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By *hadyguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Wooler

Do women really like this or is it a myth

Also ideas of what to use except the usual paddle and their hand

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, some women really do enjoy being spanked.

As for what to use have a look on Lovehoney and have a look at household items that can be put to imaginative use.

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

I love Mr putting me over his knee & spanking me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being spanked.

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By *anandLeia72Couple
over a year ago

St. Helens

Love it. For me it's about context and a state of mind thing though.

Leia

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Yes, some women really do enjoy being spanked.

As for what to use have a look on Lovehoney and have a look at household items that can be put to imaginative use."

A rolled up newspaper

Wooden spoon

Spatula

Slipper

Belt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the right person i can almost cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer bare handed spanking and I have been known to orgasm from just spanking before

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Spanking is a stunning play into even more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, some women really do enjoy being spanked.

As for what to use have a look on Lovehoney and have a look at household items that can be put to imaginative use.

A rolled up newspaper

Wooden spoon

Spatula

Slipper

Belt

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Hand... wet or oiled on a wet/oiled arse cheek gives a very good result.

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By *humper9erMan
over a year ago

Rocklin

My f b likes to be spanked, but, it can't be fake spanking. It must make her cry and cry hard! She choose a belt, for me to use on her the first time. She broke a glass and she old me that when she was home, a broken glass got the guilty party 8 wacks of the ping pong paddle, or, 5 good welts with a 2"wide leather belt. The last time she broke a drinking glass, when she was 19 and living at home, her dad bent her over the back of their couch, pulled down her shorts and panties and used his belt on her!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Do women really like this or is it a myth

Also ideas of what to use except the usual paddle and their hand"

I like to spank, and with the right person I like to be spanked.Not many people are good at it tho.

Think I've only met two. And fuck, were they good.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

It’s not about causing a pain, it a juxtaposition of impact and soothing, well until there is a point where it doesn’t matter to the sub.

Then care really matters.

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By *s1212Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

My wife loves a good spanking.

Actually surprised me how much she can endure!

I've had to tell guys to stop beating her with a crop or belt because I found it uncomfortable to view but when I asked my wife afterwards, she said she was enjoying it but felt good that I was there to police it

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Tawse,cane ,Canadian prison strap ,Chain whip ,Birch

..the last three are extreme implements and not for the faint hearted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, some women really do like spanking. It's just rare to find someone who is good at it and can play with the whole range of sensations that you can create just with your hand.

Some good comments already with suggestions for tools to paddle, cane, crop...strike the bottom with...depending on whether you are creating a thud or sting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once thought it was a myth until I met a girl who adored it...the harder the better. It went against my moral compass at first but seeing how much she loved it and treasured it was a beautiful thing...

....creating that trust takes your relationship to another level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, hand, flogger, riding crop mmmm. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanking,whipping,flogging using a paddle I like them all especially when my man grabs me and tells me to be a good girl or else I'm getting punished .so I be naughty whilst I'm tied up so he does it hard, it sends the most amazing tingling sensation throughout my body which turns me on so much. Have been known to cum through being spanked as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love having my arse spanked by a sexy lady love spanking one too! Yay for spanking

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By *RealHandfulWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

When it’s done properly, I’d say it’s more important to me than penetrative sex!!

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By *oney1999Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I love it.

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By *ykmwyldTV/TS
over a year ago

Belpre

Absolutely they enjoy it, when done properly of course ; ) , but the problem is finding someone that knows the proper way to inflict sensual pain. It has to sting a good amount, or lets face it, it's just not being punished. It has to be done Domineeringly forceful, so she can actually enjoy her submissive inner desires, that she doesn't normally show on a regular basis lol. My advice for the guys, learn how to do it right, and also learn when to do it, you'll know by how she is acting. Be observant guys, it really not that hard to tell lol.

Just some suggestions to mix things up guys. Use one of her belts, not yours, and make her get it for you. Or, make her bring you her hair brush. This has a double benefit for you, first, it's something new for her, which is always a plus, and second, if you do a really good job, she will be thinking about it whenever she uses either ; ) . It's a win win for the both of you ; ) !

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Love it. For me it's about context and a state of mind thing though.

Leia "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most questions asked in the forums... the stock answer is that some do and some don’t

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

As a caveat, I would encourage good two-way communication, and trust in eachother is essential.

Understand eachother's limits, use safewords, and aftercare is vital.

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By *exymatcplMan
over a year ago

doncaster

Had a thing with a BBW who loved spanking and going home marked to her hubby love bites on her neck and tits, hand marks on her lovely ass as well as a creampie for him to eat

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By *lirtyskirtTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Never realised I might enjoy being on the receiving end of a spanking, but there you have it, now I do

Love the bare handed, flesh on flesh, zing of it I guess.

