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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here for over a month and all we seem to get most of the time is single guys. We seem to get our inbox blasted buy men that struggle to put a full sentence together.

Is there anything we can change or do to change this?

-Nick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block single guys from messaging and do the searching and approaching yourselves.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

What rubi said, also maybe tweak your profile a bit to say what you can offer other couples and single females as it appears to be geared towards single males. Good luck to you both xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's great advice. Thank you.

I've updated our profile to reflect this.

-Nick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter what, you'll always get single men messaging you unless you block them. Even the people who arent looking for males get them

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"That's great advice. Thank you.

I've updated our profile to reflect this.

-Nick

"

Anything else, feel free to pm me x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's not your profile, I'm afraid. Apart from blocking all single guys, I don't think there's anything you can do to stop most of your messages being what you describe (although I've found blocking unverified and new profiles turns down the volume).

I get stupid messages from every demographic, to be clear, but because single guys are the vast majority of the messages I get they're also the vast majority of stupid messages I get, so they're a bigger problem, as it were. (I sometimes get told I'm bashing single guys when I say stuff like this. It's not that, it's just the 1-5 stupid messages daily, from all other demographics put together, bothers me much less than the 20-100+ from single guys. It's just a numbers thing)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay I see. Its part of being on here.

Is it worth getting some verifications via socials. Will that up tge 'quality' so to speak?

And thank you I will PM ypu for advice, I'm determined to get this right!

-Nick

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I find the verification thing is mixed. On the one hand you get better people who realise you are real and do meet (and you can block unverified profiles). On the other hand idiots realise you're real too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people take Web Cam verifications seriously? Is it worth us doing?

-Nick

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm not sure, I don't have any, but I think it's better than nothing/ only photo verified. But obviously meet verified is better if you can.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Do people take Web Cam verifications seriously? Is it worth us doing?

-Nick "

It's worth doing as you can then verify an unverified person or couple if you meet them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay I will get on it. I presume there's plenty of people in the chat rooms who will help us out?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Okay I will get on it. I presume there's plenty of people in the chat rooms who will help us out?"

Yes just ask in there x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cool. Thank you for all your help and support. X

-Nick

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Best of luck to you!

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