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By *ifefuckers OP   Couple
over a year ago

cowd

Mrs has started fucking a guy regularly, she gets him round when I head to night-shift,

Do other couples meet alone like this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see trouble ahead what ever floats each of your boat , but that scenario isn’t for us couple who play together stay together but that’s just our opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of. We play as a couple but we also have single profiles and meet & go to clubs alone.

We've been married 22 years & been doing this for 10 years so works for us but I can appreciate it wouldn't be for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband has never met. I meet alone

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

We have a couple profile and both use our single profiles (we had before we met) so would meet seperately if the right person came along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys...I don’t mind answering questions but I’d prefer to keep it to the forums

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We’ve talked about single profiles, ‘cause my kink isn’t for everyone. Still feels more open to keep the couples profile, meet at clubs any further play can be discussed at the club.

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By *ykeymm8Man
over a year ago

southampton

As a single it depends on the guy. I can meet couples for fun and singles (well hotwife) knowing they have a spouse not expecting more.

Id ask if she is developing feelings for him. If its just sex... Ask if you can join in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs has started fucking a guy regularly, she gets him round when I head to night-shift,

Do other couples meet alone like this? "

J loves meeting solo, it is a turn on for us both.

Si has met soo a couple of times, always fun .

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I see trouble ahead what ever floats each of your boat , but that scenario isn’t for us couple who play together stay together but that’s just our opinion "

We agree with this

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Mrs has started fucking a guy regularly, she gets him round when I head to night-shift,

Do other couples meet alone like this? "

Can’t wait to get you out the door then? only joking honey

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"I see trouble ahead what ever floats each of your boat , but that scenario isn’t for us couple who play together stay together but that’s just our opinion "

Complete agreement with this from personal experience. But other people may fare differently/better.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"I see trouble ahead what ever floats each of your boat , but that scenario isn’t for us couple who play together stay together but that’s just our opinion

We agree with this "

Us also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Diane has fun with guys on her own ..but I am always around in the house..the other person knows this, but they are left alone..this is for safety reasons.. as for a regular guy fucking her..we/she only meets the same person once..this is to save any type of stalker scenario forming..it can be a dangerous thing, relationship wise with your scenario as a bond could form between them and then it's goodbye you

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Diane has fun with guys on her own ..but I am always around in the house..the other person knows this, but they are left alone..this is for safety reasons.. as for a regular guy fucking her..we/she only meets the same person once..this is to save any type of stalker scenario forming..it can be a dangerous thing, relationship wise with your scenario as a bond could form between them and then it's goodbye you "

In a nutshell , this

To swing there has to be a certain amount of trust and understanding . To go to the level of having another relationship within the marriage is beyond my understanding .

While I could get my head around the wife seeing different guys and talking about it when she gets home , having a regular just seems like a poly relationship to me . And if the husband is never there he’s not having a poly relationship , he’s just risking the loss of everything .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would meet some people on my own that we both know and trust but once in a blue moon!

I’d never meet someone new on my own as did that before and he was a complete Bell-end trying to be pushy and suggested bare-back which was never going to happen! Lucky enough had text already worded sos and ready to send for my fella who was only 2 minutes away so got him back home to get the moron out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

M meets on his own... tends to be more one offs rather than a regular arrangement, and have to say my preference is for him to meet couples or females of couples (where the male is fully aware) to fulfill specific fantasies etc, I do think meeting singles who want/expect a lot of build up and messaging etc is dangerous territory...

If it works for you though then go with it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Diane has fun with guys on her own ..but I am always around in the house..the other person knows this, but they are left alone..this is for safety reasons.. as for a regular guy fucking her..we/she only meets the same person once..this is to save any type of stalker scenario forming..it can be a dangerous thing, relationship wise with your scenario as a bond could form between them and then it's goodbye you

In a nutshell , this

To swing there has to be a certain amount of trust and understanding . To go to the level of having another relationship within the marriage is beyond my understanding .

While I could get my head around the wife seeing different guys and talking about it when she gets home , having a regular just seems like a poly relationship to me . And if the husband is never there he’s not having a poly relationship , he’s just risking the loss of everything ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs has started fucking a guy regularly, she gets him round when I head to night-shift,

Do other couples meet alone like this? "
No but if you need other volunteers for night shift I'm in

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By *ifefuckers OP   Couple
over a year ago

cowd

The question was, do other couples meet alone like this! Their was never a cry for Dear Deidre.

Very judgemental for people who are more than willing to participate in what others would judge.

Made us realise we're glad we can trust each other and not other peoples judgements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question was, do other couples meet alone like this! Their was never a cry for Dear Deidre.

Very judgemental for people who are more than willing to participate in what others would judge.

Made us realise we're glad we can trust each other and not other peoples judgements "
yes you should never judge a judger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question was, do other couples meet alone like this! Their was never a cry for Dear Deidre.

Very judgemental for people who are more than willing to participate in what others would judge.

Made us realise we're glad we can trust each other and not other peoples judgements "

Some replies are saying, no they do not do it, and the reason why they do not do it..it's not being judgemental Its answering the OP's question

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By *ifefuckers OP   Couple
over a year ago

cowd

Can't recall asking why or why not couples do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do it a lot. Hubby slept over at his girlfriend's last night. I often stay out overnight too.

Communication is key and making everyone feel a part of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not judging anyone as it’s none of my business!

I just wouldn’t go with a regular guy/girl as I don’t see it as swinging more a bit on the side- also wouldn’t want to risk getting too close to a regular and losing what I’ve got with my fella falling for the other person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not judging anyone as it’s none of my business!

I just wouldn’t go with a regular guy/girl as I don’t see it as swinging more a bit on the side- also wouldn’t want to risk getting too close to a regular and losing what I’ve got with my fella falling for the other person "

I suppose the difference for us is that we identify more as polyamorous than swingers and actually prefer a connection with our lovers. I know it's not for everyone so that's why it's important to set your own boundaries within your own relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not judging anyone as it’s none of my business!

I just wouldn’t go with a regular guy/girl as I don’t see it as swinging more a bit on the side- also wouldn’t want to risk getting too close to a regular and losing what I’ve got with my fella falling for the other person

I suppose the difference for us is that we identify more as polyamorous than swingers and actually prefer a connection with our lovers. I know it's not for everyone so that's why it's important to set your own boundaries within your own relationship.

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There is a connection and there also has to be trust with all parties, we just have a bit of a break before meeting the same person/people again and our friends respect that

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Rose used to do this when married to her ex, they swung together when younger but her ex went off the idea. We always swing as a couple but often end up in separate rooms in clubs and at parties. Sometimes we sleep swapped in different beds.

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By *idingawayCouple
over a year ago

Central

I meet on my own. My partner doesn’t really meet.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Yes we do it a lot. Hubby slept over at his girlfriend's last night. I often stay out overnight too.

Communication is key and making everyone feel a part of it. "

Mmm.... interesting

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you


"Mrs has started fucking a guy regularly, she gets him round when I head to night-shift,

Do other couples meet alone like this? "

Mrs has met alone in the past, but only if we have the guy together at least once previously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to do this if I was lucky enough to be in a relationship where we were both happy to swing. For me it would be an experience I wanted to share together.

That's just my thoughts though, each to their own and all that.

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By *exyangeleyesMan
over a year ago

london


"I see trouble ahead what ever floats each of your boat , but that scenario isn’t for us couple who play together stay together but that’s just our opinion

We agree with this

Us also "

I would have to agree

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