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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In manor hotel Birmingham . And looking for fun . Getting nothing but no thanks am I doing something wrong I am clean and genuine

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By *riendlymasseurMan
over a year ago

birmingham Warwickshire &Worcestershire

Afraid lots of talk not much action mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u will get the same answers as the last time u posted.....

try social events in ur area

try local swinging clubs etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"u will get the same answers as the last time u posted.....

try social events in ur area

try local swinging clubs etc etc"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In manor hotel Birmingham . And looking for fun . Getting nothing but no thanks am I doing something wrong I am clean and genuine "

You may not be doing something wrong but not everyone will just meet in a hotel, some expect a social meet first. Are you making the mistake that you think swingers will shag anybody at the drop of a hat? Plus hotel meets rightly or wrongly suggest someone is cheating. At the end of a day it's a numbers game, lots of single males chasing comparively few females so you need a lot of patience and a little luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Afraid lots of talk not much action mate"

Speak for yourself.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

If people cant be bothered to put foto right way up then I wonder what else they couldnt be bothered with.

One pic so small I cannot even see you hope you have some luck soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with cinnamon-some decent pics on your profile will improve your chances. Very few single ladies will meet a random single male in a hotel room late at night unless they have a burning desire to be a star on crimewatch!

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Just because this is "a sex site" (not really a term I'd agree with but that's another matter) doesn't mean that the rules of attraction are any different here than they are anywhere else.

The first step in any seduction is your opener and all good openers should be fun, lighthearted, interesting and above all on a fairly neutral topic. Your aim should be to create a SOCIAL (not sexual) hook.

On here your profile and your first message are your openers - does your profile conform to the above?

You say you have a great sense of humour ..... really? It doesn't show - it sounds more like a shopping list and is about as interesting and as funny as one so regardless of what you say about yourself the impression you're going to give will be the opposite.

Anyone can SAY great things about themselves but can you actually DEMONSTRATE it in a paragraph or two of text?

Leave out all of the.redundant stuff too - do you really think a timewaster will see your no timewasters bit and think "damn! If only he hadn't said that!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tbh if just a shag is what your after then you would be better going to a club etc.

there is alot of people on here who think that its easyer to "pull" than in real life. but this is far from the truth.

and moaning about it isnt going to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"tbh if just a shag is what your after then you would be better going to a club etc.

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even then its not a gaunteed shag

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By *riendlymasseurMan
over a year ago

birmingham Warwickshire &Worcestershire

Wow! I bett the OP never thought of that! Well done! DOH!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe its not the people maybe its YOU

the profile the photos do matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very few single ladies will meet a random single male in a hotel room late at night unless they have a burning desire to be a star on crimewatch!"

...after a stint on News at 10!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very few single ladies will meet a random single male in a hotel room late at night unless they have a burning desire to be a star on crimewatch!

...after a stint on News at 10! "

or stupid x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry op, I think what will put some people off is the fact you claim to be straight but say you're orally bi and looking to meet tvs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry op, I think what will put some people off is the fact you claim to be straight but say you're orally bi and looking to meet tvs!

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i agree there x

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