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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having been on here on & off for the last 8 years & in that time have met & had some fun with a few nice people. Now having got the wrong side of 60 it appears that a lot of people are looking for younger men. Can anyone suggest other swinger sites that cater for more mature swingers?

Feel free to message me with any suggestions.

Thanks.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can't and if you haven't found them by using a search engine I doubt they exist.

I suspect that there are fewer swingers in the 60+ age group for varios reasons. Its also made more difficult because people in that age group often want younger.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Just go on a saga cruise, you'll be knee deep in fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go to ibiza and party for a week , it will change your mind set , your never to old

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"go to ibiza and party for a week , it will change your mind set , your never to old "

I honestly can't think of anything worse .

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"go to ibiza and party for a week , it will change your mind set , your never to old

I honestly can't think of anything worse .

"

Haven't you watched Kevin and Perry go large?

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

I joined this site 10 yrs ago, aged 60

And I have never found a problem finding people to have fun with.

in fact, I met my mrs on here 6 yrs ago and we have our second wedding anniversory on monday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one for the over 50,s, it's part of a group of adult dating sites. You would have to Google it, as its changed its web name a while vago.But to be honest it was crap when I was on it. Fab is much better. XXX

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I joined this site 10 yrs ago, aged 60

And I have never found a problem finding people to have fun with.

in fact, I met my mrs on here 6 yrs ago and we have our second wedding anniversory on monday "

Good job

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By *dge of HeavenMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

Very funny. I will remember thst in the future x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"go to ibiza and party for a week , it will change your mind set , your never to old

I honestly can't think of anything worse .

Haven't you watched Kevin and Perry go large? "

Yes. As I said I can't think of anything worse

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"go to ibiza and party for a week , it will change your mind set , your never to old

I honestly can't think of anything worse .

Haven't you watched Kevin and Perry go large?

Yes. As I said I can't think of anything worse "

I thought the parents looked like they were having a good time

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"go to ibiza and party for a week , it will change your mind set , your never to old

I honestly can't think of anything worse .

Haven't you watched Kevin and Perry go large?

Yes. As I said I can't think of anything worse

I thought the parents looked like they were having a good time "

They did. We tried having sex with an audience and I didn't like it as much as I thought I would. An audience of Ibiza clubbers would freak me out.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Having been on here on & off for the last 8 years & in that time have met & had some fun with a few nice people. Now having got the wrong side of 60 it appears that a lot of people are looking for younger men. Can anyone suggest other swinger sites that cater for more mature swingers?

Feel free to message me with any suggestions.

Thanks."

Saga is THE website to be for mature swingers, they're all at it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I joined this site 10 yrs ago, aged 60

And I have never found a problem finding people to have fun with.

in fact, I met my mrs on here 6 yrs ago and we have our second wedding anniversory on monday "

Congratulations for Monday.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think this place works perfectly well for all ranges - all you need to do is tick the "I'm the age they're looking for" box when searching

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By *rincessvenusCouple
over a year ago

Hull

if you look at sandancers verrys you will see how it works your not trying hard enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if you look at sandancers verrys you will see how it works your not trying hard enough"

Looks like I need to go camping then!

As for not trying hard enough

I've sent loads of friendly polite messages to women & couples upto 20 miles away,most of which get deleted with out a reply,been to a social & despite trying to chat to a lot of people was pretty much ignored. The only thing I've not done is pay a lot of money & go to a club,which I don't feel confident enough to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an over 60 i never find meeting a problem. But i guess it depends what you are lookibg for

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I’ve been lucky in that as I get older bi curious and bi guys are attracted by my experience - I don’t meet lots of guys but the ones I meet have mostly been appreciative, respectful and have become buddies

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By *humper9erMan
over a year ago

Rocklin


"I can't and if you haven't found them by using a search engine I doubt they exist.

I suspect that there are fewer swingers in the 60+ age group for varios reasons. Its also made more difficult because people in that age group often want younger.

