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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello, I'm new to the forums, hope everyone's having a great day.

Just wanted to ask when/if you've been recognised, what do you say?

Cryptic messages are really creepy and just rude imo. Either say who you are or say nothing at all and go about your day. Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I recognise them, I block straight away.

If someone messages me in the creepy way you suggest...same treatment.

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I know couples on here and they know I know and and they know that they know I'm here, we see each other often and neither of us ever mention it, so its all fine, and if anyone does see me then thier on here too ,no worries

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I recognise them, I block straight away.

If someone messages me in the creepy way you suggest...same treatment. "

I've racked my brains but can't think who it is, he's just sent some message with my name and mentioned something that very few people know, something I've recently applied for. Odd. Ah well. Way to make someone paranoid!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know couples on here and they know I know and and they know that they know I'm here, we see each other often and neither of us ever mention it, so its all fine, and if anyone does see me then thier on here too ,no worries "

Yes that's true, we're all here for the same reasons. I'm not too bothered, it's just the way it was approached, like ha I know who you are but you don't know who I am! Meant to cause distress or anxiety, know what I mean? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I recognise people in the street I jump up and shout 'Oi, you're on Fab Swingers' then I usually proceed to frantically do the wanking sign.

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

I had a guy message me a week or so ago INSISTING he knew me. Wouldn't take no for an answer.

He didn't. He had completely the wrong first name, last initial, area and tons of other stuff.

Whoever he thought I was has a boyfriend apparently. He came across really creepy and I wouldn't be surprised if he tried messaging the poor woman's boyfriend.

If you think you know someone just keep quiet about it.

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

have been messaged by a cpl of people on here.and wen i seen face pics realised i knew them one was a cpl ive known for years and ended up having fun with them with no problems.the other was a friends daughter told her i knew her and told her who i was. both decided wouldnt be good idea to meet lol although have met a cpl of times in a social setting always have a chat and find out wat each has been up to.if she wasnt mates daughter i definatley would lol

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I spotted a colleague rhinos a really good mate and blocked him. He sd later that night out of others earshot "block me so I can't look at it pics" . We dont aee each other in that way and respect we are on the site and wdnt blab.

However I had a guy message me " o was behind those sexy legs at the garage tonite" creeped me out bit I ignored. I'd I block he opens a new profile wirh creepy messages like" it legs kook ace on those Blue heels tonite or " it tits look amazing in that red blouse ". Latest one was "ha I know it car reg now". Unfortumeatly for him I was standing at a colleagues car. Saddo x

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By *rauntonbananaMan
over a year ago

Braunton

Happened to me...very creepy and unsettling..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been recognised a few times, not turned out bad so far...

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

What happens via fab or in lifestyle stays there.

Anyone who approaches us in real life would be told that.

Had guys recognise me but all been good enough to just to mention via a message and weren't creepy about it.

Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only have a pic of your ass, which is amazing, what I'm thinking is, how can someone recognise you from that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You only have a pic of your ass, which is amazing, what I'm thinking is, how can someone recognise you from that?"

I've deleted 2 of my photos. I think the guy who messaged me goes to my gym and I wear a fitness tracker 24/7 so I'm thinking that gave me away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got reconised by a lass Ive known for yrs but she never said anything to me in person

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I was recognised by the male half of a local couple when I was at work in the shop. He sent a message saying saw you in the shop Saturday etc. I found it really creepy and told him so. No face pic or anything with the message. I've chatted to them before and thought they were really nice, but he's put me off meeting them by doing that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a series of messages from a silhouette profile telling me quite specific details about my life and professing to be a friend who wished me nothing but the best. I politely asked him who he was and he repeatedly refused. Quick block. Job done. It was a very creepy approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello, I'm new to the forums, hope everyone's having a great day.

Just wanted to ask when/if you've been recognised, what do you say?

Cryptic messages are really creepy and just rude imo. Either say who you are or say nothing at all and go about your day. Thoughts? "

i understand why some dont want to be recognised or be contacted by someone who knows them on here and id respect that, but for me it wouldn't bother me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pulled into an M6 services one time and a guy we had been chatting to on Fab saw us and waved hello, so we stopped and had a pleasant chat. Was good to meet him and did led to later meeting up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello, I'm new to the forums, hope everyone's having a great day.

