not wrong for you, if that makes sense.

However I would never let anyone fuck me if I wasn't good enough for them to kiss me."

I'm not knocking your feelings in any way, but I just wanted to point out that if someone doesn't want to kiss, it's not necessarily about *you* personally.

I've never liked kissing. When I was in my early 20's, I went on a date with this guy and at the end of it he kissed me... and when his tongue slid into my mouth, I pushed him away and physically vomited. There was nothing wrong with the guy, he was nice enough, good hygiene etc. it was just the sensation of the slimy wet thing in my mouth.

I've never had a reaction quite that extreme since, but even in my long term relationships I have never enjoyed kissing my partners, it's something I tolerate. I don't know why I react like that, but it's really not them, it's me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those that dont kiss lack passion x

A lot of people say that. Can you express why you feel that?

Mrs

It seems to me to be a huge generalisation based on not much evidence.

Indeed they are. Just as I'm entitled to disagree with them.

I feel that saying "those that don't kiss lack passion" is a huge generalisation. I don't disagree with your experience."

If they are saying that those people lack passion full stop, then they are likely to be wrong. If they are saying that those people lack passion in their experience, then that is simply how they feel. I guess people need to be clearer about what they mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - it’s your personal preference and that’s fine. Just let anyone you want to play with know before the fun.

My preference is kissing as I find it immensely erotic; I wouldn’t play with a couple if that wasn’t on the cards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it's wrong. It's your choice. I would meet anyone that didn't do kissing though. For me it's an essential part of foreplay. "
agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Those that dont kiss lack passion x

A lot of people say that. Can you express why you feel that?

Mrs

It seems to me to be a huge generalisation based on not much evidence.

Indeed they are. Just as I'm entitled to disagree with them.

I feel that saying "those that don't kiss lack passion" is a huge generalisation. I don't disagree with your experience.

That was the entirety of the post I originally commented on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't say it's wrong, if it's right for you... However I'm a kisser, I love kissing , lots of sexy kisses all over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

isn't it"
No it certainly isn't, I love to kiss if I just need something to insert my appendage into I'd get a donut

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

isn't itNo it certainly isn't, I love to kiss if I just need something to insert my appendage into I'd get a donut

Ah I see. You meant to say "its not proper sex without kissing *for me*"

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I prefer to kiss when meeting a couple. It’s the best way to get the blood racing.

But of course it’s absolutely your choice. That’s the golden rule here!

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I love to kiss, always feel a little disappointed if it doesn't happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its whatever you feel happy with,personally i think it adds to it all, but sometimes if your relationship is not very strong kissing can be a step too far, even though they might have just had a cock in their mouth lol

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Purely horses for courses.

Of course one advantage of not kissing others is that you can't get pregnant by them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a couple (from another site) and when I got there I was told no kissing. They kissed each other a lot. I felt awkward and like an outsider (which I was I suppose).

This is why I turn down requests from couples to meet on my own now.

I could meet a single male without kissing as long as the chemistry was there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

isn't itNo it certainly isn't, I love to kiss if I just need something to insert my appendage into I'd get a donut

Ah I see. You meant to say "its not proper sex without kissing *for me*""
I said that earlier in the thread but yes

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By *oodgirlbadboy OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

Thanks for all your comments,

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I don’t do kisses, just not into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a huge part of the build up. Watching others kiss is as erotic and horny as actually doing the kissing in the right situation. And some people kisses make your knees go weak.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"If it's right for you then it's not wrong for you, if that makes sense.

However I would never let anyone fuck me if I wasn't good enough for them to kiss me."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing, it's an important part of foreplay for me, holding my other halfs cock and feeling him grow hard turns me on, but if someone doesn't want to kiss that's their choice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it is, some men I want to kiss, others I don't....

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By *andDeeCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Generally it’s single guys we prefer in a personal meet. That man is for an addition to our play and therefore is a prop for us as it were.

He has to be appealing to our needs, but kissing is a very much a loving emotion for us as a couple to enjoy, same as anal.

If couples are happy kissing others, that’s their choice. Not for us to judge.

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By *.LBCouple
over a year ago

South

Wife enjoys petting/kissing but calls time on tongue down her throat

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By *ig Chris75Man
over a year ago

Sandbach

Absolutely about personal choice.

I personally see kissing as an essential part of the experience - but absolutely agree it's up to the participants if they want to or not.

