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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So last night we arranged a meet. We chatted via message they seemed really genuine. Hasten to they did not turn up. We feel really jaded by this it was our first meet outside of a club. Guess what am asking is how do you tell genuine people from arse holes?

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Really sorry to hear this OP. Did they have any verifications form meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re they verified by others?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Really sorry to hear this OP. Did they have any verifications form meets?

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Yes but hidden that was our first mistake I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We’re they verified by others?"

Hidden I get that now so mad at myself for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's such crappy behaviour

Not even a message to say "sorry, can't make it"?

Veris can help I guess, but even 20 verified meets is no guarantee that they haven't also done 40 no-shows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's such crappy behaviour

Not even a message to say "sorry, can't make it"?

Veris can help I guess, but even 20 verified meets is no guarantee that they haven't also done 40 no-shows.

Bit unsure if we will ever do that again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's such crappy behaviour

Not even a message to say "sorry, can't make it"?

Veris can help I guess, but even 20 verified meets is no guarantee that they haven't also done 40 no-shows.

Bit unsure if we will ever do that again "

Can't say I blame you. There are decent people who show up, or at least message in plenty of time if they can't make it.

Must admit though I go to a meet with at least a 50% expectation of being stood up, so I generally have a back up plan or at least am prepared to find something else to do for the evening.

That's one reason I tend to stick exclusively to local people, it's less hassle and disappointment if they don't show up.

Don’t let the idiots grind you down : ) x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's such crappy behaviour

Not even a message to say "sorry, can't make it"?

Veris can help I guess, but even 20 verified meets is no guarantee that they haven't also done 40 no-shows.

Bit unsure if we will ever do that again

Can't say I blame you. There are decent people who show up, or at least message in plenty of time if they can't make it.

Must admit though I go to a meet with at least a 50% expectation of being stood up, so I generally have a back up plan or at least am prepared to find something else to do for the evening.

That's one reason I tend to stick exclusively to local people, it's less hassle and disappointment if they don't show up.

Don’t let the idiots grind you down : ) x"

Thanks they were local

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I don't personally feel verifications always make a lot of difference. It's a tough one, just don't go to too much trouble,nor stick to clubs.

Hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the club. We have had couples and singles behave like that. We do report them but admin dont do much about it x

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

I’m one of those annoying people who hide their veri’s but I’m always happy to give names to cross check and display a summary briefly if folk have doubts. I’ve had no shows for a social from folk who have lots of veri’s, no veri’s and even folk who confirmed a couple of hours before the meeting time. Fortunately not many. I just log back in and send a nice polite message saying thanks which usually results in my being blocked! Ah well. I used to think I had a great radar for time wasters it very recently I’ve been let down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't personally feel verifications always make a lot of difference. It's a tough one, just don't go to too much trouble,nor stick to clubs.

Hugs x"

Good advice thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Join the club. We have had couples and singles behave like that. We do report them but admin dont do much about it x"

It was our first meet so knocked by it. Think we will stick to clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan
over a year ago

Northants

Hey, keep your chin up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey, keep your chin up!"

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