Just wanted to ask when/if you've been recognised, what do you say?

Cryptic messages are really creepy and just rude imo. Either say who you are or say nothing at all and go about your day. Thoughts?

i understand why some dont want to be recognised or be contacted by someone who knows them on here and id respect that, but for me it wouldn't bother me at all "

I don't think I would be bothered, it's not like having sex is illegal and my profile is pretty tame! It's the approach that bothered me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were messaging another couple and when we got around to swapping face pics, recognised her as a work colleague

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello, I'm new to the forums, hope everyone's having a great day.

Just wanted to ask when/if you've been recognised, what do you say?

Cryptic messages are really creepy and just rude imo. Either say who you are or say nothing at all and go about your day. Thoughts? "
do you want my autograph or when shall we get it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started talking to a guy from college he messaged me no idea it was me chatting away to him he still hasn't idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv yet to be reconised on here, but would embrace it. Be nice to chat to a local about this fun lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started talking to a guy from college he messaged me no idea it was me chatting away to him he still hasn't idea "
he will do when you invite him back to yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started talking to a guy from college he messaged me no idea it was me chatting away to him he still hasn't idea he will do when you invite him back to yours "
and he sees himself cause he knows him too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started talking to a guy from college he messaged me no idea it was me chatting away to him he still hasn't idea he will do when you invite him back to yours and he sees himself cause he knows him too "
ahhhh Frenchy

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

id love to be recognised

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By *utDoSomeMoreCouple
over a year ago

Southport

Sometimes find it quite handy getting recognised. Saves having to decide if you want to meet up or not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy who has now left site.

He turned up as a new recruit and our eyes met across the office.

Not spoken since and I'm in a diff building now.

No drama required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes find it quite handy getting recognised. Saves having to decide if you want to meet up or not..."
love your profile picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started talking to a guy from college he messaged me no idea it was me chatting away to him he still hasn't idea he will do when you invite him back to yours and he sees himself cause he knows him too ahhhh Frenchy "
yes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a guy who has now left site.

He turned up as a new recruit and our eyes met across the office.

Not spoken since and I'm in a diff building now.

No drama required."

would you have met him if youd have new him well?

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington

We received a message off someone who said he recognised us because he'd decorated our house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We received a message off someone who said he recognised us because he'd decorated our house. "

did yous follow it up? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We received a message off someone who said he recognised us because he'd decorated our house. "

great pictures by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All on here for the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All on here for the same thing "

Indeed we are, speaking of which are you free and in my area and available to meet instantly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We received a message off someone who said he recognised us because he'd decorated our house. "

Ha brilliant what did u say ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only post body pics but I've been messaged by someone who said recognised my figure and knew details about me

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington


"We received a message off someone who said he recognised us because he'd decorated our house.

great pictures by the way "

We just ignored. After a few messages we think he realised it was a no from us.

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington


"We received a message off someone who said he recognised us because he'd decorated our house.

Ha brilliant what did u say ?"

We didn't reply to any he sent

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington


"We received a message off someone who said he recognised us because he'd decorated our house.

great pictures by the way "

Thank you. So you like the decorating then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We received a message off someone who said he recognised us because he'd decorated our house.

Ha brilliant what did u say ?

We didn't reply to any he sent "

A guy on here offered me free diy for favours was your painter after same I wonder lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only post body pics but I've been messaged by someone who said recognised my figure and knew details about me "

That's a bit creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We received a message off someone who said he recognised us because he'd decorated our house.

Ha brilliant what did u say ?

We didn't reply to any he sent

A guy on here offered me free diy for favours was your painter after same I wonder lol "
Can I offer you free DIY for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol bring the mask rsa

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington


"We received a message off someone who said he recognised us because he'd decorated our house.

Ha brilliant what did u say ?

We didn't reply to any he sent

A guy on here offered me free diy for favours was your painter after same I wonder lol "

We'll he didn't just hello, is the paper still on the walls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooo I will not...... Oh OK then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We received a message off someone who said he recognised us because he'd decorated our house.

Ha brilliant what did u say ?

We didn't reply to any he sent

A guy on here offered me free diy for favours was your painter after same I wonder lol

We'll he didn't just hello, is the paper still on the walls?"

