FabSwingers.com forum: Should I Ditch The Dick Pics?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not having any major luck here as of yet. Although I haven't been a member long. But are my pics putting people off?

Thanx in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the general consensus is that if you must have one then one is more than enough.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think that many cock shots is off-putting, yes. One or two is probably enough. But you've got a nice selection of pictures otherwise, I think. If you want text advice, say more (and the animal cruelty thing is silly in this context). Who are you, what are you looking for, what do you have to offer?

Unfortunately for guys it's a patience game a bit. There are so many of you compared to other demographics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Perfectly put. Thanks so much. I'll work on the text. I know I could've done better there.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

In my opinion one would suffice.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

13/21 pics show your cock. That's 12 pics too many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a lottttttt of dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not having any major luck here as of yet. Although I haven't been a member long. But are my pics putting people off?

Thanx in advance. "

Nice first coyole of pics but then cock cock cock. Yes OP to many. Lovely body though. A little more thought in your profile would help

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Totally agreed to many dick pics ! And a lack of profile ! You have some nice pictures is a shame to spoil it !!!

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I think it's fair to say it's usually us men who like cock pics..

You have a lovely cock and it would be a shame to ditch them,however if that's what most women want, then it may be in your interest to bin them..

I will just fab a few first lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not having any major luck here as of yet. Although I haven't been a member long. But are my pics putting people off?

Thanx in advance. "

Fabbed my favourite

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm going to take all of your advice and ditch all but one dick pic. I'm going to work on my profile text too. I really appreciate the advice and thank you for any kind words said too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to take all of your advice and ditch all but one dick pic. I'm going to work on my profile text too. I really appreciate the advice and thank you for any kind words said too.

Dnt ditch them all those i fabbed are perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm going to take all of your advice and ditch all but one dick pic. I'm going to work on my profile text too. I really appreciate the advice and thank you for any kind words said too.

Dnt ditch them all those i fabbed are perfect "

Okay, I'll leave those ones up. Thanks again.

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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago

any town

Gillette.. the best a man can get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditch the Gilette one please ! And most of the dick pics.. especially the one taken in the train toilets or cubicle. Work on your profile and please get rid of the cat. That'd put me straight off.

Definately keep the one where you're sat on the wall. That's nice and you've got a great body so you won't struggle.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

So your not going to take the advice after all?.

You will never please all of the people some of the time etc!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In one of your pictures you've got feminine wash in the background in the bath.. and you can't accommodate..

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you must have lots of dick pics, OP, make all but one or two friends only or private to send in messages (on request). You're really nice to look at, including your cock, but less is more here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In one of your pictures you've got feminine wash in the background in the bath.. and you can't accommodate.. "

Glad it's not only me that notices such things...I concur, one dick pic is fine OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In one of your pictures you've got feminine wash in the background in the bath.. and you can't accommodate..

Glad it's not only me that notices such things...I concur, one dick pic is fine OP"

Hehe.. You're not hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear the cheat police are here. Watch out OP you are in for a roasting

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Femfresh yours is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear the cheat police are here. Watch out OP you are in for a roasting "

No judgement here, just observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In one of your pictures you've got feminine wash in the background in the bath.. and you can't accommodate..

Glad it's not only me that notices such things...I concur, one dick pic is fine OP"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear the cheat police are here. Watch out OP you are in for a roasting "

Nope. It's not my relationship so I couldn't care less if he is however he asked for feedback so I was just pointing a few things out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oops Schoolboy error

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No don't ditch them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are goodlooking enough for many women put up with the accompanying gallery of cocks. It would probably be more fruitful if you were a bit more informative in your profile. What does this great cock and hot body have to say for himself? If you want to attract men though, then crack on with the cock pics

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to some social events thet are always listed here on the forums.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

O be absolutely fair OP at least your cock pics are (in the main) not disembodied over a toilet bowl ones and do show off your body as well as your cock - personally I'd say there are possibly too many but others may appreciate them (there really is no right or wrong answer and ultimately comes down to your choice) - that said with a little thought and creativity there's a lot better you can do too.

However the area where you're actually failing most in my opinion is your profile text which really does need some work - you need to try and get across some personality and try to stand out from the crowd.

