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Just turned 30..Is it truly all down hilll

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi people,

As above just turned 30.. just hit me...is it all Down hill from here or is that just aload of rubbish!!!

What am I to expect

????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God I wished I was 30 again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50 and my last few years have been the happiest so far

I just wish I had my 30 year old body so I could enjoy it more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a decade ahead of you, and life honestly gets better... you gain confidence, insight, comfort in your own skin... and you start to not care what others think of you so much

Happy birthday and just embrace it all!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hi people,

As above just turned 30.. just hit me...is it all Down hill from here or is that just aload of rubbish!!!

What am I to expect

????"

You don't know just how tempted i was to swear when i saw the thread title...

anyway... look forward to grey hair, and literally just falling asleep for no reason....

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By *oney1999Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Good age for men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy birthday to you

And congratulations on getting to 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi people,

As above just turned 30.. just hit me...is it all Down hill from here or is that just aload of rubbish!!!

What am I to expect

????

You don't know just how tempted i was to swear when i saw the thread title...

anyway... look forward to grey hair, and literally just falling asleep for no reason....

"

Exactly this!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Falling asleep for no reason.. been doing that since I was 25 tbh

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"God I wished I was 30 again!"

You have the body of a 30 year old tbf so your not doing to bad ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happy birthday to you

And congratulations on getting to 30 "

Cheers glad I made it too it’s gone so fast since I left school in 2004 I think haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel better at 40 than i did at 30. Much more centred too. It's definitely not downhill OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi people,

As above just turned 30.. just hit me...is it all Down hill from here or is that just aload of rubbish!!!

What am I to expect

????

You don't know just how tempted i was to swear when i saw the thread title...

anyway... look forward to grey hair, and literally just falling asleep for no reason....

"

Already fall asleep for no reason maybe since I was 25 ?? figured I’d be into golf by now haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel better at 40 than i did at 30. Much more centred too. It's definitely not downhill OP "

That’s good to know all I can think about is all the stuff I haven’t done ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel better at 40 than i did at 30. Much more centred too. It's definitely not downhill OP

That’s good to know all I can think about is all the stuff I haven’t done ??"

You can still do so many things. I think 30 is a tough one. I had a little meltdown, when i turned it. Then it no longer matters. You still look the same as you did at 29. It really is another day passing, it just feels worse because there is a new number attached.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel better at 40 than i did at 30. Much more centred too. It's definitely not downhill OP

That’s good to know all I can think about is all the stuff I haven’t done ??

You can still do so many things. I think 30 is a tough one. I had a little meltdown, when i turned it. Then it no longer matters. You still look the same as you did at 29. It really is another day passing, it just feels worse because there is a new number attached. "

Yeah true I guess there is a psychological element to it but............everyone is engaged / married or having kids ......,,,,, I’m on fan haha ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel better at 40 than i did at 30. Much more centred too. It's definitely not downhill OP

That’s good to know all I can think about is all the stuff I haven’t done ??

You can still do so many things. I think 30 is a tough one. I had a little meltdown, when i turned it. Then it no longer matters. You still look the same as you did at 29. It really is another day passing, it just feels worse because there is a new number attached.

Yeah true I guess there is a psychological element to it but............everyone is engaged / married or having kids ......,,,,, I’m on fan haha ??"

You still have time. Some of the ones who are engaged/married and having kids, are also probably on fab haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel better at 40 than i did at 30. Much more centred too. It's definitely not downhill OP

That’s good to know all I can think about is all the stuff I haven’t done ??

You can still do so many things. I think 30 is a tough one. I had a little meltdown, when i turned it. Then it no longer matters. You still look the same as you did at 29. It really is another day passing, it just feels worse because there is a new number attached.

Yeah true I guess there is a psychological element to it but............everyone is engaged / married or having kids ......,,,,, I’m on fan haha ??

You still have time. Some of the ones who are engaged/married and having kids, are also probably on fab haha "

Actually thAts most likely true ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel better at 40 than i did at 30. Much more centred too. It's definitely not downhill OP

That’s good to know all I can think about is all the stuff I haven’t done ??

You can still do so many things. I think 30 is a tough one. I had a little meltdown, when i turned it. Then it no longer matters. You still look the same as you did at 29. It really is another day passing, it just feels worse because there is a new number attached.

Yeah true I guess there is a psychological element to it but............everyone is engaged / married or having kids ......,,,,, I’m on fan haha ??

You still have time. Some of the ones who are engaged/married and having kids, are also probably on fab haha

Actually thAts most likely true ??"

I actually met someone on here and ended up having a relationship with him. We had a child together when i was 37. So you really do have time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel better at 40 than i did at 30. Much more centred too. It's definitely not downhill OP

That’s good to know all I can think about is all the stuff I haven’t done ??

You can still do so many things. I think 30 is a tough one. I had a little meltdown, when i turned it. Then it no longer matters. You still look the same as you did at 29. It really is another day passing, it just feels worse because there is a new number attached.

Yeah true I guess there is a psychological element to it but............everyone is engaged / married or having kids ......,,,,, I’m on fan haha ??

