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When is the best time to offer a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

The question is in the title!! I mean,after how many messages can you talk about the possibility of a meet? And of course, should I offer a social or say "my bed is open"? (I know the answer for this one)

(One day, thanks to your advices, I'll become the perfect swinger, Mouaahahahahaahaaa *evil laugh* )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you get a feeling when its right to ask about a meet. each person is different some will be happy to meet quicker than others social first best choice.

have fun chill and be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you get a feeling when its right to ask about a meet. each person is different some will be happy to meet quicker than others social first best choice.

have fun chill and be yourself"

+1

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Ask the person/persons your talking to? Tell them you'd like to talk about a meet but your not sure how they like to handle their meets?

Personnally we like to exchange a few messages then we usually know if we would like to meet them. After all it's much easier to get to know people face to face. Even if it's a social meet.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

A really good question.....I struggle with this in general. I am not the most assertive person. At first, and it has taken me a number of chats before I get the picture that someone is interested.

I find it a hard line

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Hi all,

The question is in the title!! I mean,after how many messages can you talk about the possibility of a meet? And of course, should I offer a social or say "my bed is open"? (I know the answer for this one)

(One day, thanks to your advices, I'll become the perfect swinger, Mouaahahahahaahaaa *evil laugh* ) "

It depends who you are talking to and what their profile says, we dont do socials for mmf,so first message is fine so long as you say more than fancy a fuck.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Not when your in cancun and everyone else 6000 miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends how the conversation is going and if its going the way you both want no harm in putting it in the conversation

ive met afetr a few days and weeks and months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 9pm.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

9 pm is good or watch a few James Bond films.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the responses you get doesn't it. If he/she/they don't fancy you or you don't fit their criteria, there is no point in mentioning meeting is there? Lets face it some people don't get it after a few messages that I am not going to meet them, which is why I have said what I have said.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

how meny messages before you ask about meeting ? 10 ! below 9 is too pushy and after 10 they are time wasters !

being serious, you can not possibly put a set limit on when a person feels comfortable to meet . some people i have felt very relaxed with quite quickly ,others took much longer. you can only ever go with the flow of the conversation and if feels right then offer a meet . if person say no fine if not then let fun commence !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"how meny messages before you ask about meeting ? 10 ! below 9 is too pushy and after 10 they are time wasters !

being serious, you can not possibly put a set limit on when a person feels comfortable to meet . some people i have felt very relaxed with quite quickly ,others took much longer. you can only ever go with the flow of the conversation and if feels right then offer a meet . if person say no fine if not then let fun commence !!!! "

Yeah, I guess it depends on the mood... For exemple, someone I talked to yesterday offered me to "fuck her sneseless" within the next hour...

Well, I guess I'm asking myself too much questions!! Should relax after all...

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