I'd also say you've only been here two weeks which is no time at all for a single guy - some wait months or longer for that elusive meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just to clarify, the feminine wash is actually mine. I was circumcised a few years ago and have to use sensitive soap on the glans of my penis. I find FemFresh to be very kind to my skin. There probably is other soaps out there that I could use, but it's habit now.

I will work on my text and have a lot more in my profile that describes who I am soon. Thanx again everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep your most fabbed one public. Move the rest to either friends only or private. Have more arty body pics in your public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks good but far too many. Why the Gillette?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I'm not having any major luck here as of yet. Although I haven't been a member long. But are my pics putting people off?

Thanx in advance. "

You have great pics so that isn’t the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You clearly have a strong relationship with your cock... I wouldnt want to get in the way of such a close relationship

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"You clearly have a strong relationship with your cock... I wouldnt want to get in the way of such a close relationship"
lol x

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Im sure you get lots of attention from guys ....

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By *hris and SamCouple
over a year ago

at the end of the rainbow

"In one of your pictures you've got feminine wash in the background in the bath.. and you can't accommodate..

Glad it's not only me that notices such things...I concur, one dick pic is fine OP"

Haha i focused in on that too ...then thought no it must be my eyes

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d have just the one cock photo ‘up for grabs’ as it were and like the guy above said - get more ‘arty’ photos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay, so I've bolstered my profile text and eased back (a little) on the dick pics. I've also added a few more non-dick pics. Hopefully I have more luck now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pics of private parts should be kept in private gallery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay, so I've bolstered my profile text and eased back (a little) on the dick pics. I've also added a few more non-dick pics. Hopefully I have more luck now.

Good stuff ! I'd definately go there.. if only there wasn't so far away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some are ok and even nice to see. Having more than one of the same angle etc isn't needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally one or two cock pics is enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me personally one or two cock pics is enough."

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

I never really understood why so many people don't like cock pics, this is fabswingers not blue peter(mind you I blew Peter!)

You have a lovely cock so be proud of it and flash it..

If you want to follow advice,use the responses from your age group women 18 to 45..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Okay, so I've bolstered my profile text and eased back (a little) on the dick pics. I've also added a few more non-dick pics. Hopefully I have more luck now.

Good stuff ! I'd definately go there.. if only there wasn't so far away. "

It is a shame. You seem nice and I think we'd really get on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think dick picks should be kept for the private gallery, buts that just my personal opinion. I'm a little old fashioned. I get sick of seeing cocks on here, so definitely overkill with the genitals on show too much. Something to be proud of though, it's a fine specimen.

If a guy sends me a message off the bat & it's just his cock it will instantly put me off.

The ones in the jeans & shirt are nice. You say you like teasing etc so maybe leave a bit to the imagination...Some people like the build up

Profile texts is good though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think dick picks should be kept for the private gallery, buts that just my personal opinion. I'm a little old fashioned. I get sick of seeing cocks on here, so definitely overkill with the genitals on show too much. Something to be proud of though, it's a fine specimen.

If a guy sends me a message off the bat & it's just his cock it will instantly put me off.

The ones in the jeans & shirt are nice. You say you like teasing etc so maybe leave a bit to the imagination...Some people like the build up

Profile texts is good though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If a guy sends me a message off the bat & it's just his cock it will instantly put me off.

The ones in the jeans & shirt are nice. You say you like teasing etc so maybe leave a bit to the imagination...Some people like the build up

Profile texts is good though.

Thanx for the feedback.

I am aware that male profiles with different angles of the same cock pics and nothing else is boring as hell. This is why I brought the topic up in the first place. I always try to mix it up though. I try not to make the cock pics too similar.

But it seems that SOME women do want to see what a guy's packing before they talk to or meet him. So I think I'll leave it as it is for now and maybe change it (take the dick pics off) if I've had no luck after a month or so lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest mate . You asked the question 3 days ago and most said you have too many cock pics . And you still have too many cock pics . So my guess it's a look at my cock thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your pics look great ...

Keep them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been thinking the same thing so finally put a couple on today, would like to think it helps but also that the rest of me is considered

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Still too much emphasis on your cock in my opinion. Ladies want to meet a pleasant fun bloke, whose profile shows their personality and has a decent body. The " meat" is not the most important part of the "meet" for most women.