He offered to fix my plumbing I think was a two my option lol

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington


"We received a message off someone who said he recognised us because he'd decorated our house.

Ha brilliant what did u say ?

We didn't reply to any he sent

A guy on here offered me free diy for favours was your painter after same I wonder lol

We'll he didn't just hello, is the paper still on the walls?

He offered to fix my plumbing I think was a two my option lol"

Was fixing your plumbing a euphemism?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are respectful i have no issues with people saying hello.

But some arent

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"If people are respectful i have no issues with people saying hello.

But some arent "

Exactly this, but it's the snide, creepy messages that upset me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are respectful i have no issues with people saying hello.

But some arent

Exactly this, but it's the snide, creepy messages that upset me. "

Fully agree. If they get snidey I usually reply something back what they dont like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If people are respectful i have no issues with people saying hello.

But some arent "

Exactly so. If this guy had just said, 'hey, it's so and so, how you doing?' I'd have had no issue whatsoever. But I've spent all morning looking at my contacts on Facebook wondering who it is. It's slightly unnerving.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"If people are respectful i have no issues with people saying hello.

But some arent

Exactly so. If this guy had just said, 'hey, it's so and so, how you doing?' I'd have had no issue whatsoever. But I've spent all morning looking at my contacts on Facebook wondering who it is. It's slightly unnerving. "

Clearly they get a bizarre kick out of it. Sick bastards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know couples on here and they know I know and and they know that they know I'm here, we see each other often and neither of us ever mention it, so its all fine, and if anyone does see me then thier on here too ,no worries

Yes that's true, we're all here for the same reasons. I'm not too bothered, it's just the way it was approached, like ha I know who you are but you don't know who I am! Meant to cause distress or anxiety, know what I mean? Thanks "

This happened to me before on our old profile. Got a message from a guy who called me by my first name. He actually recognized me by my cleavage! I felt so freaked out and pissed off that he knew who I was but I had no clue who he was! Anyway we since deleted that profile and after a break created a new one. Well, the same guy messaged only this time he sent a face pic!! Was quite shocked to see it was the boyfriend of a former work colleague I was quite friendly with in the past. I debated over telling her about him on here tbh but in the end I just blocked him and said nothing!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know couples on here and they know I know and and they know that they know I'm here, we see each other often and neither of us ever mention it, so its all fine, and if anyone does see me then thier on here too ,no worries

Yes that's true, we're all here for the same reasons. I'm not too bothered, it's just the way it was approached, like ha I know who you are but you don't know who I am! Meant to cause distress or anxiety, know what I mean? Thanks

This happened to me before on our old profile. Got a message from a guy who called me by my first name. He actually recognized me by my cleavage! I felt so freaked out and pissed off that he knew who I was but I had no clue who he was! Anyway we since deleted that profile and after a break created a new one. Well, the same guy messaged only this time he sent a face pic!! Was quite shocked to see it was the boyfriend of a former work colleague I was quite friendly with in the past. I debated over telling her about him on here tbh but in the end I just blocked him and said nothing!

Mrs x"

I should mention that he didn't recognize me in the second profile and that's presumably why he felt safe enough to send his picture...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a female customer from the pub where I Jez work message us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I recognise people in the street I jump up and shout 'Oi, you're on Fab Swingers' then I usually proceed to frantically do the wanking sign. "

Savage

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"When I recognise people in the street I jump up and shout 'Oi, you're on Fab Swingers' then I usually proceed to frantically do the wanking sign.

Savage "

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

2 guys I've gone on dates with have sent me screen shots of my tits photos saying is this you? I say yes and leave it at that. Neither guy asked me out again even though they are here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I recognise people in the street I jump up and shout 'Oi, you're on Fab Swingers' then I usually proceed to frantically do the wanking sign. "

That's some funny shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 guys I've gone on dates with have sent me screen shots of my tits photos saying is this you? I say yes and leave it at that. Neither guy asked me out again even though they are here."

