FabSwingers.com forum: Sigh

By *amescouple OP Couple
over a year ago

north walsham

Ok a bit of a rant and a bit of a can you report/would you report post.

We have been chatting with a 'female' of a couple who said she wanted to play. Had a lot of msn chat and during this last week organised to meet last night.

Organised a baby sitter to have our little girl over night and arranged what she liked to drink and went out and bought some.

Then ofcourse, she failed to materialise. No messages, nothing on msn and a complete avoidance.

Normally i would palm this off as just another one of those things. But this person sat there whilst we were all chatting on cam andwatched us struggle to get a baby sitter.

Made a complete waste of a night kid free which doesnt happen very easily. When with a simple message we could have organised something else instead, a trip to tease or the likes. Grrr would/can you report a time waster like this? Or is it jsut a case of yet another lesson learnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have to say the latter. Put it down to experience and move on.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

grrrrr! i can empathise. i haven't got kids but many of my playmates have and when i have turned down a friend who has got an unexpected night without the kids for a new meet then i get left sat in pub on my own! just grrrrrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put it down to experiences and move on

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

That is so unfair .. what a shame.

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By *amescouple OP Couple
over a year ago

north walsham

We very much have a 'their loss' mentality now.

Just a annoyance having called in a favour for a overnight babysitter and spent money on white wine that we dont drink lol. Lokks like salmon in a white wine sauce for dinner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why it is good to arrange meets within a club as its not a wasted night if no show or don't click still loads of options to play and always a great night out.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

A bugger,but since u did all the right things,ie cammed to check she was real ect ect,think u are going to have to put it down to the fact there is nowt as queer as folk,

Btw...i prefer red wine if thats any better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We very much have a 'their loss' mentality now.

Just a annoyance having called in a favour for a overnight babysitter and spent money on white wine that we dont drink lol. Lokks like salmon in a white wine sauce for dinner."

save the wine and give it as a present for someone for Christmas x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why it is good to arrange meets within a club as its not a wasted night if no show or don't click still loads of options to play and always a great night out."

i agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have kids , my partner and I were suppose to meet someone last night but no show.. but we came home and had a nice night together their loss lol

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By *amescouple OP Couple
over a year ago

north walsham

Btw...i prefer red wine if thats any better

we'll remember that when we meet

although does rose do it for you as we have 3 of those too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

red gets me sooo d*unk and horny

white and rose and champagne im fine

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

simple ...report them. if you arrange a meet and the person doesnt turn up with no explsination or apologie why wouldnt you report it to stop it happening to someone else ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with temptress, report them. its peeps like that who spoil it for the genuine people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet cancel on me short notice and because

no1.i knew it wasn't a excuse

no2. i didn't loose money

no3. he let me know

i had no issue of it as i had communication, yes i was gutted but next time will be more fun x

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By *amescouple OP Couple
over a year ago

north walsham

we had no message or any comunication to say that it was off. If we had we could have done something else. We dont get a lot of it so our kid free time is valuable to us especially as a swing couple.

We understand that sometimes people have a problem or maybe even get nervous but just a message to say 'sorry cant make it' would be nice and doesnt take a lot of time or effort.

Looks like we may have a meet for next weekend though that does not require us getting a babysitter

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By *amescouple OP Couple
over a year ago

north walsham

On suggestion from people we have reported the person concerned. Hopefully it will help others avoid the same fate. But then theres nothing to stop them making a new profile i guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really not nice and no excuse for it. I cant understand why people arrange things when they know full well they wont turn up. But it will always happen unfortunately

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