You still have time. Some of the ones who are engaged/married and having kids, are also probably on fab haha

Actually thAts most likely true ??

I actually met someone on here and ended up having a relationship with him. We had a child together when i was 37. So you really do have time "

I don't mean you have to meet someone here mind haha. I just meant that 30 is still young

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel better at 40 than i did at 30. Much more centred too. It's definitely not downhill OP

That’s good to know all I can think about is all the stuff I haven’t done ??

You can still do so many things. I think 30 is a tough one. I had a little meltdown, when i turned it. Then it no longer matters. You still look the same as you did at 29. It really is another day passing, it just feels worse because there is a new number attached.

Yeah true I guess there is a psychological element to it but............everyone is engaged / married or having kids ......,,,,, I’m on fan haha ??

You still have time. Some of the ones who are engaged/married and having kids, are also probably on fab haha

Actually thAts most likely true ??

I actually met someone on here and ended up having a relationship with him. We had a child together when i was 37. So you really do have time

I don't mean you have to meet someone here mind haha. I just meant that 30 is still young "

I get what you mean still time!! Anything can happen!

You don’t look 40 btw :p

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

Age is only a number if you want to be a feel young do activities to incorporate that. Only as young as the woman you feel lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel better at 40 than i did at 30. Much more centred too. It's definitely not downhill OP

That’s good to know all I can think about is all the stuff I haven’t done ??

You can still do so many things. I think 30 is a tough one. I had a little meltdown, when i turned it. Then it no longer matters. You still look the same as you did at 29. It really is another day passing, it just feels worse because there is a new number attached.

Yeah true I guess there is a psychological element to it but............everyone is engaged / married or having kids ......,,,,, I’m on fan haha ??

You still have time. Some of the ones who are engaged/married and having kids, are also probably on fab haha

Actually thAts most likely true ??

I actually met someone on here and ended up having a relationship with him. We had a child together when i was 37. So you really do have time

I don't mean you have to meet someone here mind haha. I just meant that 30 is still young

I get what you mean still time!! Anything can happen!

You don’t look 40 btw :p"

Haha thanks. I still sometimes get ID'd in pubs... That's fun and a boost to the old ego .

I'm glad you knew what I meant. I hope it's made you feel better about hitting the 30 milestone haha.

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

That’s attribute to the good genes your parents give ya lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s attribute to the good genes your parents give ya lol "

Exactly haha. It was a nightmare growing up. I was always called cute, because i looked so young. I feel i look better now, than i did when i was younger, strangely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel better at 40 than i did at 30. Much more centred too. It's definitely not downhill OP

That’s good to know all I can think about is all the stuff I haven’t done ??

You can still do so many things. I think 30 is a tough one. I had a little meltdown, when i turned it. Then it no longer matters. You still look the same as you did at 29. It really is another day passing, it just feels worse because there is a new number attached.

Yeah true I guess there is a psychological element to it but............everyone is engaged / married or having kids ......,,,,, I’m on fan haha ??

You still have time. Some of the ones who are engaged/married and having kids, are also probably on fab haha

Actually thAts most likely true ??

I actually met someone on here and ended up having a relationship with him. We had a child together when i was 37. So you really do have time

I don't mean you have to meet someone here mind haha. I just meant that 30 is still young

I get what you mean still time!! Anything can happen!

You don’t look 40 btw :p

Haha thanks. I still sometimes get ID'd in pubs... That's fun and a boost to the old ego .

I'm glad you knew what I meant. I hope it's made you feel better about hitting the 30 milestone haha. "

I got ID’d today as well ??

Yeah does a lil cheers friend ?? I guess it’s not to bad after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s attribute to the good genes your parents give ya lol

Exactly haha. It was a nightmare growing up. I was always called cute, because i looked so young. I feel i look better now, than i did when i was younger, strangely "

My dad is in his mid sixties and still looks in his forties haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel better at 40 than i did at 30. Much more centred too. It's definitely not downhill OP

That’s good to know all I can think about is all the stuff I haven’t done ??

You can still do so many things. I think 30 is a tough one. I had a little meltdown, when i turned it. Then it no longer matters. You still look the same as you did at 29. It really is another day passing, it just feels worse because there is a new number attached.

Yeah true I guess there is a psychological element to it but............everyone is engaged / married or having kids ......,,,,, I’m on fan haha ??

You still have time. Some of the ones who are engaged/married and having kids, are also probably on fab haha

Actually thAts most likely true ??

I actually met someone on here and ended up having a relationship with him. We had a child together when i was 37. So you really do have time

I don't mean you have to meet someone here mind haha. I just meant that 30 is still young

I get what you mean still time!! Anything can happen!

You don’t look 40 btw :p

Haha thanks. I still sometimes get ID'd in pubs... That's fun and a boost to the old ego .

I'm glad you knew what I meant. I hope it's made you feel better about hitting the 30 milestone haha.

I got ID’d today as well ??

Yeah does a lil cheers friend ?? I guess it’s not to bad after all"

Oooh see? You still look young .

It will just get better from now on. Trust me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in my 50's and have to say life is good , I don't care about stuff anymore , get on with enjoying life ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life got soooooooo much better after 30!!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Hi people,

As above just turned 30.. just hit me...is it all Down hill from here or is that just aload of rubbish!!!

