FabSwingers.com forum: Do i, dont i?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Need some advise really. This girl i sort of know has given me a proposal and i dont know what to do she is married to a little cheating twat who has done the dirty on her now 4 times she found out 3 days ago about the forth so has asked me to help her show her so called husband how it feels to have the dirty done on him to show him how it feels to see if it stops him or if not she is done so question is do i or dont i?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word no

I know someone who did a similar thing and he took a lot of flak and shit for it off both of them

Keep out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Run away!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks soapy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with soapy : 1/it won't really help her (revenge sex doesn't make you feel better)

2/ it can even create a bigger trouble in her couple (her husband will feel like he hasn't done anything wrong as she did it as well)

3/and it will bring you loads of troubles... (nobody wants a angry husband on his back)

Stay definitely out of it!!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

if you want the guy or his mates to knock 7 bells out you then wire in !!!

are you serious !! avoid at all costs! you cant win here ! quite why you want to throw petrol on an already volatile situation is beyond me .

if the guy is that much of a "twat" as she says why the hell hasnt she kicked him to kerb ages back ??? end of day their relationshipis nowt to do with you and your friend should sort her own mess out and not play childish tit for tat games

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep out of it... you may very well get yourself hurt.... physically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NEVER get betwixt a man and wife in dispute......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not agreed to anything with her at all im just asking for advise didnt think it was a good idea and you lot have just added strength to what i thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what I'm failing to grasp, the concept of asking someone to have sex with them purely as an act of revenge (seiously just how cold does it sound and how crap would the sex be?), or the concept of even considering it considering the amount of shit it could bring to your life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 times....

and she takes him back....I doubt itll be any skin off his nose at her havin 1shag, and him having four n most likely ready for an encore

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Woah, no way... run a mile.

Nothing about this plan of her's sounds like a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

run forrest run lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You call him a 'cheating little twat' and say he has 'done the dirty'

So ...... what will you call HER after you both do it ?

What will you call yourself ?

What kind of hateful sick woman fucks another man simply for revenge ?

What kind of idiot does it for her?

Maybe they are both in it together and you are the fool ......

Just get sex elsewhere don't even think of playing their game or her game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About like the plague!! For it to be revenge sex then she will tell him about it and when he gets angry she may play the victim and say you seduced her. In which case, say good byte to your cojones!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Nothing good will come of this.

If the chap is such a rotter, then she must have a good reason to stay with him.

2-1 they make up and both end up blaming you for everything.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

she may well take him back without question, but you don't know how he would react.....

two wrongs don't make a right.....

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

you got to stear clear of the problems they av mate , get involved it will bring you bover, so do you want that only you can answer that mate

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

Sex is to be enjoyed, not to settle scores.

Say No.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

she would be using you just to get at him

whats sexy about that?

keep the feck away m8

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

going on what people are telling you , its got to be a no no matey

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Good lord he probably kill you.. keep away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck that... no no I mean dont fuck that, or... im confused. Say no!! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont think much to her classing you as a mate, when she wants to use you and put you in the middle of her marriage!!!

If/when the shit starts coming your way, you can bet ur life she wont do anything to protect you from her husbands fury!!!

as everyone else thinks.....steer clear son!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my ex did the same to me so i slept with someone to get my own back on him thats when the violence started not towards the guy who i slept with the arsole started hiting me everytime he when with someone else so take advice from some one who has been there stay well out of it for her sake lucky for me i have a fantastic hubby now who is my rock but i feel for her

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By *ngel Devil69Couple
over a year ago

Manilva

2 wrongs don't make a right. Nuf said?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Echoing what everyone else has said. Seen it a few times. female sleeps with someone else in revenge and the lad she sleeps with gets a hiding from the husband/ boyfriend.

You got to remember that females/ males minds work differently in the fact that a guy, regardless of what he's done before will generally resort to violence to keep his ego intact!

However tempting it may, I'd avoid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Classic case for a jeremy kyle show.....no no and no.....stay away it will all backfire and like some have said friends dont ask that of friends.leave them to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need some advise really. This girl i sort of know has given me a proposal and i dont know what to do she is married to a little cheating twat who has done the dirty on her now 4 times she found out 3 days ago about the forth so has asked me to help her show her so called husband how it feels to have the dirty done on him to show him how it feels to see if it stops him or if not she is done so question is do i or dont i? "

There are some big hills not too far from Barnsley.

I suggest you run for them - quickly - and take your white steed and charger with you !

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

If you want to be a 'mate'.. Get her the number for the local solicitors that offers Free Legal Advice!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres big hills in barnsley where????? not seen any lived there 43 yrs....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"theres big hills in barnsley where????? not seen any lived there 43 yrs....lol

well, near barnsley

believe me, i've been stuck behind many a big truck schlepping across the woodhead pass to get to a meet !

and of course, set off on time, clear roads, but set off 15 mins late and find every slow moving truck in the north of england is going the same way as you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

woodheads bad best of times...nightmare.but dont you find when you need to get somewhere theres obstacles in your way...grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"woodheads bad best of times...nightmare.but dont you find when you need to get somewhere theres obstacles in your way...grrrr"

and of course, it such a good look turning up at a meet hyperventilating, ranting incessantly, dripping sweat off your forehead and in dire need of a brew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you want the guy or his mates to knock 7 bells out you then wire in !!!

are you serious !! avoid at all costs! you cant win here ! quite why you want to throw petrol on an already volatile situation is beyond me .

My thoughts exactly. I don't know why the op is even contemplating this...well I can sadly.

Seems that the op has already decided the husband is a cheating twat so feels obligated to step in and service the neglected wife.

Life's complicated enough...not for everyone it would seem!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Don't do it, it wont help any of you.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Do I, don't I.....

Don't!!

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By *--Cinders---Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

dont interfere..always two sides to a story...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had a good chat with her explained why i cant do it she understood completely and apologised for putting me in a akward situation and just to let you all know she has booted him out and been on the phone to get a divorce started on the grounds of adultry

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done her = and if you now sit back and let her go through the process, continue to be friends, you may one day get the 'benefits'!! good luck to the lady in question..

Her

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