That's double standerds and pathetic 2018 boys grow up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When ever someone says the word fab to me in public or on Facebook I always think to myself Do they recognise me from here. And have a cheeky smile to myself

Does anyone else think the same? . If they do hey ho.. As long as I'm not with my kids I would be happy to talk about my swinging. I'm not that shy . lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ever someone says the word fab to me in public or on Facebook I always think to myself Do they recognise me from here. And have a cheeky smile to myself

Does anyone else think the same? . If they do hey ho.. As long as I'm not with my kids I would be happy to talk about my swinging. I'm not that shy . lol "

I thought fb ment face book when I first started I was so green

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were messaging another couple and when we got around to swapping face pics, recognised her as a work colleague "

This happened to us and we all decided it would be worth a shot and we’ve become good friends since and had a couple of good meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ever someone says the word fab to me in public or on Facebook I always think to myself Do they recognise me from here. And have a cheeky smile to myself

Does anyone else think the same? . If they do hey ho.. As long as I'm not with my kids I would be happy to talk about my swinging. I'm not that shy . lol

I thought fb ment face book when I first started I was so green "

Aww bless you .. I hope you know what it means now .. lol .. it's very similar to FWB .. I've had a perve at your profile you look hot btw x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were messaging another couple and when we got around to swapping face pics, recognised her as a work colleague

This happened to us and we all decided it would be worth a shot and we’ve become good friends since and had a couple of good meets "

lucky them

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"2 guys I've gone on dates with have sent me screen shots of my tits photos saying is this you? I say yes and leave it at that. Neither guy asked me out again even though they are here.

That's double standerds and pathetic 2018 boys grow up "

Isn't it just? They join dating sites to cover all bases but feel entitled just because they have seen you on fab.

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"When ever someone says the word fab to me in public or on Facebook I always think to myself Do they recognise me from here. And have a cheeky smile to myself

Does anyone else think the same? . If they do hey ho.. As long as I'm not with my kids I would be happy to talk about my swinging. I'm not that shy . lol "

Haha my best mate who knows nothing about fab uses the word fabulous all the time. I always have a snigger to myself if a waitress comes with our coffee and she says "fabulous" x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ever someone says the word fab to me in public or on Facebook I always think to myself Do they recognise me from here. And have a cheeky smile to myself

Does anyone else think the same? . If they do hey ho.. As long as I'm not with my kids I would be happy to talk about my swinging. I'm not that shy . lol

I thought fb ment face book when I first started I was so green

Aww bless you .. I hope you know what it means now .. lol .. it's very similar to FWB .. I've had a perve at your profile you look hot btw x "

Yes thank the lord for the google ive defiantly had to look up a few things and I'll never be the same aww thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ever someone says the word fab to me in public or on Facebook I always think to myself Do they recognise me from here. And have a cheeky smile to myself

Does anyone else think the same? . If they do hey ho.. As long as I'm not with my kids I would be happy to talk about my swinging. I'm not that shy . lol

I thought fb ment face book when I first started I was so green

Aww bless you .. I hope you know what it means now .. lol .. it's very similar to FWB .. I've had a perve at your profile you look hot btw x

Yes thank the lord for the google ive defiantly had to look up a few things and I'll never be the same aww thanks "

Google is my best friend .. lol

Xx

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Hello, I'm new to the forums, hope everyone's having a great day.

Just wanted to ask when/if you've been recognised, what do you say?

Cryptic messages are really creepy and just rude imo. Either say who you are or say nothing at all and go about your day. Thoughts? "

It would freak me out if somebody cryptically said they knew who I am.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I know couples on here and they know I know and and they know that they know I'm here, we see each other often and neither of us ever mention it, so its all fine, and if anyone does see me then thier on here too ,no worries

Yes that's true, we're all here for the same reasons. I'm not too bothered, it's just the way it was approached, like ha I know who you are but you don't know who I am! Meant to cause distress or anxiety, know what I mean? Thanks "

It's both creepy and cowardly. Creepy well just because it is dam well creepy. It's cowardly becuse they will not say how they know you.

Block them.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I spotted a colleague rhinos a really good mate and blocked him. He sd later that night out of others earshot "block me so I can't look at it pics" . We dont aee each other in that way and respect we are on the site and wdnt blab.

However I had a guy message me " o was behind those sexy legs at the garage tonite" creeped me out bit I ignored. I'd I block he opens a new profile wirh creepy messages like" it legs kook ace on those Blue heels tonite or " it tits look amazing in that red blouse ". Latest one was "ha I know it car reg now". Unfortumeatly for him I was standing at a colleagues car. Saddo x"

I would message back and say you are creeping me out. I would also say unless you stop doing this I am getting the police involved.