"

Here in CA, it's well known that Senior housing has a lot of Swinging going on. A couple years ago, i met a lady, 79 yr old who was expecting her new hookup in just a couple of hour. She told me she didn't know hardly any of her senior girl friends who weren't hooking up with elligable single/widowed men almost every week. This gal had 3 different men she saw 1, once each week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined this site 10 yrs ago, aged 60

And I have never found a problem finding people to have fun with.

in fact, I met my mrs on here 6 yrs ago and we have our second wedding anniversory on monday

Congratulations for Monday. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I can't and if you haven't found them by using a search engine I doubt they exist.

I suspect that there are fewer swingers in the 60+ age group for varios reasons. Its also made more difficult because people in that age group often want younger.

Here in CA, it's well known that Senior housing has a lot of Swinging going on. A couple years ago, i met a lady, 79 yr old who was expecting her new hookup in just a couple of hour. She told me she didn't know hardly any of her senior girl friends who weren't hooking up with elligable single/widowed men almost every week. This gal had 3 different men she saw 1, once each week. "

We'd better all move out there

I know that STI are on the increase among 50+ year olds. I don't know if that's because they're swingers or not.

I have to say we find it increasingly difficult to meet people the older we get. That isn't a complaint just an observation.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"if you look at sandancers verrys you will see how it works your not trying hard enough

Looks like I need to go camping then!

As for not trying hard enough

I've sent loads of friendly polite messages to women & couples upto 20 miles away,most of which get deleted with out a reply,been to a social & despite trying to chat to a lot of people was pretty much ignored. The only thing I've not done is pay a lot of money & go to a club,which I don't feel confident enough to do."

So perhaps consider it's not age that is the issue but something you can change - usually when people find they're not getting responses to messages or getting anywhere with meeting people it comes down to things like profile text or pics needing some work, or the content of messages sent etc.

So perhaps you need to take a look at some of those things and see what you can change - you can't after all do anything about your age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if you look at sandancers verrys you will see how it works your not trying hard enough

Looks like I need to go camping then!

As for not trying hard enough

I've sent loads of friendly polite messages to women & couples upto 20 miles away,most of which get deleted with out a reply,been to a social & despite trying to chat to a lot of people was pretty much ignored. The only thing I've not done is pay a lot of money & go to a club,which I don't feel confident enough to do.

So perhaps consider it's not age that is the issue but something you can change - usually when people find they're not getting responses to messages or getting anywhere with meeting people it comes down to things like profile text or pics needing some work, or the content of messages sent etc.

So perhaps you need to take a look at some of those things and see what you can change - you can't after all do anything about your age."

Must be my appearance & I'm not very photogenic either & I can't do much about that.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


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Must be my appearance & I'm not very photogenic either & I can't do much about that."

Nor am I but I've managed to find pics that seem to appeal

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"if you look at sandancers verrys you will see how it works your not trying hard enough

Looks like I need to go camping then!

As for not trying hard enough

I've sent loads of friendly polite messages to women & couples upto 20 miles away,most of which get deleted with out a reply,been to a social & despite trying to chat to a lot of people was pretty much ignored. The only thing I've not done is pay a lot of money & go to a club,which I don't feel confident enough to do.

So perhaps consider it's not age that is the issue but something you can change - usually when people find they're not getting responses to messages or getting anywhere with meeting people it comes down to things like profile text or pics needing some work, or the content of messages sent etc.

So perhaps you need to take a look at some of those things and see what you can change - you can't after all do anything about your age."

Yes, good advice. I don't have a problem with age, I am actually seeking the over 50's, but to be honest most mature men put me off straight away with their unflattering and vulgar pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having been on here on & off for the last 8 years & in that time have met & had some fun with a few nice people. Now having got the wrong side of 60 it appears that a lot of people are looking for younger men. Can anyone suggest other swinger sites that cater for more mature swingers?

Feel free to message me with any suggestions.

Thanks."

Just lie about your age, like most people do

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