One or two photos is all you need on display. People can always request to see ones you put in the friends album.

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By *entleman of GirthMan
over a year ago

Forest Row

My own experience is 50:50 some love em, others hate em.

I’m really up for NSA fun, where it seems to be one of the selection criteria, so mine are staying on.

The pics I can’t stand are ones of feet and shoes - each to their own !!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Your question was ‘should I ditch the dick pics’ the majority said ‘yes’ and yet your profile is still full of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your question was ‘should I ditch the dick pics’ the majority said ‘yes’ and yet your profile is still full of them

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I don't real'y get the "too many dick pics" How many females ham I seen with three pages of tit pics all from the same angle, likewise with fanny and ass pics. whats sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander, imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not having any major luck here as of yet. Although I haven't been a member long. But are my pics putting people off?

Thanx in advance. "

Yes!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not having any major luck here as of yet. Although I haven't been a member long. But are my pics putting people off?

Thanx in advance. "
9 dick pics a bit much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't real'y get the "too many dick pics" How many females ham I seen with three pages of tit pics all from the same angle, likewise with fanny and ass pics. whats sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander, imo."

Men and women have different tastes, so I don’t think the goose and the gander should be expected to have the same sauce. Logically people should design their profiles to attract their target market. For example if my target market didn’t like seeing pictures of tits, then I’d put mine away. I do suspect though that those profiles with lots of female genetalia are not the ones who find lots of male genetalia distasteful.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay, so I've bolstered my profile text and eased back (a little) on the dick pics. I've also added a few more non-dick pics. Hopefully I have more luck now.

Good stuff ! I'd definately go there.. if only there wasn't so far away. "

Me too lol..... Good luck OP x

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

No. Show the pictures you want, not what others want to see - it says more about you. Anyway, I think your dick pics are fine - it's a nice cock, why not show it if you want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 out of 21 isn't bad tho..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you’ve got a nice cock OP

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

We have been on the social scene for a while

Single guys that are serious about the swinging lifestyle need to understand the ratio of men to women/single ladies are so like 100/1

Spend time in chat and get to clubs

We have met many people from chat or organised socials ok so not many play meets at all but the lifestyle is wicked and we made very good friends

Get to a club then you will get veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love if any women could give me same advise where I'm going wrong if you have spare minute or is it I'm just dog ugly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep the pics. Shame your so far away x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a hottie

C'mon ladies, get to it!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Would love if any women could give me same advise where I'm going wrong if you have spare minute or is it I'm just dog ugly lol"

Piggybacking on someone else's post is bad manners.

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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago

any town

"Would love if any women could give me same advise where I'm going wrong if you have spare minute or is it I'm just dog ugly lol

Piggybacking on someone else's post is bad manners. "

Was about to say the same thing. Bad manners indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shave ya arse

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

You have a nice selection of pics now OP, but should get rid of most if the remaining cock photos. They really do put off most women! One cock pic at most, the best and sexiest one is prob the half reveal 20th june 2018. Ditch the others - maybe just move to private gallery, only show them to those who ask.

Otherwise it's a well written profile. It is unfortunately a slow process for most single men on here, just due to the male/female ratio. But you have a good basis here OP, happy fabbing!

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

For men it's more about getting out to clubs and socials to meet people. Once you start getting known it's easier to get meets. It is hard to get a meet just by messaging. I've been turned down by message then had lots of fun with the same people after meeting them at clubs/events.

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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago

any town

He started this thread a week ago and apart from a slight tweak of pics, he still has 21 pictures mostly of his cock. Why do we all keep giving advice on the forums only to be ignored by the op’s. Think it was another “look at me” thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not having any major luck here as of yet. Although I haven't been a member long. But are my pics putting people off?

Thanx in advance. "

Ooh I like your pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shave ya arse

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a woman who does entertain single men, your new profile is much better. We are looking to see if you have a nice body, handsome face, wear nice clothes and look like you are a fun person and interesting to be with. Our imagination is more powerful than our g-spot. I only ever met guys with profiles like this. Of course we want to see a dick pic, but it should be around 4:1 pics:dicks ratio..... Also send the face pic if not on first reply, definitely on 2nd.

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