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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

Ok this is another thing that puzzles me is when someone gives you their kik it whatsapp then they respond then later ghost just curious if this has happened to any others. Also noticed the same on here.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Ok this is another thing that puzzles me is when someone gives you their kik it whatsapp then they respond then later ghost just curious if this has happened to any others. Also noticed the same on here. "

Yes, somebody answered one of my messages then they didn't answer anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the person blows it in the 1st message so if that happens i dont respiratory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its because they don’t want to be rude but aren’t interested. If they aren’t replying they aren’t interested it’s that simple

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

Fair that makes sense but what I’m talking about is more of a meeting is arranged but then they ghost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair that makes sense but what I’m talking about is more of a meeting is arranged but then they ghost "

Changed their mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe theres money in selling kik addresses to big companies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe theres money in selling kik addresses to big companies"

Eh?! What’s that got to do with anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair that makes sense but what I’m talking about is more of a meeting is arranged but then they ghost "

They don’t want to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes the person blows it in the 1st message so if that happens i dont respiratory "

brilliant! Dreamcatcher Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m afraid I do this all the time. I give my Kik if asked for it but I have zero interest in Kik and can't be arsed to log in. I like to chat on Fab only these days. XXX

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

Fair ok that makes sense it happened today and it said on her kik profile that she joined yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a time waster probably. Some people like playing games

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

Yeah I’ve noticed that on this site a lot of timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hope u get better luck next time

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

I hope so too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair that makes sense but what I’m talking about is more of a meeting is arranged but then they ghost "

Trust your gut. If 'she' seems too good to be true or on a new unverified profile, it's probably a man.

If they arrange a meeting then ghost, that's just childish and you're better off not meeting them. An adult would let you know that they'd changed their mind.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

People ghost for all types of reasons and at various points. My fb ghosted me after 5 mths of regular meets. Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done this simply because the conversation dried up or it was hard going. Sometimes how people act on here is a lot different to instant messaging.

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By *all Dark and Handsome 75Man
over a year ago

Exeter

Happens all the time, my theory is that people just want to exchange a few messages while they have a wank, and as soon as they've blown it they log out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happens all the time, my theory is that people just want to exchange a few messages while they have a wank, and as soon as they've blown it they log out!"

Maybe I’m wrong but less so with women?

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"I have done this simply because the conversation dried up or it was hard going. Sometimes how people act on here is a lot different to instant messaging. "
fair but her response was just her kik so I messaged her kik she said “hey x” and then I asked what she enjoys then her response was “in what sense”

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

Also this is a question I have to ask does size actually matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair that makes sense but what I’m talking about is more of a meeting is arranged but then they ghost "

They are fantasists and dreamers.

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle


"Fair ok that makes sense it happened today and it said on her kik profile that she joined yesterday "

She!! Did you actually meet her how do you know it was even a woman?

Does size matter? please read the gazillions of forum posts asking the same question, it’s personal preference & the subjects been done to death!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe theres money in selling kik addresses to big companies"

On my old account I had loads of young foreign women try to talk to me on Kik. They had to have gotten my Kik name from somewhere.

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

Fair enough

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Fair ok that makes sense it happened today and it said on her kik profile that she joined yesterday

She!! Did you actually meet her how do you know it was even a woman?

Does size matter? please read the gazillions of forum posts asking the same question, it’s personal preference & the subjects been done to death!!"

Well I never met her but she has a cam verification

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Ok this is another thing that puzzles me is when someone gives you their kik it whatsapp then they respond then later ghost just curious if this has happened to any others. Also noticed the same on here. "

It depends on your chat. I had one woman stop chatting to me because she wanted sex chat (she didn't tell me). I had another different woman stop chatting to me because she said I was sex talking (I wasn't).

It very very very hard to second guess what kind of chat a woman wants lol.

Also you may just say the wrong thing and they think goodbye. For example, you may say you have a foot fetish. They may hate that idea and then suddenly no longer want to chat.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Fair that makes sense but what I’m talking about is more of a meeting is arranged but then they ghost "

They were probably male pretending to be a woman or a couple.

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By *oelDorian OP   Man
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Ok this is another thing that puzzles me is when someone gives you their kik it whatsapp then they respond then later ghost just curious if this has happened to any others. Also noticed the same on here.

It depends on your chat. I had one woman stop chatting to me because she wanted sex chat (she didn't tell me). I had another different woman stop chatting to me because she said I was sex talking (I wasn't).

It very very very hard to second guess what kind of chat a woman wants lol.

Also you may just say the wrong thing and they think goodbye. For example, you may say you have a foot fetish. They may hate that idea and then suddenly no longer want to chat. "

That is a good point possibly I have and that’s true about the second guessing.

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