Even as a male what he is doing to you would freak me out and have me very worried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello, I'm new to the forums, hope everyone's having a great day.

Just wanted to ask when/if you've been recognised, what do you say?

Cryptic messages are really creepy and just rude imo. Either say who you are or say nothing at all and go about your day. Thoughts? "

I have probably been recognised and recognised several other people where I live. I have never spoken to them and if I did it would just be HI.

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By *rustratedmissWoman
over a year ago

York

I would hope that if I met someone who ive met or being chatting to that theyd say hello. If im with my kids Id want them to leave it at that but if not im happy to chat. Im pretty sure none of my friends or family would assume that id fucked someone just because they stopped to chat!

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Kings Hill

Ive recognised two guys on here and wouldn’t dream of messaging them! One of them messaged us but didn’t recognise me (we just came up as being local) so he got blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recognised a woman I chatted to on here coming out of a local shopping centre we both looked at each other with that knowing smile she's tiny but massive boobs but so popular never got to meet her dammit, well other than the passing smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice but on both occasions we acted like we didn’t each other. Most people on here are very respective of your privacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get recognised every now and then, even though my face isn’t visible.

I had a guy message me on here to ask if I was just in some office building’s lift (I was) and nore recently, a guy has even been messaging me on Facebook, responding to things I post on my statuses on here. He got blocked earlier as he was starting to annoy me, the invasion of privacy was a bit unsettling.

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By *amManJamMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

As someone from the same town as you I get it. I generally start with saying "Hey did I see you in Envy, I was this guy!" Etc. Generally its good to say how you know them. If you just know the face, probably best to just meet them through fab the traditional way.

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By *heekyDannyMan
over a year ago

North West

Started a new job in Manchester last year and i recognised one of the managers as being someone i played with a few weeks before. We've never broached the subject at work but have chatted on here. We do say a polite and cheeky Hi now and again but no drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must live in very vanilla area never been recognized or recognized anyone. Mores the pity lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello, I'm new to the forums, hope everyone's having a great day.

Just wanted to ask when/if you've been recognised, what do you say?

Cryptic messages are really creepy and just rude imo. Either say who you are or say nothing at all and go about your day. Thoughts? "
thanks initially then ask if they want your autograph and a signed naked pic

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hello, I'm new to the forums, hope everyone's having a great day.

Just wanted to ask when/if you've been recognised, what do you say?

Cryptic messages are really creepy and just rude imo.

Either say who you are or say nothing at all and go about your day. Thoughts? "

The creepy cryptic messages are the worst. Had this the other week from the male half of a local couple after he'd seen me at my place of work. I was keen to meet them but because of that I wont be now. Very off putting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello, I'm new to the forums, hope everyone's having a great day.

Just wanted to ask when/if you've been recognised, what do you say?

Cryptic messages are really creepy and just rude imo.

Either say who you are or say nothing at all and go about your day. Thoughts?

The creepy cryptic messages are the worst. Had this the other week from the male half of a local couple after he'd seen me at my place of work. I was keen to meet them but because of that I wont be now. Very off putting. "

It does seem like an invasion of privacy, I'd not say anything at all if it were me. I still have no clue who this guy is, but he knows something I've put on my Facebook Quite unsettling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello, I'm new to the forums, hope everyone's having a great day.

Just wanted to ask when/if you've been recognised, what do you say?

Cryptic messages are really creepy and just rude imo.

Either say who you are or say nothing at all and go about your day. Thoughts?

The creepy cryptic messages are the worst. Had this the other week from the male half of a local couple after he'd seen me at my place of work. I was keen to meet them but because of that I wont be now. Very off putting.

It does seem like an invasion of privacy, I'd not say anything at all if it were me. I still have no clue who this guy is, but he knows something I've put on my Facebook Quite unsettling. "
Facebook is intrusive, I don't have it never have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen 2 ex neighbours one on here and another on a dogging site now what upset me was I tried everything to get into the dogging girls panties and got nowhere haha

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hello, I'm new to the forums, hope everyone's having a great day.

Just wanted to ask when/if you've been recognised, what do you say?

Cryptic messages are really creepy and just rude imo.