It's your fun - you do/allow whatever you are happy to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember some years ago asking our long term playmate if he would meet a couple who where he wasn’t allowed to kiss the lady. He said he would meet and he had done many times, but he wouldn’t feel encouraged to go back. Which I guess is fine for couples who just want a single guy for the night. But may be a bit limiting for those looking for regular fun with a guy. I suspect that if I didn’t kiss my playmates, my husband and I wouldn’t have had the privilege of having some very fulfilling long term friendships with our first choice of guys.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely LOVE kissing. Huge part of sex to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could not meet anyone who did not kiss . Would not turn me

On at all

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

"Purely horses for courses.

Of course one advantage of not kissing others is that you can't get pregnant by them."

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By *taceylacyCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

I love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your choice. Neither right or wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can tell alot with a kiss

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"It's your choice. Neither right or wrong."

In a few words! THIS no more to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own, but for us kissing is a major part of the whole experience. We both love seeing each other enjoying other people in all ways, and we have complete trust in each other.

Would we meet a couple or single that refused kissing...? Probably not.

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

When we first set up our profile I told MrT I wasn’t okay with kissing the other couple. I felt pretty adamant about that...until our first meet, and then it all went out of the window and I find it sexy af seeing him kiss another women. Plus, I love a nice deep kiss while being fucked. It just adds to the experience.

It doesn’t mean we don’t respect other people’s choices, or not meet people who don’t kiss though, and we always check if they kiss before play as would hate any awkwardness in the moment.

The whole point of swinging is doing what is comfortable to you and within your limits, so if you don’t want to kiss anyone other than your partner then don’t and if anyone isn’t happy about that then they’re the wrong people to be swinging with in the first place.

Sassy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it works for you, what does it matter what anyone else thinks.

Me personally, no kissing no meet. But that's what works for me.

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By *oodgirlbadboy OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

Thanks for all your comments, didn’t realise I was opening such a can of worms,,

Maybe the longer we are on the scene and the more meets we have maybe the way we feel might change but till then it suits us.

Thanks again

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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Kissing is much more intimate than Sex in my view.

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By *oastal1968Man
over a year ago

London

"Kissing is much more intimate than Sex in my view. "

100% agree mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is much more intimate than Sex in my view.

100% agree mate. "

I disagree. Thinkbaxk to when you were a kid, your first kiss at the school disco or behind the bike shed. Would you of happily fucked then there too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is much more intimate than Sex in my view.

100% agree mate.

I disagree. Thinkbaxk to when you were a kid, your first kiss at the school disco or behind the bike shed. Would you of happily fucked then there too?"

That’s why I could never regard kissing as particularly intimate. I was a snogging tart throughout my school years, butvreserved sex for someone special.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We meet and play with guys in clubs and private meets, enjoy being licked and also sucking and fucking but won’t do kissing, is this wrong to get so intimate but not kiss."

It's up to you guys. You will find some on here love to kiss others dont there is no right or wrong.

For us it's the first thing we find out if we looking to meet up as we both love to kiss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you feel comfortable with. For me kissing is a big part of foreplay and I'd be less likely to arrange a meet with anyone who doesn't kiss. Although I've played at parties with couples who don't kiss. The right meets will be respectful of your rules/wishes x

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Don't get this only happy to lick bottom lips... to me that's far more intimate. It's all part of the foreplay to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We meet and play with guys in clubs and private meets, enjoy being licked and also sucking and fucking but won’t do kissing, is this wrong to get so intimate but not kiss."

Kinda daft tbh. But if that's how you work. Fair enough

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

If you're going to let strange men stick their cocks into you, then why not kiss? Kissing is part of sexual pleasure so why deny yourself it, kissing helps you to cum.

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with choosing not to kiss others. We are happy either way as we feel everyone is entitled to play the way they want to. There will always be people to play with whatever your preferences. Stick to what you like and feel free to experiment further if and when you feel like it.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Kissing is the best bit lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those that dont kiss lack passion x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're going to let strange men stick their cocks into you, then why not kiss? Kissing is part of sexual pleasure so why deny yourself it, kissing helps you to cum."

Kissing does not help me to cum, kissing helps me lose the last meal I ate.

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

We don't kiss, unless it is the girls kissing. Sex is sex, it is fun, it is enjoyable. Kissing is more intimate and we prefer to keep that for ourselves. Just our way and have never found it a problem or hindrance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is very a important part of foreplay for me and I wouldn’t contemplate a play meet without the prospect of loads of back to the wall all consuming snogging. I wouldn’t pursue a meet with a woman who wasn’t on the same wavelength.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex isn't sex without kissing end of, unless you call sticking a cock in and out of a pussy until it cums sex

That's clinical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is all part of the meet

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth

It’s not wrong, it’s how you guys decide to play. That being said it’s not for me, kissing is a MASSIVE part of the fun. I once met a couple who only told me their no kissing rule once we were all undressed and started to play. Needless to say it went rapidly downhill from there ! It was like playing pool with a length of rope.

