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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’m 19 year old (birthday this sunday lol) (I know my profile says something different, but can’t change it)

And I’m kind of struggling, as one of my desires is to meet an older women and that’s already hard to find a women who’s interested in such a young guy, but that’s not the end, I’ll make it even harder, as lately I’ve got some more interests in watersports and I would to find a nice lady who I could try that with, any advices?

A nice message not always works, usually mine aren’t even read.

Thanks for any advices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a question, why did you put the wrong age in when you joined fab? I’ve always wondered why folk do this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Its a question of patience really. There are older women interested in young men and watersports. Nothing is guaranteed on fab though. Keep sending messages to people with the same interests and remain polite.

If you contact admin from the CONTACT button they might consider correcting your age for you.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can anyone give me advice as to what I doing wrong ?

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Ur 19 yrs old many folk on this site have kids ur age! I can talk for myself my son is 25 and a boy of 19 is a huge no! Im only talking about myself & my friends on fab " we look for men who are in their late 30s/40s bottom line ur a teenager and we all agree its no place for ur age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone give me advice as to what I doing wrong ? "

Make a thread and ask for advice x

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By *ur1ou2Man
over a year ago

Prudhoe

Get yourself off to Benidorm or somewhere similar

I’m sure you will find no difficulty getting off with older women

As for water sports - well depends what they are in to - you might need to do a specialist search for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ur 19 yrs old many folk on this site have kids ur age! I can talk for myself my son is 25 and a boy of 19 is a huge no! Im only talking about myself & my friends on fab " we look for men who are in their late 30s/40s bottom line ur a teenager and we all agree its no place for ur age! "

I don’t think it’s fair to say ‘we all agree’. However, 19 is extremely young. I’m aware that this will seem very hypocritical seeing as I’m 21, but I’m also married, been with my husband for seven years and started an open marriage a year ago. I personally wouldn’t meet with someone so young as I’m not attracted to them and to be honest, find them quite immature and bigheaded. However, there is something out there for everyone and there is bound to be women attracted to 19 year olds. If fab can’t chsnge your age (they should be able to if you contact them) then I would recommend making a new profile altogether. I hate it when men get around my filters by setting their age higher, just to confess their real age in their first message. (Not saying you done it intentionally).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone give me advice as to what I doing wrong ? "

You're not necessarily doing anything wrong. I don't know if I can comment on your profile.

Point is though, you're on a site where single males looking for females are far and away the vast majority. Maybe 100 males or more to every female. Some men here have been trying for months or longer, with no luck.

On top of this (no pun intended) you are looking for a particular type of female, i.e. one who is into much younger men and watersports too, which narrows your opportunities further. By a long way I would guess.

You've been here just a month. Maybe the person you're looking for will pop up tomorrow, maybe it will take months or years. But if you're depending on it happening quickly then I think you might well be disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone give me advice as to what I doing wrong ?

You're not necessarily doing anything wrong. I don't know if I can comment on your profile.

Point is though, you're on a site where single males looking for females are far and away the vast majority. Maybe 100 males or more to every female. Some men here have been trying for months or longer, with no luck.

On top of this (no pun intended) you are looking for a particular type of female, i.e. one who is into much younger men and watersports too, which narrows your opportunities further. By a long way I would guess.

You've been here just a month. Maybe the person you're looking for will pop up tomorrow, maybe it will take months or years. But if you're depending on it happening quickly then I think you might well be disappointed. "
. WATERSPORTS?? Not me ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"WATERSPORTS?? Not me ??"

Oh sorry. Was replying to OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"WATERSPORTS?? Not me ??

Oh sorry. Was replying to OP

"
. No problem thanks . X

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Ur 19 yrs old many folk on this site have kids ur age! I can talk for myself my son is 25 and a boy of 19 is a huge no! Im only talking about myself & my friends on fab " we look for men who are in their late 30s/40s bottom line ur a teenager and we all agree its no place for ur age!

Yes i will say we all agree " myself & friends on fab! Not u obv! How can i talk for u or other

folk!

I don’t think it’s fair to say ‘we all agree’. However, 19 is extremely young. I’m aware that this will seem very hypocritical seeing as I’m 21, but I’m also married, been with my husband for seven years and started an open marriage a year ago. I personally wouldn’t meet with someone so young as I’m not attracted to them and to be honest, find them quite immature and bigheaded. However, there is something out there for everyone and there is bound to be women attracted to 19 year olds. If fab can’t chsnge your age (they should be able to if you contact them) then I would recommend making a new profile altogether. I hate it when men get around my filters by setting their age higher, just to confess their real age in their first message. (Not saying you done it intentionally). "

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By *apstarMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

Yes 19 is young but age is just a number also I know older woman that have gone for people you're age but like is been said there is women on here with kids older than you..

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"So I’m 19 year old (birthday this sunday lol) (I know my profile says something different, but can’t change it)

And I’m kind of struggling, as one of my desires is to meet an older women and that’s already hard to find a women who’s interested in such a young guy, but that’s not the end, I’ll make it even harder, as lately I’ve got some more interests in watersports and I would to find a nice lady who I could try that with, any advices?

A nice message not always works, usually mine aren’t even read.

Thanks for any advices "

Most people usually read profiles first to see if messages are worth reading. If there’s any discrepancies within profiles, these are shown up as ‘red flags’, that could potentially put people off.

Contact admin by pressing the ‘report’ button, explaining that you wish to alter your age. I would also suggest removing where you say that you’re ‘20’ going on ‘21’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone give me advice as to what I doing wrong ?

Make a thread and ask for advice x"

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

You may find that folk who have conflicting bits of information on their profiles will automatically rule you out of their decision making. Contact Admin to correct your details or delete your profile & start again with the correct info. Hope this helps.

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