What am I to expect

????"

That depends on you you life is just starting, live it to the full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep it's all down hill from now on fella ...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hi people,

As above just turned 30.. just hit me...is it all Down hill from here or is that just aload of rubbish!!!

What am I to expect

????

You don't know just how tempted i was to swear when i saw the thread title...

anyway... look forward to grey hair, and literally just falling asleep for no reason....

"
pmsl, I did that yesterday

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Fuck no!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

What?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God I wished I was 30 again!"

You're only as old as the person you're feeling. Wanna feel 31?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy birthday OP!

I'm 39 now and I can honestly say my 30s have been the best years of my life so far.

If I could rewind my life, I'd truly only rewind back as far as 30!

Mrs

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

The flirty 30s weren't bad.

But the naughty 40s is definitely better!

Enjoy OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happy birthday OP!

I'm 39 now and I can honestly say my 30s have been the best years of my life so far.

If I could rewind my life, I'd truly only rewind back as far as 30!

Mrs "

Cheers ?? that’s good to know maybe it will turn out ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The flirty 30s weren't bad.

But the naughty 40s is definitely better!

Enjoy OP "

Cheers, think I’ll try enjoy my 30s first haha

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"The flirty 30s weren't bad.

But the naughty 40s is definitely better!

Enjoy OP "

I'll second that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The flirty 30s weren't bad.

But the naughty 40s is definitely better!

Enjoy OP

I'll second that!"

Just wait, the nifty fifties are even better

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"The flirty 30s weren't bad.

But the naughty 40s is definitely better!

Enjoy OP

I'll second that!

Just wait, the nifty fifties are even better "

I'm not far off reaching them... I plan on being very nifty xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God I wished I was 30 again!"

You have a better figure than most women of 30.

OP

Age doesn't matter too much, its attitude and aptitude.

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Im 47 and my 40s have been the best! My son is big and my life started at 40! Ur 30! Ur still a babba lol x

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

It depends how you negotiate the hill young man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes....join a monastary now....

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"Hi people,

As above just turned 30.. just hit me...is it all Down hill from here or is that just aload of rubbish!!!

What am I to expect

????"
you havnt got half way up the hill yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Life is what you make it OP

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Happy birthday OP! I had a massive wobble about turning 30 but its only been good since then! In fact, now I'm over 40, I'm more confident and having a much better time than I ever did before! Age really is just a number. Think you're missing out on doing some things? Trust me, there is plenty of time! Relationships aren't all plain sailing. Go do something crazy this year because you're single and you can!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends how you negotiate the hill young man "

True true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes....join a monastary now...."

?? don’t think I’m that old, don’t think I could just stick to them image of Mary either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

after turning 30 you will have plenty health problems, doubts... be prepared for the worst...

You were born to die so stop moaning and enjoy your time left like is your last day of your existence

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Hi people,

As above just turned 30.. just hit me...is it all Down hill from here or is that just aload of rubbish!!!

What am I to expect

????"

Yep! but only if you let it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no, I've had an immense amount of fun since I turned 40. Embrace the 'flirty thirties'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"after turning 30 you will have plenty health problems, doubts... be prepared for the worst...

You were born to die so stop moaning and enjoy your time left like is your last day of your existence "

I guess I still have all my hair so that’s a bonus for now

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

God my 30's have been amazing...

Just getting worried my 40's won't be able to match them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, you're fooked

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I didn’t notice anything until I got to 45, then I was suddenly out of loads of people’s age ranges.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Loved my 30s have them back any day

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We're so far down the hill we've started to come back up the other side. In your 30s you don't realise how young you are until you're in your 60s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might start a new thread....'Best attention seeking thread you've seen on here?'

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I might start a new thread....'Best attention seeking thread you've seen on here?'

"

We're all here to draw attention to ourselves aren't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty thirties are amazing so far. It's a prime time of life so grab it and enjoy it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I might start a new thread....'Best attention seeking thread you've seen on here?'

"

ah you got me haha

Tbh didn’t think this would still be going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi people,

As above just turned 30.. just hit me...is it all Down hill from here or is that just aload of rubbish!!!

What am I to expect

????"

It gets better, the saying life begins at 40 was especially true for me.

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By *orn_To_PerformCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Physically it’s all downhill (you just don’t bounce back as easily or as quickly), but experience makes everything else much better

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"God I wished I was 30 again!"

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Physically it’s all downhill (you just don’t bounce back as easily or as quickly), but experience makes everything else much better "

Speak for yourself... I bounce pretty easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi people,

As above just turned 30.. just hit me...is it all Down hill from here or is that just aload of rubbish!!!

What am I to expect

????"

You've had your chance to go to heaven. Everything from this point takes you deeper in hell

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

No.

As a man your sexual market value only increases further.

You have another 15 years or so of being able to appeal to a large range of women age wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi people,

As above just turned 30.. just hit me...is it all Down hill from here or is that just aload of rubbish!!!

What am I to expect

????"

Yeah it's all shit from here on. I'd pack up and go home now if I were you

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