I made my excuses and left. However I now know that if they don’t kiss it’s a big NO from me no matter how stunning she is (and she was gorgeous)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't kiss our casual sex partners. Never let anybody tell you that what you allow or don't allow to be done to your body is wrong. Within legal and sane boundaries of course."
So it's not just us then

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I don't think it's wrong. It's your choice. I would meet anyone that didn't do kissing though. For me it's an essential part of foreplay. "
this is exactly how i feel as well.

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By *ancgent74Man
over a year ago

Denton, Manchester

Cant beat a good snog

Playing without kissing seems too "clinical" to me.

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over a year ago

It's not wrong, you do you, but I'd certainly feel weird having a meet where they didn't kiss.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We don't kiss our casual sex partners. Never let anybody tell you that what you allow or don't allow to be done to your body is wrong. Within legal and sane boundaries of course.So it's not just us then

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not just you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we started out we didn’t kiss others as we felt it was to intimate but now we wouldn’t meet any couple who won’t kiss. It really is an essential part of foreplay and alot of fun

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over a year ago

When we first started we didn’t kiss as wanted to keep something just for us. But we had one meet which we kissed and found it so much more sensual. T gets more turned on by the flirting. watching me kiss another man gets him instantly hard.

Can’t imagine now meeting someone and not kissing them but understand it’s not for everyone.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"When we first started we didn’t kiss as wanted to keep something just for us. But we had one meet which we kissed and found it so much more sensual. T gets more turned on by the flirting. watching me kiss another man gets him instantly hard.

Can’t imagine now meeting someone and not kissing them but understand it’s not for everyone. "

These things are ALWAYS a matter of choice but this is absolutely how I feel as a single guy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no fun easy mouth everywhere else so y no kissing strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No kissing no fun easy mouth everywhere else so y no kissing strange"
It's too intimate

cmon

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over a year ago

That's your choice, if you don't want to kiss, because you feel its too intimate, that's fine. I personally think sex is more intimate though. I will kiss more people then i would shag

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over a year ago

"That's your choice, if you don't want to kiss, because you feel its too intimate, that's fine. I personally think sex is more intimate though. I will kiss more people then i would shag

Than*

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over a year ago

"That's your choice, if you don't want to kiss, because you feel its too intimate, that's fine. I personally think sex is more intimate though. I will kiss more people then i would shag

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exactly how can you say sex isn't intimate you dock

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"That's your choice, if you don't want to kiss, because you feel its too intimate, that's fine. I personally think sex is more intimate though. I will kiss more people then i would shag

Love a good kiss.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Sexy kisses for us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexy kisses for us xx"
fi 1St July pic wow

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Sexy kisses for us xxfi 1St July pic wow

Aww thanks, wore to CHIC @VA - got a new one same label in blue just need suitable outing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexy kisses for us xxfi 1St July pic wow

Aww thanks, wore to CHIC @VA - got a new one same label in blue just need suitable outing

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Well You look stunning in it very sexy

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Sexy kisses for us xxfi 1St July pic wow

Aww thanks, wore to CHIC @VA - got a new one same label in blue just need suitable outing

Well You look stunning in it very sexy

Thanks for compliment, very nice of you

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over a year ago

"Sexy kisses for us xxfi 1St July pic wow

Aww thanks, wore to CHIC @VA - got a new one same label in blue just need suitable outing

Well You look stunning in it very sexy

Thanks for compliment, very nice of you

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My pleasure hopefully x

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Sexy kisses for us xxfi 1St July pic wow

Aww thanks, wore to CHIC @VA - got a new one same label in blue just need suitable outing

Well You look stunning in it very sexy

Thanks for compliment, very nice of you

My pleasure hopefully x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not massively invested in this discussion, I can take or leave kissing, even though I love to kiss some people and I realise that one on on situations are very different but I have never, ever had any guy at a party or club stop me from sucking his cock to insist on being kissed first...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

. Funny that

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over a year ago

Everyone is entitled to their own choice and rules but it must limit the number of potential meets as , for us, kissing is part of the whole excitement of the encounter.

We always respect people’s choice though

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Everyone is entitled to their own choice and rules but it must limit the number of potential meets as , for us, kissing is part of the whole excitement of the encounter.

We always respect people’s choice though"

In our experience it limits the number of meets to people who are happy to go along with our preference for not kissing. That's ok by us we only want to meet people who are happy to meet us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me kissing is important as it turns me on so much. Also sex without feels a bit clinical.

XX"

That’s how I would feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is much more intimate than Sex in my view. "

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