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By *averingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

romford

Pain is a pleasure if administered properly...ms likes it more after alcohol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a woman with a big bum to spank

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By *averingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

romford

Any size is perfect! I love it when a spankee is getting so aroused that she starts dripping her excitement...and the spanking continues! mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to find a woman to spank. From a little light play to discipline scenarios

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Yes I love a spanking.

Bare handed, belt, paddle and crop.

I love the release of endorphins.

And the pretty marks afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind a little spanking, and a riding crop can be very useful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind a little spanking, and a riding crop can be very useful."

The riding crop is my favourite implement....its so versatile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I love a spanking.

Bare handed, belt, paddle and crop.

I love the release of endorphins.

And the pretty marks afterwards "

Oh YES

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Do women really like this or is it a myth

Also ideas of what to use except the usual paddle and their hand"

It’s a myth, experience tells me

If done right, with the right partner... it is stunning.

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By *un4meanduMan
over a year ago

STOTFOLD

Had a fb for a while loved spanking , warm up with bare hand not forgetting to lightly rub over the area with tips of fingers in between working up through soft paddle then hard paddle ending with a whip/ paddle I made with willow about 2 foot long and makes a lovely noise each time it hit her arse , when she moved away insisted on keeping it as made her cum every time

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By *illowzWoman
over a year ago

Exeter

I absolutely love it. Especially while I'm having sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I love a spanking.

Bare handed, belt, paddle and crop.

I love the release of endorphins.

And the pretty marks afterwards

Oh YES "

I love the marks....and seeing them the next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard impact spanking

Soft impact spanking

Whippy stinging spanking

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By *oisineandAlCouple
over a year ago

limerick

Hairbrush

Ruler

Etc

And I enjoy spanking a man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good spanking if i've been naughty or just for the fun, we have a paddle, floggers, riding crop, ruler, belt. Anything really!

Louise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it! T can whip the hell out of my ass with the flogger and I am one happy girl being tied up at the same time also adds to the excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I'm not really into it, my girlfriend loves it! The harder the better is her motto!

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By *_and_LCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Love it when himself spanks me. Flogger, paddle, hand... it’s all good. If he leaves a good bruise, all the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanking and Nipple play are great erotic teasers in any hot session - but its better if it both doing it to each other, when I was at all male session (I am bisexual), I suggested a bit of spanking would be nice, but this guy , well let into my arse - hurt like mad

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

The act of submitting yourself to be spanked is the best bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I LOVE being spanked, especially by another female. Even more so when she alternates the spanks with stroking and kissing

Miss V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it’s done properly, I’d say it’s more important to me than penetrative sex!! "

Totally agree

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country


"Yes, some women really do enjoy being spanked.

As for what to use have a look on Lovehoney and have a look at household items that can be put to imaginative use.

A rolled up newspaper

Wooden spoon

Spatula

Slipper

Belt

"

Wooden spoons are so much fun...I think the only one I've not tried is a rolled up newspaper.

Ss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I LOVE being spanked - especially if fingers "accidentally" tickle my slit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love spanking, mixing it up and after care is very important

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country


"Love spanking, mixing it up and after care is very important "

Absolutely. It's a given.

Ss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love spanking. Hubby has used his belt, paddle, strop and a riding crop which he actually broke when spanking me I do love it

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

We both love it, especially My partner as she can almost orgasm if it's done right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg my lass loves it paddle whip hand and the cane think my fav is when I hit her pussy hard it makes her cum big time x

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Yes, some women really do enjoy being spanked.

As for what to use have a look on Lovehoney and have a look at household items that can be put to imaginative use.

A rolled up newspaper

Wooden spoon

Spatula

Slipper

Belt

Wooden spoons are so much fun...I think the only one I've not tried is a rolled up newspaper.

Ss"

As Victoria Wood sang -

Spank me on the bum with a Woman’s Weekly!

Spanking is fun giving and receiving

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country


"Yes, some women really do enjoy being spanked.

As for what to use have a look on Lovehoney and have a look at household items that can be put to imaginative use.

A rolled up newspaper

Wooden spoon

Spatula

Slipper

Belt

Wooden spoons are so much fun...I think the only one I've not tried is a rolled up newspaper.

Ss

As Victoria Wood sang -

Spank me on the bum with a Woman’s Weekly!

Spanking is fun giving and receiving "

* Nips to the shop for Woman's weekly*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love spanking, mixing it up and after care is very important

Absolutely. It's a given.

Ss "

For sure Ss

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