Either say who you are or say nothing at all and go about your day. Thoughts?

The creepy cryptic messages are the worst. Had this the other week from the male half of a local couple after he'd seen me at my place of work. I was keen to meet them but because of that I wont be now. Very off putting.

It does seem like an invasion of privacy, I'd not say anything at all if it were me. I still have no clue who this guy is, but he knows something I've put on my Facebook Quite unsettling. "

I've had various people on here trying to add me to FB as well. I just block them. It's all set to private on there.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Hello, I'm new to the forums, hope everyone's having a great day.

Just wanted to ask when/if you've been recognised, what do you say?

Cryptic messages are really creepy and just rude imo.

Either say who you are or say nothing at all and go about your day. Thoughts?

The creepy cryptic messages are the worst. Had this the other week from the male half of a local couple after he'd seen me at my place of work. I was keen to meet them but because of that I wont be now. Very off putting. "

Cant say we blame you, we wouldn't.

We recently had a stalker, who was living 1/2 mile away, starting to triangulate the area we live in, then he (although we say clearly we won't meet single men) says well I've pin-pointed roughly where you live.

Just blocked him in the end, sometimes you just answer and it becomes a licence in their minds to claim some kind of perceived ownership, its a shitty thing to do and definitely unwelcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind a cheeky wink or something, I've had people come up to me when I'm with my kids.

They get the dead stare face

Fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met her and fucked , still meet from time to time she’s a cool girl , private and expects the same x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello, I'm new to the forums, hope everyone's having a great day.

Just wanted to ask when/if you've been recognised, what do you say?

Cryptic messages are really creepy and just rude imo.

Either say who you are or say nothing at all and go about your day. Thoughts?

The creepy cryptic messages are the worst. Had this the other week from the male half of a local couple after he'd seen me at my place of work. I was keen to meet them but because of that I wont be now. Very off putting.

It does seem like an invasion of privacy, I'd not say anything at all if it were me. I still have no clue who this guy is, but he knows something I've put on my Facebook Quite unsettling.

I've had various people on here trying to add me to FB as well. I just block them. It's all set to private on there. "

I only have about 50 people on my Facebook. It's completely private. I don't add randoms, never have. So this is someone I know repeating something I had put on there and somehow recognising me on here without my head!! :/

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t want to be recognised by anyone who isn’t on fab and if someone from fab recognised me outside the confines of an arranged meet then I’d expect to be ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got recognised whilst working in a office. The lady is question must of told her colleague.

They both kept making fab jokes. That's a fab job you are doing etc.

Hence I no long have a public face pic.

I can see the funny side but would of been nicer if they were a little more discreet

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Hello, I'm new to the forums, hope everyone's having a great day.

Just wanted to ask when/if you've been recognised, what do you say?

Cryptic messages are really creepy and just rude imo.

Either say who you are or say nothing at all and go about your day. Thoughts?

The creepy cryptic messages are the worst. Had this the other week from the male half of a local couple after he'd seen me at my place of work. I was keen to meet them but because of that I wont be now. Very off putting.

It does seem like an invasion of privacy, I'd not say anything at all if it were me. I still have no clue who this guy is, but he knows something I've put on my Facebook Quite unsettling.

I've had various people on here trying to add me to FB as well. I just block them. It's all set to private on there.

I only have about 50 people on my Facebook. It's completely private. I don't add randoms, never have. So this is someone I know repeating something I had put on there and somehow recognising me on here without my head!! :/"

Quite possibly something unique in the background in images on both sites, that's where I'd be looking, not that it will change your position now. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I saw the wife on here lol

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

I just think go with your gut if u dont trust them enough to keep mum so to speak then block if not were all here for the same things x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone from Dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr said hi to a couple on here and sent a face pic and the male said I think I know you, said mr's name turned out to be an old school mate met at chams a few times never played with them, still keep in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else been recognised recently

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire


"Anyone else been recognised recently "

We were recognized last week by a fab couple while in our medieval clothes at a show, then twice last weekend - but from a documentary we were in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pics got fabbed by one of my son's friends!

So I thought, well he knows, I know, so I messaged and thanked him.

Next time I saw him it was a bit weird but he is super cool and discrete so we ended up having our own private giggle about it all.

And yes a few months on we ended up having sex too

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By *ouchyfeelyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I recognised a mate I'd known for years but not seen or spoken to in ages - it was a couples profile. I wrestled with what to do, should I message? Should I send him an email? Sent a fab message saying who I was and it was nice to know we had more than just one pass time in common. No issues whatsoever - in fact it put me back in touch with a good mate. Gotta love Fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love all the stories still haven’t seen anyone I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pics got fabbed by one of my son's friends!

So I thought, well he knows, I know, so I messaged and thanked him.

Next time I saw him it was a bit weird but he is super cool and discrete so we ended up having our own private giggle about it all.

And yes a few months on we ended up having sex too "

And does your son know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My pics got fabbed by one of my son's friends!

So I thought, well he knows, I know, so I messaged and thanked him.

Next time I saw him it was a bit weird but he is super cool and discrete so we ended up having our own private giggle about it all.

And yes a few months on we ended up having sex too

And does your son know? "

No, they weren't close friends and his mate didn't want anyone to know about him being on here, professional career etc.

Phew!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been recognised by others off here a couple times.

A couple recognised me when I was out shopping. I didn’t realise who this woman was that winked at me from a distance.

They sent me a message later but didn’t go further with it. Because they weren’t into what I was into.

I do get messages from guys who apparently recognise me. Which becomes annoying when they know I’m straight.

Happily the block button and the message filters have sorted that now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been recognised by others off here a couple times.

A couple recognised me when I was out shopping. I didn’t realise who this woman was that winked at me from a distance.

They sent me a message later but didn’t go further with it. Because they weren’t into what I was into.

I do get messages from guys who apparently recognise me. Which becomes annoying when they know I’m straight.

Happily the block button and the message filters have sorted that now.

"

As a matter of interest what were the couple who recognised you into? As you don’t seem to have any weird kinks on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been recognised by others off here a couple times.

A couple recognised me when I was out shopping. I didn’t realise who this woman was that winked at me from a distance.

They sent me a message later but didn’t go further with it. Because they weren’t into what I was into.

I do get messages from guys who apparently recognise me. Which becomes annoying when they know I’m straight.

Happily the block button and the message filters have sorted that now.

As a matter of interest what were the couple who recognised you into? As you don’t seem to have any weird kinks on your profile? "

They wanted me to try a three some in which I would fuck the wife’s pussy and he would fuck me.

I explained that doesn’t interest me but they didn’t take no as an answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been recognised by others off here a couple times.

A couple recognised me when I was out shopping. I didn’t realise who this woman was that winked at me from a distance.

They sent me a message later but didn’t go further with it. Because they weren’t into what I was into.

I do get messages from guys who apparently recognise me. Which becomes annoying when they know I’m straight.

Happily the block button and the message filters have sorted that now.

As a matter of interest what were the couple who recognised you into? As you don’t seem to have any weird kinks on your profile?

They wanted me to try a three some in which I would fuck the wife’s pussy and he would fuck me.

I explained that doesn’t interest me but they didn’t take no as an answer "

Fair enough, you seem to have problems with people wanting to play with your bottie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been recognised by others off here a couple times.

A couple recognised me when I was out shopping. I didn’t realise who this woman was that winked at me from a distance.

They sent me a message later but didn’t go further with it. Because they weren’t into what I was into.

I do get messages from guys who apparently recognise me. Which becomes annoying when they know I’m straight.

Happily the block button and the message filters have sorted that now.

As a matter of interest what were the couple who recognised you into? As you don’t seem to have any weird kinks on your profile?

They wanted me to try a three some in which I would fuck the wife’s pussy and he would fuck me.

I explained that doesn’t interest me but they didn’t take no as an answer

Fair enough, you seem to have problems with people wanting to play with your bottie "

it does get pinched when I meet women off here so I’m not complaining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone in Blackrock in Dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone in Blackrock in Dublin "

Random post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother me. If they’re hot and up for it then why not???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually fucked a friend of a colleagues wife last year from fab. It was fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello, I'm new to the forums, hope everyone's having a great day.

Just wanted to ask when/if you've been recognised, what do you say?

Cryptic messages are really creepy and just rude imo. Either say who you are or say nothing at all and go about your day. Thoughts? "
I don't mind as a show my face always horny and happy

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